Usanzwe uri umukobwa ukuze, kandi ubeho ubuzima bwawe ukwatuwe nababyeyi. Niba ibi bikureba, birashoboka ko uzi uko ababyeyi baretse kukwumva. Bashobora kwitwara kuburyo bigoye ko ubabara, ariko ntukeneye kurakara no gukoma amashyi imbere no guhindurwa, kandi ugomba guhinduka, kandi ugomba kwiga kubyumva.
Kandi oya, interineti ntabwo ari igikoresho cyiza cyo gukomeza umubano ususurutse. Noneho ababyeyi benshi bazi gukoresha mudasobwa kandi bashishikajwe nimbuga rusange, birasa nkaho hashobora kubaho ibibazo mu itumanaho no gusobanukirwa? Ariko, usibye ibitekerezo byamafoto yawe mubiruhuko, barashobora kukwandikira ikintu nka: "Uruhukirayo, na nyirakuru / njye / se wazamutse igitutu. Bike kuri ambulance ntibyaje! " Kandi utangiye kwishinyagurira mubuzima bwabo. Mubyukuri, ababyeyi bashaka imibereho nawe, gusa ntuho gihe uhitemo uko wakubwira kubyerekeye. Twakusanyije uburyo bwibanze ababyeyi bishimira, kandi tuvuge uko twabyitwaramo.
Itumanaho risobanura ntabwo rizasimbuza itumanaho ryubuzima
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Ababyeyi batangira kubuza
"Kuri resitora Kuki tujya? Tumara amafaranga menshi, byaba byiza tujyana umwana ku nyanja cyangwa gufata inguzanyo! " Ubwa mbere birasa nkaho ababyeyi bagerageza kukubuza kubaho bakurikiza amategeko yawe, kubera ibyo ugwa mubisebe.
Tuza, uhumeke cyane kandi wirebere mu ruhande. Ninde usa muri iyi ngingo? Iburyo, kumukobwa muto. Ibyifuzo byawe, nko mubana, ntugace duhurira n'ababyeyi, nuko umwana w'imbere rero ntabwo yiteguye kwihanganira. Ariko, ababyeyi ntibakurikirana indi ntego, usibye kukurinda.
Nigute wabyitwaramo?
Niba ababyeyi bemeza ko ukeneye inama zabo muri byose, ubabwire byinshi kubyerekeye abaziranye, kubyerekeye ibyagezweho wize nibibazo biri muriki gihe. Ni ngombwa kumva ko udakora byose byitwa ababyeyi, ariko uzi wenyine.
Ababyeyi barabangamira ubuzima bwawe
"Kuki udashobora gufata iyo karita muri banki? Ni bangahe basanzwe baje, kandi aracyari mu ishami! "
Kandi ababyeyi ntibumva ko ukurura aba nyuma kugirango batamenya umubare wikarita bazahora bagutoteza "ku mwana", kuko mukoresha cyane. " Ahubwo, barashobora gukosora imodoka ya se cyangwa kujya muri Porto Rico icyumweru.
Nigute wabyitwaramo?
Hitamo frame udashaka kuza kuvugana nababyeyi bawe. Niba hari aho mu muryango, gusangira inshingano, urugero, uha ababyeyi rimwe mumwaka ugenda mumahanga, kandi murumuna wawe cyangwa mushiki wawe arabafasha gukemura ibibazo byo murugo nibindi.
Kandi, niba wakiriye amafaranga kubabyeyi, ntushobora kwirinda ibibazo wakoresheje, kuko bagutumye "bitandukanye rwose." Kugirango tutagwa kwishingikiriza, ntukagire icyo ufata kandi ntutegetswe.
Tubwire ibyiyumvo byawe n'ibitekerezo byawe
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Ababyeyi bahora binubira
Ati: "Reka tujye mu gihugu, uzi ukuntu bigoye gukorerayo kuri pensiyo ebyiri? Ibyo byajyana natwe, twarangiza umunsi! "
Birumvikana ko ababyeyi batavuga ibintu nkibi byumwihariko kugukoraho. Ntabwo bahagije gusa ibitekerezo byawe, kuva hano no "kuvuka". Ntukarakare kandi ntukaruhuke kumugaragaro: birashoboka koko uhanganye rwose, kandi ababyeyi ntibazi gukurura ibitekerezo byawe. Tekereza uburyo bwo gutuma itumanaho ninama bihoraho kugirango ababyeyi batumva batereranywe.
Ohereza ababyeyi mu biruhuko
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Nigute wakwitwara neza?
Bwira ababyeyi bawe ibyiyumvo byawe, nibyiza no gutegura interuro nyinshi, kurugero: "Mama, wambabaje mugihe utangiye gutukwa, reka dushake uburyo bwo gukemura ibibazo bibi nta kirego." Ntamuntu wavuze ko byoroshye. Sobanura impamvu ufite akamaro ku nkunga yabo. Abantu bakuru bakemura ibibazo bitoroshye kubitumanaho, berekana ko ababyeyi bakuze, bamaze kwiba, aho guhobera guhobera.
Ntukavuge kuri wewe rwose
Mama rwose ntabwo azi neza kuri buri kibazo cyawe hamwe numugabo we: uzahita ubigira, kandi mama azahangayikishwa, kandi wenda ntangira kwanga umukwe. Numuvandimwe kandi usige bimwe mubibazo byawe.
Nkuko mubibona, ntabwo bigoye cyane gukomeza umubano mwiza, ikintu nyamukuru nukwitwara nkumuntu mukuru, ntabwo "arekura" umwana udasanzwe.