1. Abagabo bafite amafaranga make
Nibisanzwe cyane kuburyo amafaranga yinjiza numugabo muto kurenza uko ushobora gutanga ibyawe. Ibi nibisanzwe, kuko nta gihe yari afite cyo kuburambe ku kazi, uburambe kandi akwiye kwiyongera nkawe. Birashoboka cyane, arimo guhura cyane kuri ibi, azashakisha amahirwe yo gukora no kwirinda ibihe iki kibazo kirahita. Kurugero, birashoboka cyane kuri wewe cyangwa no guhakana ko uhakana ubukangurambaga muri resitora neza kuko nta mafaranga afite yo kwishyura muri iyi resitora atari we gusa, ahubwo ni we wenyine.
Niki?
Tuvugishije ukuri Vuga kuriyi ngingo. Wihutire wenyine niba ushaka gusangira nawe cyangwa ubukangurambaga kuri Premiere ya TemIshing yashutse imodoka? Witeguye kumushahara kugirango biherekeheye ahantu umenyereye? Sangira nawe icyemezo cyawe. Tegura kumvikana byemewe: Kurugero, ko mugihe cyo gusangira abantu bose bazishyura, cyangwa ibyo bihenze cyane, ariko uzasura umutima wawe kumutima wawe utamufite.
2. Yihanganira imyidagaduro udakwiye
Umusore wawe arashobora gushaka kumurikira nijoro, kunywa, kwishora muri siporo ikabije cyangwa insition asana mumasomo yoga, ndetse nibi birashobora kuvamo ingaruka nziza kurira. Ijoro ridasinziriye rya makumyabiri nibyo byose bidafite akamaro kazima, ariko ijoro ridasinziriye muri mirongo ine, ndetse rinarya ninzoga, zigaragarira cyane mumaso yumugore mugitondo.
Niki?
Kuri we, birashobora rwose kuba ingenzi, kandi arashaka kubisangiza nawe, saba ahitwa hamwe. Ntabwo ari ngombwa guhunga urwitwazo, ariko nanone kubyemera niba utabishimisha, ntabwo nawe ari bikwiye. Emera kujya gukora ibyo ashaka, wenda ndetse nundi muntu. Erekana ko ntacyo ufite cyo kurwanya ibyo akunda, gusa ntubishaka. Kandi, cyane cyane, tanga ubundi buryo: atanga icyo yamusobanuriye neza, icyo azi, kandi ashobora kumenya gusa undi.
3. Agerageza gukemura ibibazo byawe, ariko ntibigaragara
Umugabo wawe yuzuyemo icyifuzo cyo kukurinda no kubona buri kirego nko kwerekana ibikorwa. Ufite ikintu mumodoka? Yahamagaye abo tuziranye kandi baziranye bamenyereye umukanishi wimodoka. Wari ufite iryinyo? Ni mu gicuku yicaye ku mbuga z'ivuriro ry'amenyo, ahitamo ibyiza kuri wewe. Byose birasa neza cyane, ariko gusa urasanwa muri Service Service kuva mugihe cyo kugura imodoka no imyaka icumi ubu ugiye muri dentiste umwe. Kandi uburambe mugukemura ikintu kimwe cyangwa ikindi kibazo ufite byinshi kuruta umukunzi wawe muto ...
Niki?
Iyo umugabo ashaka gukemura ibibazo byumugore we, iki nikimenyetso cyiza cyane kumubano. Nta rubanza rutamunenze, kabone niyo waba uzi hakiri kare ko ibintu byose bitazasohoka nkuko yiteze, ku rundi ruhande, mukomere mu bikorwa bye byose. Ntibishoboka kumukubita icyifuzo cyo kukwitaho, umunsi umwe azunguka uburambe, ahinduka umubonano kandi yiga gukemura ibibazo byose byubuzima "- cyangwa ntabwo, kandi bimaze kwishingikirizaho. Hagati aho, ntabwo byabaye, ugomba kurwara. Umwumve kandi wemere byose, ariko ubikore muburyo bwawe. Nigute watunganya? Erekana Ibitekerezo!
4. Yakomeje kuguhamagarira isosiyete ye
Arashaka rwose kukumenyesha inshuti ze, biganisha kuri sosiyete yanjye. Ariko ntabwo wishimiye kuri siporo ikabije hamwe ningorane zabatangiye kukazi, ahubwo ni Tiro.
Niki?
Mubyukuri vugana numugabo wawe. Mumusobanurire ibyo, nubwo uri couple, ntibisobanura ko mwese mugomba kugira rusange. Tubwire ko ushimishije kuruta umuryango. By the way, uriteguye kuzana umugabo muruziga rwawe? Kandi, birashoboka, guhura n'inshuti ze. Reka gusa bikubyemeze cyane.
5. Umugabo atanga ubushakashatsi bwimibonano mpuzabitsina nibirenze
Urubyiruko, amaraso arateka, kandi umugabo wawe umuntu wese ashaka ibyuzuye, ahantu hashya nibindi bihe bishya! Yoos, ubushakashatsi bwe bwose ntibuguha umunezero wo kurambirwa.
Niki?
Reka yumve ko ushima ishyaka rye, ariko icyarimwe umaze kumenya neza aho, kangahe, ni kangahe kandi hamwe nintera ugomba kuba mwiza. Ahari ikintu kimwe uzi umubiri wumugabo kiruta iyo azi ibye. Muri iki gihe, bizaba byiza iyo afashe uruhare rwumunyeshuri (niba, birumvikana ko atari igitsina cya Guru). Mubigishe gukora ibyo ukeneye, nkuko ubikeneye, hanyuma noneho urashobora kujya mubushakashatsi. Icy'ingenzi, urashobora kwereka umugabo wawe ko imibonano mpuzabitsina atari kugenda gusa, urashobora kwerekana igice cye cyumwuka.
6. Umugabo iruhande rwawe aragerageza gusa nkaho ari ibintu
Biragoye ko wageze muri byinshi kandi wishimire icyubahiro cyinshi. Kubera iyo mpamvu, yahagaritse uruhare kandi yitwara rimwe na rimwe, kandi rimwe na rimwe arasekeje. Kubera iyo mpamvu, urumva utamerewe neza.
Niki?
Sobanurira umugabo wawe ko wamukunze nkuko bimeze. Kubwibyo, ugerageza kwerekana uwo atari we, kuko niba azaba undi muntu, ntushobora gukunda uwo muntu.