Emera, kwigirira icyizere bifasha kugera ku bisubizo bidasanzwe, ariko benshi muritwe dushobora kwirata ituze rwose mubihe bitesha umutwe? Biragoye. Twahisemo kumenya uburyo bwo gutsinda gushidikanya kandi tugagerageza kuba mwiza kuturusha uyu munsi.
Turashaka ibyiza byabo
Abaterankunga bagira inama ikoreshwa ry'amayeri n'ubuhanga bwiza: Dugabanye urupapuro mu bice bibiri, mu nkingi ya mbere andika ibyiza byayo, mu bya kabiri - ibibi. Noneho uzakenera igihe cyo gutekereza ku nyungu ushaka gusimbuza ibintu uhereye ku nkingi ya kabiri. Igihe cyose ushoboye gukuraho kubura kwawe kurutonde, ubakubite. Buhoro buhoro, ugomba gusa kurenza rwose inkingi ya kabiri.
Ube verisiyo nziza yawe
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Gufata mu mutwe intsinzi yawe
Inyandikopuro ntabwo ari igisebe cyahise, ariko mugihe cya psychologiya "simulator". Imitekerereze yacu yishimye cyane yibuka ibintu byose bidashimishije bibera mubuzima bwacu, mugihe ibintu byose ari byiza cyane kubyara kubyara. Urashobora kugura igitabo gito aho uzakosora ibihe byiza byose byabaye nubwo utari umunsi, ariko, reka tuvuge mucyumweru. Buri gihe yuzuza impapuro zapimwe, uzahumekwa n'intsinzi zacu, kumva ko ibintu biturika bizashira buhoro buhoro bizasimbuza inzira n'imbaraga zabo.
Akayunguruzo
Amakuru yose akomeye aratugiraho ingaruka kuruta uko dushobora kubyiyumvisha. Ibyiciro byacu ni ugusubiza ibihe bihungabanya kandi, hamwe nibi, hariho kumva uhangayitse, imiterere yabyo ntabwo buri gihe byoroshye kumenya. Gerageza gukuramo gusa ibigutunga nkumuntu no muri gahunda yumwuga, gusa mububasha bwawe bwo kugenzura imico yawe no guteza imbere imiterere ukeneye. Ba verisiyo nziza kandi nziza yawe nta guhangayika.
Inshuti zawe ninde?
Umuntu wese yemeje ibinyuranye, ariko ibidukikije bigize indangamuntu. Birashoboka ko washoboraga kubona, mubihe bitandukanye, abantu mubuzima bwacu bwose, abantu baza iwacu bazana ikintu cyangwa "kudukuraho". Niyo mpamvu ari ngombwa cyane ko wumve neza uri iruhande rwacu n'aho bishobora kuzana itumanaho rya hafi nundi muntu cyangwa undi muntu. Niba ushaka kubona urugero ruzima rwumuntu wizeye kandi utuje, kuki utabibona mu nshuti zawe cyangwa muri gurus yumurima wawe wibikorwa? Ni ngombwa kugira ishusho imbere yacyo, bizatera imbaraga kandi ushobora kubyuka.