Yoo, ukuri gukubitwa no gusuzugurwa mumiryango yabagore na ba nyina biracyariho kenshi. Itangazamakuru rihora rigaragara mu nkuru zizwi, zifite ubwenge, nziza kandi zifite impano zabaye ikuzimu mu muriromo, cyangwa ngo wabe igitambo cyo kwiyongera gutunguranye kumuntu ukunda.
Ninde uri mu itsinda, uburyo bwo kwirinda umubano nk'uwo mu muryango we, uwo mbere na bose bagomba kwikuramo Tirana "ikigo cya psychologue" ibi byafashijwe na psychologue "ibi byafashijwe na psychologue" ibi bifasha "ikigo cya psychologue" ikigo gishinzwe gufasha umuryango nabana "alis Altergott.
Yizera ko ari ngombwa gusiga umuntu byibuze wemeye ko uzamura ukuboko, kuko, nk'ubutegetsi, bizasubiramo rwose. Kwiyubaha kwawe bizagenda kuva buri gihe no kwiheba bizavuka, bizaganisha ku zindi ndwara kandi birashoboka, kwiyahura.
Birumvikana ko hari ibibazo iyo umugabo atinya gutakaza ababo, abandi, ariko, ikibabaje, ni gake.
Umuziki-umunyagitugu asabwa ubufasha bwo mumitekerereze yo guhinduka. No mu Burusiya, ibi ntibyemewe. "Ndi iki, ndarira cyangwa icyo kujya muri psychologue?" - Rero rwinshi rutekereza. Kora gahunda hamwe ninzobere kandi ugirire inama kubagabo akenshi usuzugurwa.
Hariho abagore, muburyo bwabo bwo mumitekerereze, bafite amahirwe menshi yo kuba igitambo cya Tyran. Bashingiye cyane kuri mugenzi wabo, baharanira gusesa umuntu, ntubone umuntu wihariye. Byateganijwe, barashobora kwitwa "abategarugori", bashaka gushimisha uwo bakundana, kumugirana, ariko ntawe ukunda abagore nkabo.
Bitunguranye ko byabaye ko wakundanye, ariko umuntu ntarifite, ntabwo ari ngombwa kumushaka. Birakenewe kubona ikindi kintu, kuko, nk'ubutegetsi, umufasha azakumva hejuru yawe kandi akagusuzugura. Urukundo rugomba kuba rwihishwa, rushingiye ku cyubahiro no kwihesha agaciro buri mufatanyabikorwa, gusa noneho uzaba umuryango wishimye.
Ukeneye gusiga umugabo byibuze yigeze kwemerera kuzamura ikiganza cyawe
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Akenshi, abagore ubwabo ntibashobora kwikuramo urukundo nkurwo rwo kwihangana. Noneho ugomba gushaka ubufasha mumitekerereze.
Ibumoso wenyine hamwe nikibazo cye, umugore ntashobora kwihanganira, ni imbere yikibazo kandi ntabona gusohoka. Gusa umuhanga mugutezimbere azi ibisubizo. Ahinduka umuyobozi. Abagore bamwe bagomba gusaba psychotherapiste kugirango imiti ishyigikire imiti niba isanzwe yihebye, ifatwa nkibiyobyabwenge gusa.
Kenshi na kenshi, abagore bakuze mumuryango usa bahohotewe mu ngo, bazi icyitegererezo nkimyitwarire nkiyi. Mu byukuri yari ateye ubwoba, afite ubwoba, ariko ntibabonye indi myitwarire. Kubwamahirwe, inzozi zimwe nyuma yimuriwe mu gukura.
Byongeye kandi, societe dukuramo, nayo ishyiraho ikimenyetso gikomeye. N'ubundi kandi, kuva hakiri kare, abarimu bakunze kututabara, barashobora kunyeganyeza mu ivuriro, nyirakuru ku muryango uvuga kwitwara no kwambara. Turahora dusuzugurwa, kandi biba ibisanzwe, dutangira kwizera ko bikwiye kuri twe.
Birumvikana ko kugirango ugerageze ubanza kwiteranya umubano numuntu utakubaha.
Kugirango ukore ibi, mbere ya byose, ugomba kureba umubano mumuryango wuwatoranijwe, nkuko bafata mama. Ni ngombwa cyane uburyo yabanje kuba uwanyu. Niba umugabo yemeye kureka urwenya rwo gusuzugura muri aderesi yawe, ntakwitayeho, arashobora gusuzugura inshuti, ntugomba gukomeza iyi mibanire.
Undi mugore ugezweho ntagomba kwishingikiriza ku mugabo, birakenewe gusa kugira umwuga uteganijwe, kandi amazu aho ashobora guhora.
Kandi ntukeneye gutakaza kwihesha agaciro kandi ukemerera abandi kubana nawe ubwawe udakwiriye.