Kujya mu biruhuko, urashaka "kuzimya" umutwe no kwishimira ibiruhuko n'ubwisanzure mu byumweru bike, ariko mu biruhuko urashobora kumenyana, bizarenga ibitekerezo byiza byose. Niba hari ibyiza byinshi bijyanye nibyiza byo mu gitabo cyanyuma, ntabwo gake cyane mubidukikije bitangira ikiganiro. Ariko twabyutse.
Igitabo cyo mu kiraro gifite iherezo
Ku mugabo, ikibuga cyinjira gisa na kimwe kuri bose hamwe nkumugore: kuri we, ishyaka ryigihe gito rishobora gutangira kandi ridashobora kubaka gahunda, nubwo umugore adashobora kubaka gahunda, nubwo benshi bumva icyo kwiringira cyane Kumva igihe gito hamwe hamwe gusa ntacyo bivuze, reka inkuru zimeze neza ziracyariho. Bihuje vuba ko ufite umwanya wo kuguma gusa mugihe cyibiruhuko, biroroshe kureka umuntu hanyuma usubire mubuzima bumenyereye nta marangamutima.
Urashobora kugwa mu bwihebe
Abakobwa basenyuka cyane ntibashobora kwangiza gusa ibiruhuko, ariko nanone kugwa mubibazo nyabyo basubiye murugo. Mu mijyi, biragoye rwose kubona umuntu ushobora gutanga amarangamutima meza nk'abagabo bakora munsi y'urusaku rw'inyanja. Ntushobora kujya mubiruhuko kugirango ubabaye kandi ubabaye kubera "gutakaza urukundo" ahantu kure. Niba umerewe cyane, uhambiriye vuba abantu, tekereza niba hari ibyumweru bike bya sosiyete yumugabo yibisubizo? N'ubundi kandi, burigihe hari ikintu kiri mukiruhuko ikintu cyo gukora, shaka imyidagaduro mu bugingo kandi ntizibanda ku gushakisha umufatanyabikorwa mu biruhuko bihuriweho.
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Umuntu ntabwo agiye gufata inshingano
Nk'ubutegetsi, abagabo bashaka gukundana mukiruhuko ntabwo bateganya gukomeza na gato. Intego yabo ni ukubona ibitekerezo byiza kandi usubire murugo "kwishyurwa." Hamwe nabagore, inkuru imwe ntabwo buri gihe. Benshi bafite umwanya wo gusinzira nyuma yo kurangiza amashuri, cyane cyane niba uri umujyi umwe, kandi ikosa ryingenzi nukwemera ko uwo mugabo atekereza kuri kimwe. Imyumvire idasa n'ibitego hafi buri gihe bisiga nyuma yinyuma mubagore. Niba ukomeje gufata umwanzuro mubintu bigufi, fata urugero muri mugenzi wawe wikiruhuko - wishimira umunsi wuyu munsi.
Umugabo arashobora kuba uburiganya
Impande zishyushye zikurura abantu kubuntu gusa bashaka isosiyete mumaso yabo mumaso yimibonano mpuzabitsina, ariko nanone abanyarugomo bose. Gucukwa kunararibonye ntibikwiye gutakaza mucyizere cyumugore utuje kandi utondeka, ni ngombwa kutatakaza umutwe no kwirinda kuganira kubisobanuro byubuzima bwawe. Wibuke ko umugabo ugushimishije ntuzigera ushishikazwa nuburyo ubaho neza kandi ukaba uri mu mujyi wawe, witonze witonze abantu bagerageza kumenya uko ubukungu bwawe buri.