Nubwo waba wararose kurangiza umubano numugabo udakunzwe kandi wishimiye umudendezo, ugomba kwitondera wenyine: Ihinduka nkiryo ridashobora kurenga byoroshye. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze yacu batanga uburyo bwo kubungabunga uburinganire buvanze mu gihe kitoroshye.
Inzira yo gutandukana inyura mubyiciro bimwe bisanzwe bikurikirwa numwe.
Icyiciro cya 1 - Guhungabana (guhakana), cyangwa "ntibishobora". Umubiri rero urwana nububabare, uhakana ibyabaye bimaze kuba.
Icyiciro cya 2 - Uburakari (Umujinya). Umuntu arimo agira amarangamutima mabi, akenshi atera amarangamutima ajyanye nuwahoze ari mugenzi. Ni ngombwa hano kwiga uburyo bwo gukora neza. Ni ngombwa kwemerera kurakara, nyuma yo kwirukana amarangamutima, kwandika amabaruwa arakaye no kubitwika, urashobora kuganira n'inshuti, jya muri siporo, ushize amasakoshi. Muri rusange, Hano ihame ryingenzi ntabwo ryahujwe muri wewe, ntukifuze, ahubwo ugerageze ibibi byose kugirango usuke, nibyiza ntabwo ari kubandi!
Icyiciro cya 3 - Gushidikanya (Gushidikanya (Byungura). Abashakanye barekuwe, igihe cyarashize, kandi gushidikanya gutangira: Byagenda bite, birashoboka niba atari ... iyi ni staw yanyuma hagati yibyahise nubu. Umuntu aragerageza gusubiza ibintu, yishora mu kwigirira icyizere, kwiyizera, bisa nkaho bishoboka gusubiza ibintu byose, bifite agaciro gufata iyambere mumaboko yawe, ariko kwitondera ni an kwibeshya! Kuri iki cyiciro urashobora gukora hamwe nuburyo cyangwa ejo hazaza. Urashobora gufata urupapuro no gushushanya: Niki cyatakaye, kikaba icyambabaje ko nshaka kugaruka. Nigute ushobora gusubira mubihe bishya, uko wabikora, niki cyasimburwa nicyo udashobora gusubizwa, kandi rwose ntizibura cyane mubuzima?
Icyiciro cya 4 - Kwiheba. Umuntu ahitamo ntacyo yifuza, kugirango atababaza. Kwihesha agaciro bigabanuka cyane, umusaruro mubikorwa biratakaza icyizere muri byose. Umuntu arashobora kwinjira mububabare bwinzoga kugirango atagumane umwe numubabaro we. Nk'ubutegetsi, nyuma yuko umuntu ageze munsi yintimba ye, arashobora kumurumbuka akanywa hejuru. Hano arashobora kwemera ibyabaye, no kwibwira ati: Nagumye jyenyine, ariko ndashaka kubaho.
Icyiciro cya 5 nukwicisha bugufi (kurera). Umuntu arashimira ibizazane, ubuzima, umufatanyabikorwa kubyo yari ameze. Usangamo ibyiza muri uyu mwanya kandi mubyabaye, ntabwo wumva urakaye, ntabwo byamagana - gusa isomo ryashize.
Niba kandi utanyuze mubyiciro 5 byose, ntabwo byarangije umubano wabanjirije, bityo, hamwe nibishoboka byinshi umufatanyabikorwa wawe utaha uzabana nundi muntu, ariko, mubyukuri, kandi wongeye gukora Mu ruziga, umaze igihe cyo gutakaza n'ibyiringiro byo guhura "umuntu we". Kugira ngo ibyo bitabaho, shaka ibyo yitabye mubuzima bwawe, kandi umushimire kuri iri somo. Kandi muriki kibazo gusa urashobora gutera imbere, kugirango ubone urwego rwiza rwumubano. Amahirwe masa!