Ijambo "abanafrey" risobanurwa ngo "nta bana". Byongeye kandi, chayldfrey irashobora kumera nkabantu bahisemo gusa abana nkana kandi ntibahure mubuzima bwabo hamwe nabasangiye ibitekerezo hamwe nitsinda ryabahuje na moteri cyangwa mumiyoboro rusange. Itsinda rya kabiri ryabantu, nkitegeko, ibikorwa bikaba, bishyireho imyumvire yabo kandi bagasuzugura abana bose.
Ariko, twafashe umwanzuro wo kuvuga kubwoko bwa mbere - abantu bahisemo nkana kandi ntibagerageza kwikuramo uruhande rwabo.
Abana bakeneye kwitangira ubuzima bwabo bwose
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Ni izihe mpamvu umuntu adashaka gutangira abana?
Abantu barashobora gufata icyemezo cyo kwanga kwababyeyi no kubyara kubwimpamvu zitandukanye, imwe muri zo ishobora kuba:
- umubano udahungabana mumuryango wawe.
- ibiranga umuntu.
- Ingaruka kuri societe.
Iyo umugabo yerekanye ubuvuzi bukabije mu bwana, ntabwo yamenyereye ko yaje ku mwanya akeneye kwita ku wundi. Ntabona gusa muriyi myumvire kandi atumva impamvu yari akeneye.
Iyo umwana mubyabaye atabitayeho, ntibagaragaza ibyiyumvo bivuye ku mutima, birashobora kandi gutera kubura icyifuzo cyo gutangiza umwana wawe.
Bibaho ko ababyeyi batitaweho bafite inshingano zo kwita kubana bato ku basaza, nubwo abana batagomba kwita ku bandi bana, kuko iyi niyo nshingano ya nyina. Abana bakuriye muri iyo miryango, mubisanzwe abakuru, kubushake budahwitse kumuryango wabo, kandi banga gukomeza ubwoko.
Akenshi abana bakuze bareka kureba umuto
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Naho societe, umukobwa wese ukiri muto yumvise avuye kumuturanyi / umuvandimwe wa nyina / umuvandimwe, "urubyiruko rudashira" amasaha azwi ", amasaha azwi", kandi umukobwa muto yahisemo Umuryango mubi utagira amakenga wanze umunezero w'ubuyobozi, rimwe na rimwe urushaho kuba mubi gusa, ntabwo ari umuryango umwe. Ni ngombwa kubyumva, kwanga kuva kumwana kumasezerano yawe bwite cyangwa gerageza kwerekana ikintu kimenyereye.
Ni irihe tandukaniro riri hagati yumuntu wabana kuva abana
Detonework igizwe 99% yibihuru bya chayldfrey. Umuntu udashaka kubyara ntabwo atekereza ko ari ngombwa kwicara kumurongo hanyuma wongere kwerekana ikintu kubandi, kuko iyi ari guhitamo kugiti cyawe. Ikindi ni uko abantu bashaka kudahisha uburakari bwabo, aho biyandikishije kuri ibyo, shyira mu baturage. Aba bantu ntaho bahuriye nabarera, kubice byinshi aba ni abanyeshuri biga mu ishuri bagerageza gushimangira kandi ayo mahame aracyari mugihe atekereza kubana.
Nk'itegeko, ibiti bikaba bivuye ku murambe, ibyo ubwabyo ntacyo bitwaye kandi ntibitera ahantu hose.
Tekereza ko ushobora guha umwana wawe
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Nigute ushobora kumenya amahitamo?
Urashobora kwigenga kumenya niba uri umwana wawe cyangwa utameze. Kugirango ukore ibi, ugomba gusubiza ibibazo bike:
1. Urabona ko uri umubyeyi cyangwa ushaka gukoresha ubuzima bwo kwiteza imbere?
2. Ukeneye gukomeza ubwoko?
3. Niki ushobora guha umwana?
4. Abana bahindura ubuzima bwawe, uriteguye kumwitange undi muntu?
5. Wizeye ko mwisi yawe hazaba ahantu h'ubuzima bushya?
Niba wasubije byibuze ibibazo bike, ntushobora kwiyita abana. Ariko, iyi ntabwo arimpamvu yo guhita yiruka agatangira umwana, tekereza niba ufite ibisabwa byose kugirango avutse kandi bumeze neza, kuko buhagije gukunda, ugomba gutanga ubuzima bukwiye hamwe numugabo muto.