Umugore ugezweho muri iki gihe agerageza gutsinda mu nzego nyinshi z'ubuzima. Kandi azi neza ibyo umuntu agomba kuba iruhande rwe, ayiha imico yose myiza. Ariko, nkuko ukuri k'ubuzima ibigaragaza, hari abagabo badahuye n'igitekerezo cye. Kuki abagore bakurura "abagabo babo"? Niki bakeneye kumenya gukurura neza icyo azishimira? Hariho ubwoko bwinshi bwo guhuza byombi. Kandi mbere yo guhamagara umuntu "kandi ibyiringiro bye nicyizere hamwe na we, wige ubuzima bwe kandi ugereranye nuwawe.
Ubwoko bwa nimero ihuza 1. "Umugabo ugendanwa n'abakozi"
Umugore wahohotewe - Magnet kubagabo "IT"
Amateka 1: Ubucuruzi numugore wigunze hamwe numuryango wose wabagabo umaze gukura bahisemo kubyara. Nashakaga umukobwa, umuhungu aragenda. Amaze kuba nyina, yahisemo gukora umuntu mwiza ku bantu bishimye. Yaramwitayeho cyane, amutwara mu ruziga rwose, yahaye abarezi, muri rusange, yamuhaye inyigisho nziza, muri rusange, yabayeho kuri we gusa, kuri we, kandi yari ashaka Yabasangiye. Yavuze ati: "Mama wenyine, n'abagore benshi. Mama ntabwo agusaba nabi, umva mama kandi byose bizakubera byiza! " Yashyize mubikorwa byimazeyo ibyifuzo bya nyina nyina kutababara, kuko ari ishema ryanjye! Yamaze gutsinda mu kigo runaka cy'ubushakashatsi, yarwanyije akandida we, hari ibikorwa bya siyansi, gusohora. Ariko igihe kiragenda, kandi nyina asanzwe yitegura isi y'abandi kandi agomba kurenga umuhungu mu maboko meza, kubera ko akeneye kwitabwaho. Mu myaka yashize, umugabo yamaze kumenyera gukora, nuko nyina ashakisha umuhungu, kuberako aziranye, "ukuboko" kandi afite uburiganya, nta na nyirabuja, amwigisha byose, aramwigisha byose, aramwigisha byose, aramwigisha byose ko akunda, kandi agaha umuhungu we mumaboko meza.
Nk'ubutegetsi, aba bagore bafite irungu cyane kandi birababaje, hamwe no gutura, abahohotewe, nkaho ari - amahirwe ye ya nyuma. Ubwoko nk'ubwo bw'abagore bazishimira gukorera, kwita no kwigomwa, kuko batazi gufata no kubaza, kuko byatejwe imbere na Syndrome ya Cinderella.
Ubwoko bwa comptality numero 2
Umuyobozi wumugore - Magnet kubagabo "Abahungu ba Mamajna"
Amateka 2: Mu muryango, aho umuyobozi wa Mama, abana babiri bakura - umuhungu n'umukobwa. Ariko kubera impamvu runaka, Mama yahisemo ko umukobwa we kuva kuva mu bwana yigenga cyane, kandi Umwana ni "umurizo wa nyina". Urukundo rwinshi, rukunda guhobera, gufatanya no guhora wakira ibintu byose - bitandukanye na mushiki we ukora ibyo byose wenyine. Uyu musore yakuze kandi akurira mu musore mwiza udashoboye gufata ibyemezo no gusubiza ibisubizo. Ni umunebwe, akunda kandi arashima. Gukurura ibitekerezo byabagore bakora (nkumubyeyi), burigihe uhora ushima kandi wishimire. Akunda kwicara ku ijosi no guhumeka amaguru. Niba byunguka, arashobora kwitondera cyane, gukunda, kwishimira. Buri gihe shaka urwitwazo rwo kudakora ikintu icyo aricyo cyose. Agomba gushishimushirizwa cyane kuburyo yakoze ikintu. "Umuhungu wa Mamenkin" ntacyo ukora kugira ngo akore ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose! Ariko ahora asaba, kandi ubuhanga kandi, nkuko bisanzwe, ibintu byose bigenda.
Abagabo nk'abo bakurura abayobozi ("Mommies"), abagore batishimye bafite isura "ntibiza"; Bose barabizi kandi bahora batanga inama, nubwo batabababaza, gukunda "kuba abanyabwenge" no gukora byose bonyine. Bafite ubwonko - akarere ka erorous! Kandi niba abantu be batanze ubufasha, hanyuma, nk'uko ari itegeko, agira ati: "Nanjye ubwanjye!"
