Birashimishije cyane mugukorana ninzozi nuburyo bwabo muburyo bwibyabaye.
Kurugero, nabwiye inzozi z'umugabo wawe umukobwa umwe. Barimo kurwanira ibibazo mumibanire yabo, bihabwa agaciro basaba inzobere zitandukanye, psychotherapiste, bakora mumatsinda yo gukura. Kandi ni kangahe inzogendo zigaragaza buri ntambwe yakazi kabo.
"Byarose umugabo wanjye. Inyubako ebyiri z'ikirahure zirasa mu rundi. Muri gari ya moshi imwe (birasa n'amahugurwa amwe n'amwe, mu kindi - basore. Umugabo wanjye niho abasore. Haho hahita hahita umwana muto wimyaka 6-7. Bikwiranye nidirishya hanyuma usibe. Umuntu wese arakomeza nkaho ntakintu cyabaye cyo gukora ubucuruzi bwabo, kandi umugabo yiruka mwidirishya kugirango arebe icyo umwana. Umwana yaguye muri ubwo buryo bwo hasi, ariko hepfo yari trampoline nini. Amukubita, aragenda! Ariko ubwa kabiri umwana atakiri kuri trampoline, ariko hasi. Yakoze impanuka. "
Rero, ibitotsi byuzuye ibimenyetso. Amazu abiri afite abagore n'abagabo bakora imikurire yawe. Birashoboka ko mu nzozi, ikibazo cyumuryango kigaragarira mu nzozi: abagabo iruhande rw'abagabo barimo bishora muri bo ubwabo, bahindukirira ibibazo kubera inkunga yabo. Abagore bahindukirira abagore,
Umuhungu yiruka munzu hamwe nabagabo, babona inzozi, basimbuka mu idirishya kuri trampoline, ariko umunota ukurikira wacitse. Irerekana igitekerezo cy'uko we, inzozi, ibona uko igice cye kimenetse. Ahari ubwana bwe, imyifatire idakuze kubibera. Kandi igice cye gikuze muriki gikorwa kirareba kandi "kiratsinda".
Nkuko nabivuze, gusinzira bigomba gusuzumwa muburyo bwubuzima. Niba kandi tuvuze ku gihe inzozi zirota, noneho uyu mugabo arota igihe afitanye isano nihungabana ryumugore we. Birashoboka ko unyura mu gusenyuka kw'ibitekerezo, ibitekerezo by'amarozi cyangwa abana kubyerekeye kuba hafi no gukunda kandi bikaba bikura, nyabyo.
Kandi ni izihe nzorora?
Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin