Uyu munsi, ni ubuhemu cyane bwo kuvuga kubyerekeye kwiteza imbere, kubyerekeye kuzamura imiterere, nibindi. Gukura kugiti cyawe. Birumvikana ko abantu bose bashaka kuba umuntu watsinze, umwuga nyawo wubucuruzi bwe. Ariko ni gute wabigeraho? Kandi hano benshi muritwe duhura nimbogamizi zidasubirwaho, harimo muburyo bwimyizerere, stereotypes, ibigo.
Twese dukomoka kubyara ... Ibiciro byacu bifite agaciro, moderi yimyitwarire, ibigo byimyitwarire, bifatwa mumuryango, bifatwa nkibidukikije byegeranye - ababyeyi, abavandimwe, amashuri. Birumvikana, mugihe cyubuzima, bihinduka bimwe, bihinduka cyangwa bihinduka cyane, ariko akenshi ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari ibintu byibyawe nkigisobanuro cyibibera.
Ubu busobanuro budusaba gusuzuma imyumvire n'ibyemezo by'ingenzi, ku isi, ku isi, ku mibanire n'isi ndetse n'abanyamuryango bayo. Twese turi imyizerere nibuka. Kandi akenshi twemeza imyizerere y'ababyeyi, abavandimwe ndetse n'ibisekuru byinshi byabayeho kera cyane. Kurugero, akenshi duhura nimyizerere: amafaranga = akaga ganini = akaga gakomeye; Abagabo bafite intege nke kandi bakizera ntibakwiriye; Imibonano mpuzabitsina ni bibi kandi biteje akaga.
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Iyo myumvire nk'iyi n'imyanzuro ku isi ibakikije ihinduka ishingiro ry'ingenzi ryo gukora ubwaryo. Kandi, Kubwamahirwe, imyizerere myinshi nkiyi itangira kutubuza kutubangamira, kuba inzitizi aho byakenerwa kuva muri iyo myizerere, cyangwa, ku buryo, bikadusunikira kubikorwa bibi. Umuntu, agerageza kurwanya imyumvire yashyizweho iwashizeho, itangira gukurikiza ibindi bikorwa bishobora kuba bibi, shyira munzira yangiza, biganisha ku gihombo no kwiyangiza vuba cyangwa kwihuta.
Byongeye kandi, abantu badukikije barimo bagira uruhare runini muburyo bwacu. Kuwagatatu ku nyungu, amagambo, kumva imyumvire yisi. Kubwamahirwe, ntabwo buri wese muri twe ari umujyanama - umuntu ushobora gutanga ibitekerezo byiza, bituzanira ibitekerezo duharanira.
Nigute umujyanama yadufasha? Bizadufasha guteza imbere gahunda yawe, intego ninshingano; Ifishi kandi wemere icyemezo cyimbere nigikorwa; Teza imbere ubushobozi bwo kwikunda no gushiraho indangagaciro z'imbere. Intego nyamukuru nayo irashobora gushingwa numujyanama. Ariko urashobora guhinduka umujyanama kandi wowe ubwawe, niba uzi kwiyemerera gukora imirimo, kunoza ubumenyi, utezimbere buri munsi kandi wakire ubumenyi bushya.
Ni ngombwa cyane gupima urwego rwiterambere ryayo, rugaragarira mu kwiyongera mubumenyi, imari, hagaragaye igihe gishya cyo gukundana. Niba uru rwego rukura - ibintu byose bigenda nkibikenewe, kandi niba atari byo, iyi niyo mpamvu yo kubitekerezaho nikintu muriwe kandi imyitwarire yawe yo guhinduka. Urashobora gutanga inama zo gukora gahunda yimirimo yawe hanyuma urebe ibimaze kugerwaho, ariko ibitari ngombwa, aho bibaye ngombwa gukora, kandi aho, ushobora no "guca intege LONT".
Nakongeraho kuba inyangamugayo ubwanjye nkigipimo cyingenzi kugirango nsige ubwanjye kandi nkeneye mubumenyi runaka. Ntukishuke, wigaragaze hejuru cyangwa munsi yicyerekezo kimwe cyangwa ikindi. Gusa umurimo w'inyangamugayo kandi usobanutse kuri bo uzamura urwego rwabo, ongera kandi ugere ku ntego zabo.