Ababyeyi ni abantu ba hafi kuri twe. Barazira ko ntayindi kandi rimwe na rimwe babikoresha, udukoresha, akenshi utazi ubwabyo. Bashaka kumenya ubuzima bwacu bwite: guhangayikishwa natwe, nibisanzwe kandi bisanzwe, kandi gerageza gutanga inama. Ariko akenshi ababyeyi bafite igitutu kirenze imitekerereze ku bana, kubera ko bumva bitameze neza. Byagenda bite niba wumva ko ababyeyi bawe bakoresha? Nigute Kutababaza Abantu ba hafi, ariko mugihe kimwe cyerekana neza imipaka?
Bike cyane nibyiza
Iyo ibibazo byo gukoresha buri gihe bibaho rimwe na rimwe, nta giteye ubwoba. Birakwiye guhangayikishwa mugihe igitutu kibaye gihora - kibuza ubuzima bwite kandi ukamburwa uburinganire bwumwuka. Niba manipulation yabaye mu bwana, ejo hazaza umwana ntazashobora gufata ibyemezo byigenga, ntabwo azamenya ibyo akeneye n'ibyifuzo byayo.
Turareba ibipimo
Hano hari ibimenyetso byinshi byoroshye kumva ko ababyeyi bawe bakoresha:
-Wongeye kumva igitutu;
-Ibihe amarangamutima n'amarangamutima bitazirikana;
- Teperaters yitabira ibice byose byubuzima bwawe;
- Abatanga umusaruro baragerageza kukugiraho ingaruka zingenzi.
Ibiganiro hagati yababyeyi-Manigulator numwana mubisanzwe bibaho murufunguzo.
Reba Amayeri
Hariho amayeri menshi y'ababyeyi agerageza gukoresha abana. Amayeri ya mbere ashinja umwana mubyiyumvo byabo bidashimishije. Umubyeyi ahindura icyaha kumarangamutima ye kumwana. Imyitwarire nkiyi mumuryango irasobanura neza amategeko ayo marangamutima ashobora gukoreshwa nkimpaka cyangwa uburyo bwo kwikingurwa mumitekerereze. Kurugero, Mama asobanura ibyo yagukuyeho, nkuko wabizanye imyitwarire yanjye idakwiye.
Amayeri ya kabiri ni ugutesha agaciro ibyumviro byabandi. Buri gihe birasa nkaho ariho ko ntakintu gikomeye kuruta amarangamutima yawe. Ibibazo byabanyamahanga tubona cyane bituje - ibi bitabaho gusa mubucuti numwana. Imyitwarire nkiyi iratandukanye kubantu bose.
Amayeri ya gatatu - Kwamburwa urukundo. Nyuma y'ibikorwa bitari byiza mu bwana, ababyeyi ntibashobora kuvugana n'umwana, ntibayireba - muri rusange, kwirengagiza muburyo bwose. Impamvu yo iyi myitwarire nuko ababyeyi batazi gusa kwitwara. Niba turimo tuvuga nkuko umwana akuze akaba mukuru, birakwiye guhagarara nkibikorwa.