Umwanya ubaho iyo tugize umufatanyabikorwa - birashobora kuba hashize imyaka 20, kuko urukundo rwarashize, nta ishyaka ryubumwe bwawe, kandi ahari imyaka 20 nyuma yo gutongana no kwegeranya kutumvikana. Ariko akenshi ntidushobora kubona undi mukunzi, kuko icyambere cyicaye mumutwe wanjye, cyangwa, ugenda kumatariki, twumva ko nkunda uwahoze ari uwahoze ari uwawe. Birenga amezi abiri, kandi wongeye gutangira kuvugana, hanyuma urashaka kongera kugerageza. Bizakora?
Ntugasubiremo amakosa ya kera
Imiterere yingenzi yongeye guhuriza hamwe nukwibuka amakosa yayo kandi ntubisubiremo kunshuro ya kabiri. Nibyiza kugaragara neza umubano wawe. Nta rubanza rwakagombye gutekereza ko umubano wawe uzahinduka igitangaza mu gitabo cy'ubuhinzi. Wibuke ko ikintu cyingenzi mubihe byawe ari umurimo uhoraho kuri wewe ubwawe. Ntibishoboka kubaka umubano, kwibuka amakosa n'inzika. Ni ngombwa kuganira ku bintu byose mbere, kubera ibyo ushobora kuba ibintu bidashimishije cyangwa amakimbirane. Ugomba kurekura ibyo byose mbere no kureba imbere. Tekereza ko uramutse usubije amaso inyuma ukaba ubuzima bwa nyuma, hanyuma uhindure inkingi yumunyu, nkumugore wandike wiruka muri Sodomu.
Imiterere yingenzi yo guhura nuwambere nukwibuka amakosa yabo kandi ntubisubiremo bwa kabiri
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Fata ibisubizo biremereye
Ntukure, tekereza neza bihagije ibyemezo byawe byose mugihe mubucuti nuwahoze. Komeza utuze mubihe byose kandi ntukagire icyuma, nubwo waba umugore ushushe cyane, ku bitutsi. Ibuka ibi kandi ukomeze mumaboko yawe, ntutanga ibihe n'amarangamutima kugirango ugufate. Abashakanye bamwe bahura rimwe na rimwe gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ntabwo twaba twaragiriye inama. Muri ubu buryo, birashoboka kumubabaza - iyi ni umubano wubuhemu.
Ntabwo dukugira inama yo guhura nigihe kugeza igihe cyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina
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Icyifuzo kigomba kuba ubwubahanga
Kimwe mubimenyetso byingenzi ushobora kugerageza kubaka urukundo niba mwembi mwifuza gushiraho byose. Niba umuntu ari umwe mubafatanyabikorwa, ibi ntabwo ari ikimenyetso cyiza cyane. Niba igihe gihagije cyashize, washoboye gutekereza neza ku mibanire yawe kandi ugahita ubona ko nubwo ukeneye kubana, mugomba kongera kugerageza. Niba, nyuma yikiruhuko, wagirana umubano wurukundo nundi muntu, guhura nibyo byambere bishobora gukora. Ikigaragara ni uko wungutse uburambe nundi muntu, kandi nawe watahuye mubihe nkibi urukundo rwawe nyarwo.
Tinyuka! Rimwe na rimwe, ugomba gutera intambwe imwe yo gutinda kwa kabiri kugirango ushishikarize neza isomo ryubuzima.