Ubwoko bwo guhuza nimero 3
Umugore w'umunyabwenge - Magnet kubayobozi bagabo "Abayobozi"
AMATEKA 3: Umuhungu yakuze mumuryango aho Mama-Umuyobozi. Kuva mu bwana, yabonye nyina benshi, arambirwa, kandi kuri Se w'ibyiringiro nta byiringiro (ibinyobwa, akenshi bitakaza akazi, impinduka, akenshi zirashira). Yicujije mama agira ati: "Iyo nkuriye, nzakwitaho kandi ngufashe ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose." Umuhungu yakuze akava mu muryango kugira ngo yige kuba umuntu, kubera ko se atari urugero rwo kwigana. Yubaha cyane abagore kandi ahora atanga ubufasha bwe. Arongira ko mumuryango we umuyobozi yari umuyobozi, kandi akora ibyo abagore byose bikenewe, arabikiza kandi ko ari ngombwa. Ijya ku myuga y'abantu: umwunganizi, umuganga, igisirikare, umupolisi, ibikorwa by'ibihe byihutirwa, FSB, Umuriro, Umuryango w'Abagasi, Umuyobozi wa Sisitemu; Abona abarimu bafite imico igaragara kugirango basimbuze se kandi bigisha kuba umuyobozi. Kuri aba bagabo ("ibihimba"), nta kintu na kimwe gikenewe niba umwe agumye, ubwo ubuzima bwabo bwarananiranye. Abagabo rero bakeneye kumenya abagore ubutwari bwabo. Bahora bakeneye gushishikariza ibikorwa no kwishimira ubushobozi bwabo nibikorwa byabo.
Hamwe nubu bwoko bwabagabo, umugore w'umunyabwenge arahujwe n'umugore uzi ubwenge uzi uburyo bwo gutera inkunga kandi yishimira umugabo. Niba kandi umuyobozi aguye, birashoboka cyane nka se, haba, cyangwa kugenda.
Ubwoko bwumubare wa 4
Umugore ufite intege nke - Magnet kubagabo "UKURI"
Amateka 4: Umuhungu yakuze mumuryango, aho papa ari umuyobozi, kandi ni samuragwa we, yizeye gukomeza gukora ubucuruzi bwumuryango. Afite imico yubuyobozi bwuzuye aho ari byinshi! Kandi uruhare rwumugore we nukuri. Byaba byiza bigomba kuba isugi, kugirango ugaragare imbere ye iyo abishaka, kandi abyare umuhungu muzima. Ibisubizo byingenzi byose bifata, igitekerezo cyumugore ntikibaza. Agomba kuba, reba neza, burigihe kugirango ube mwiza, udafite umutwe, winjire mu kurera abana kandi utabaza ibibazo byubupfu: "Uzagusaba ryari?" Burigihe !!! Nk'ubutegetsi, aba bagore ntibakora kandi bafite ubushobozi bw'abagabo babo, kuko bagomba guhura n'umwanya we.
Hamwe nubu bwoko bwabagabo, abagore bahuye n'intege nke muri kamere, biteguye kumenyera, ntibivuga igitekerezo cyawe. Muri iki gihe, abagabo bafite imico y'ubuyobozi.
Gufata imyanzuro, abakobwa bakundwa! Uri nde kandi icyo kigufata ... wibuke ibyo bihindura gusa, duhindura imyifatire kuri twe ubwacu, bityo tukurura abandi bagabo.
Kandi niba uko nyuma yiyi ngingo yahisemo guhindura iherezo ryawe, hanyuma Kora ibikurikira:
1. Andika imico 5 yabagabo mwagize umubano, kora isesengura ryimibanire yashize kugirango wumve uwo ukurura.
2. Andika 5 kuri "imico yawe" yumuntu utunganye ushaka guhura.
3. Uhereye ku mwanya wa "" abagabo be b'intangaruze ngo: "Kandi ni uwuhe mugore akeneye?"
4. Andika 5 mumico yawe nyamukuru ishobora gushimishwa numugabo.
5. Gisesengura icyo umugore akeneye umuntu wawe utunganye kandi ko ushobora gutanga uyu mugabo. Isubize nk'ikibazo, ukurikije igitekerezo cy'umugore ku muntu wawe utunganye n'icyo ukeneye gukora? Niki ukeneye kwiga kutabisobanura? Kutubahiriza gutegereza biganisha ku bwigunge.