Ibitunguranye bitunguranye hamwe nimvugo yibye, volminous kandi bigaragara, ni ugucamo ibice.
Gusinzira umusore umwe (ni ngombwa kumenya imiterere - yahinduye imyaka 30 gusa).
"Nkurikirana maniac uzi byose kuri njye! Hamwe nanjye, aho ndi, aho njya! Kugira ngo akize ibitotezo bye gato, aramusaba kumukorera amafaranga 30.000. Niruka kuri banki, ariko ndabona ko mfite amafaranga 36,000 mu gikapu cyanjye. Nishimiye ko byibuze nzashobora guhisha. Nyuma uyu munsi, nakiriye ibaruwa amenya ko nagerageje guhisha aya mafranga. "
Gusinzira birasobanutse: maniac uzi byose ni igihe. Imyaka 30 yaramwishyuye. Kandi imyaka 6 yagerageje kwihisha, kwihisha. Ariko ntashobora kuyihisha ubuzima bwawe bwose. Ikigaragara ni uko imyaka 6 nigihe gifite ibisobanuro byinzozi. Igihe yateganyirije bimwe. Birashoboka ko nashakaga kubaho kubwanjye (nko mu nzozi yatekerezaga gusubika amafaranga). Ariko umukurikira, ni ukuvuga igihe cyubuzima bwe, azi ko aya "mafaranga" agomba gushimirwa kuri konti.
Muri psychologiya igezweho, hari ikibazo cyimyaka 30 - igihe cyo kuvugurura bwa mbere imbaraga zubuzima, gahunda, inzozi zibaho. Kenshi na kenshi, abantu biyemeje muri iki gihe hamwe numwuga wabo kandi bashyirwa mubikorwa mumuryango. Ni iki gikurikira? Noneho bagiye kumenya ko igihe cyubuzima bwabo kitagira iherezo. Icyo ubu bari mu ngabo zitera imbere, ariko birakwiye ko batandukanya gahunda ziva mu nzozi. Gutinyuka no gutekereza k'urubyiruko byagumye mu bihe byashize, ariko ntabwo igihe kinini cyo gukora ikintu cyagaciro. Byongeye kandi, iyo gahunda y'imibereho ishyizwe mu bikorwa, umuryango waremewe kandi umwuga watoranijwe, noneho ikibazo gisigaye: Nashaka iki? Guhitamo umwuga akenshi ni ugushimira imyambarire, igitutu cyababyeyi. Kurema umuryango no kubyara abana nuburyo bukomeye. Kandi niyo iyi ndangagaciro zose zakozwe kubushake kandi zikaba nyinshi cyangwa nkeya, noneho uhereye kubibazo "Nanjye ubwanjye nshaka rwose?" Ntabwo ari ahantu hose kwihisha.
Birashoboka, inzozi zacu mu nzozi zibaho ibibazo byacyo, zihishe igihe cyangiza wenyine.
Kandi ni izihe nzorora?
Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin