"Mama n'intego by'ubuzima." Iri ni ryo zina ryimwe mubitabo bizwi cyane bya psychotherapiste nizina ryisi irina yala. Kandi izina rye ntirurenze ingingo yingingo no gusinzira.
Birashoboka ko nta protocole ya psychotheutic idakora kuri iyi ngingo. Kandi mubyukuri amasomo ya kabiri arangirana ninkuru za "kubyerekeye mama".
Mama, turabishaka cyangwa tutabishaka, dukora umusanzu ntarengwa kuruhande rwibinyabuzima n'imitekerereze kubantu turi. PsychoanalyIses hamwe nabakiriya ingingo yimibanire, aho ikintu gikomeye ari umubyeyi. Mama uwo ari we wese: Gukunda guhinda umushyitsi, kwitaho, byoroshye, ubwoko cyangwa imbeho, ntibishoboka, byabuze. Mama, umpinga umwana we ukuboko gukomeye, cyangwa umubyeyi wishyize ku imbabazi zidagoye kandi zirashobora gukomeza imigero yambere yo kubaho umwana we. Mama, ushobora guhurizayo, cyangwa umubyeyi, udatoroshye kandi udafite uburemere, uburyo bwo kuzana ...
Nubwo byari byiza gute, tuzavuga kuri mama.
Kandi ibi birimo gusesengura intebe kuri bagenzi birashobora gusarwa. Mu buzima, mu gihe mama ari muzima, kandi harahurira na yo, itumanaho rirahinduka ukurikije inzira idasanzwe, kamenyereye imyumvire myinshi "mama agomba gukunda."
Gusinzira inzozi zacu muri iki gihe uburyo bikenewe kuri mama, ariko ntibishoboka ukurikije logique yimbere.
Ati: "Izi nzozi zarose mu myaka itari mike, zigaruka ahantu hatandukanye, ariko burigihe hamwe nimpera imwe.
Njya gutora mama mu rugo rwe no gutwara abantu babana, mu nzu yanjye. Bigaragara ko ashaje, kandi ni ngombwa rero ko namwitaho. Twicaye kuri gari ya moshi, muri gari ya moshi cyangwa ubundi bwikorezi, dutegereje kugenda. Muri imwe mu nzozi, dutangira kwimuka no kwihuta munzira mbi. Muyindi nzozi, gari ya moshi ntabwo ijya ahantu hose. Mu nzozi za gatatu, dusura imizabibu yataye mu mpera zapfuye. "
Kwita kuri Mama wa kera, urugero rwibi ruhangayikishijwe cyane ntirukwiye kuba inshingano, ariko guhitamo kubushake
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Mubitekerezo kuri ibi, Snovistitsa yagaragaje ko izo nzozi zatangiye kurota kuva uwo mubyeyi wa kera wasigaye wenyine mu wundi mujyi, kandi hari ibiganiro birakenewe ko byari ngombwa kumutora no kubana.
Nukuri mwebwe ubukwe, baravuga bati: Yego, birakenewe. Ariko inzozi za snovice zerekana ko ubuzima hamwe na mama ari iherezo ryapfuye ko uyu muyoboro udafite ibyiringiro, nubwo afite ibyiringiro, nubwo afite "uburenganzira", imyitwarire idashobora gutandukana.
Mu kiganiro cy'imbere cy'inzozi, yibwira ko atiteguye kubaho nk'ukwo, ko, nubwo igitekerezo cyigitekerezo, nta mahirwe yo gushyira mubikorwa neza.
Sinshaka gukuramo icyitegererezo kimwe mu mpaka zerekeye niba ari ngombwa kwita kuri mama ushaje. Ibihe byubuzima bifite urugero rwihariye, nkuko urutoki rwose rurihariye. Rimwe na rimwe, uburambe buhuriweho n'ubuzima bw'ababyeyi ntabwo butanga imbaraga na gato, ahubwo yakuye kumpande zombi: mubana n'ababyeyi. Erega ubuzima bwinshi butandukanye, guhahara, kurakara birakaze. Ku ruhande rumwe, ibyiyumvo byo kwicira urubanza no gutenguha. Ku rundi ruhande, ubukonje, inzika, ko ubuzima buhuriweho buzerekana ubwo bunararibonye no kubizinga n'imbaraga nshya ku bitangazamakuru.
Inzozi z'inzozi zacu zivuga ko rimwe na rimwe hamwe na nyina. "Mamina" - birasobanutse kuri we. Hamwe na mama, ni byiza mugihe itumanaho muburyo bwa Ultrasters, gushidikanya na dogma birababaje. Noneho witondere nyina wa kera, urugero rwibi nyirubwite ntabwo ari inshingano, ariko guhitamo kubushake.
Ndatekereza ko ikibazo cyakemuwe cyubuzima hamwe na mama nticyasa na gari ya moshi, ariko nkimodoka, inyuma yimodoka iyobora inzozi zicaye. Mugenzi wa gari ya moshi mu isezerano rya pasiporo: Genda aho inzira ishyizwe ku muvuduko umushoferi yashizeho. Mu modoka, umushoferi acunga uko ibintu bimeze. Kandi ibi bivuze ko umushoferi azahitamo uburyo, aho, ari we umuvuduko, akajyamo.
Twifurije inzozi zacu kwicara "inyuma y'uruziga" muriki kibazo.
Ndabaza ibyo urota? Ingero z'inzozi zawe zohereza na Mail: [email protected]. By the way, inzozi zoroshye cyane kwerekana niba mu ibaruwa yandikiwe umwanditsi uzandika ibintu bibanziriza ubuzima, ariko ingenzi cyane - ibyiyumvo n'ibitekerezo mugihe cyo gukanguka kuva kuriyi nzozi.
Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin