Ivuka ryumwana nikintu kinini kumuryango uwo ariwo wose. Ariko, ntabwo abana bose bazana amahoro murugo. Akenshi hariho ababyeyi bato bakiri bato kuruhuka ubwoba, kuko umwana arira kubwimpamvu iyo ari yo yose nta mpamvu. Kumvisha umwana muto, nkuko mubizi, ntibishoboka, ariko birakenewe ko ukora ikintu, bitabaye ibyo ubuzima bwo mumutwe bwa Novice bwo guteshwa agaciro.
Gabanya imirimo n'umugabo we
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Gutegeka mbere: gutuza
Iyo ababyeyi batangiye guhaguruka cyane hafi yigitanda cyumwana, iyi mibi ishyikirizwa umwana. Igitutsi n'ibirego bisa nkaho bishinja amakosa ye "cyangwa" ukora byinshi, kandi kuri twe, nkuko bisanzwe, bidahagije "biragufasha kumva uko ibintu bimeze. Aho gutukwa, ohereza imigezi yose yingufu kugirango ukemure ikibazo.
Nigute ushobora gukomeza?
Mbere ya byose, sobanukirwa ko ntamuntu numwe uryozwa ko umwana atuje kandi ntaguha gusinzira. Niba waragiye hafi yinzobere zose, mugihe utabonye ibisubizo, birashoboka ko ibintu byose bya psyche, ukeneye kwiga kubana neza. Abana benshi bavutse bishimishije cyane. Ibyo ari byo byose, nubwo byatera imyitwarire nk'iyi, biratinze gutekereza ku mpamvu, gerageza kumenyera ubutegetsi bushya.
Cake cyane kandi buhoro buhoro
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Kabiri. Buri ngamba
Ntuzafasha inama z '"inzobere" zituruka kuri tereviziyo, kubera ko gusa uzi ibintu byose biranga umwana wawe. Ikibazo cyawe nyamukuru kiri muriki gihe - umwana hyperband. Urusaku urwo arirwo rwose rushobora kubikuramo uburinganire. Umwana atangira gukora uruvange rwa janotic na kamera.
Niki?
- Tegura umwanya ukikije kuburyo nta bintu bibi bikikije umwana. Ibi birimo: TV, ikigo cyumuziki, amatara yaka. Gerageza kwirinda ibikinisho bikomeye.
- Gabanya inshingano n'abavandimwe. Ntibikenewe guta kuri mama / nyirakuru, nabo ntabwo ari icyuma, ndetse nibindi byinshi rero ntibitegekwa kwicarana numwana. Nibyiza gukurura umugabo bishoboka, birumvikana, nkuko bishoboka. Nibyiza, niba, reka tuvuge ko ushyira umwana, kandi umugabo arazamura. Ikintu nyamukuru nugushira icyarimwe kugirango umwana afite uburyo bukomeye.
- Irinde guhindura imirire kenshi, no muri rusange udushya duto. Nta mikino yuzuye, kandi, na none, uburyo bwamanywa ni ibyawe.
Wowe ubwawe uratuje
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Kugaburira Uruhinja nabo bakeneye uko bikwiye
Kenshi cyane, abana bafite umunezero woroshye kuribwaga nibicuruzwa. Ababyeyi bagomba kwifatira mu ntoki kandi ntibajya mu ihohoterwa, bagerageza kugaburira umwana ku bushake bwe. Ntugahangayikishwe nuko umwana yanze muriki gihe, nyuma yigihe gito umubiri uzafata ibyayo. Niba ugerageza kugaburira imbaraga, wongeraho ubundi buryo bwo kurakara.
Wibuke ko umwana muto adashobora kurya ako kanya. Kugaburira kenshi, ariko buhoro buhoro, muriki gihe umwana azagaburirwa, kandi uzatuza.
Ikintu cyingenzi muburyo bwurukundo bwumwana byoroshye ni kwihangana no gusobanukirwa. Nyuma yigihe gito, umwana wawe yiga kugenzura amarangamutima ye, nkuko umubiri wabana uhinduka hamwe nigipimo kidasanzwe. Ibisubizo byawe bibi cyangwa hafi kandi bizashishikazwa gusakara byabana, kandi bizakugora kuzana psyche mubisanzwe - byombi nubwana no kubi.