Ibintu ubwabyo byateye ubwoba, kuko umwana aje kuri iyi si, yamenyesheje kumenya ko atateganijwe, kubera uko - ubuzima bwe bwose azumva kubura urukundo rwababyeyi. Birumvikana ko uruhare rwa Data rwinshi kuri uruhinja, ariko, uko umubyeyi agira ingaruka kubwo kubaho k'umwana.
Ibihe biganisha ku kugaragara kw'abana badashaka:
Umwana ntakemere rwose ikibazo cyawe kitoroshye.
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- Inda idateganijwe akiri muto cyangwa kubwamahirwe.
- Urwango rukomeye rwa se w'umwana.
- Inkunga mbi y'ibikoresho.
Ariko, uru rutonde ntabwo rufite aho rugarukira, twahisemo gusa amahitamo asanzwe.
Ikigaragara ni uko abantu bose batandukanya igitekerezo cy '"umwana udashaka" kubera kutateganijwe: Kubwa kabiri afite amahirwe yo gukunda ababyeyi, kuko iyo urangije gutwita, umugore agerageza kwemera uko ibintu bimeze, hamwe nibyiyumvo byababyeyi Ntumuhe kuvura umwana uzaza.
Nigute ubuzima bwumwana udashaka
Nk'uko abahanga benshi, gutwita byose, kugeza kumwanya wo kuvuka rimwe na rimwe nyuma yabo, birashobora kugabanywa intambwe. Kurugero, kuva mugihe cyo gusama no kubyara, umwana ari mubihe bya euphoria runaka, ariko iyo nyina ari uko yamaze kuba umwana we wavutse. Birashoboka ko wabonye uburyo mama azeza avugana ninda mugihe cyakurikiyeho? Abana nk'abo bakura bafite imitekerereze ihamye kandi barashobora kwishimira ubuzima.
Inyuma yiki gihe, umwana wavutse azahora yumva ahangayikishijwe cyane no kunegura, guhora yumva ameze kwicira urubanza. Amahitamo menshi: yaba igitero cyayo azayoborwa imbere cyangwa kubandi. Umuntu nkuwo azagora kubaka ejo hazaza.
Shishikariza iterambere ryayo, bizagushimira
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Byagenda bite se niba wumva wanze umwana
Mugihe cyo gutwita, umugore arimo guhangayikishwa numubare munini. Usibye gushishoza, ubwenge bumwe bwashyizweho muri twe: Umugore amenye neza ko ukeneye gukunda uyu mwana. Ubuzima butera imbere bumaze kuba igice cyacyo. Ifungwa ry'agafungo rimaze kuvuka, bityo rihakana. Noneho tekereza niba ushobora kubana nubwanga? Byongeye kandi, umwana ntacyo afite cyo gushinja ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, ntabwo ari ngombwa kohereza imico mibi y'abandi kuri yo, nkuko ubitekereza, icyaha cyawe mubihe bigoye byabantu.
Gukata hamwe igihe kinini gishoboka
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Uburyo bwo Gukunda Umwana
Ntamuntu wavutse kubabyeyi, barashobora guhinduka gusa. Ugomba kumva ko urukundo rushobora kuza nyuma yo gushyikirana kandi tukamenyana - wowe numwana wawe.
Ibikenewe kuri ibi:
- Wige kumva no kumva icyo umwana akubwira.
- Wige gushyikirana neza: Ihohoterwa ryumubiri n amarangamutima! Ntabwo rero wubaka umubano wizera.
- Birakenewe guteza imbere iterambere ryiterambere ryimitekerereze yabo n'inzira muburyo bwose.
Umwana agomba kumva ko ashimwa kandi yubahwa, gusa rero azagufata kandi ashimira ubuzima bwose.