Abagore benshi barota umuryango munini aho hazabaho abana benshi nibibazo bishimishije, ariko, hamwe no kuza umwana wambere, umugore asobanukiwe numwana - feat. Icyemezo kumwana wa kabiri ntabwo gitangwa byoroshye, nyamara twahisemo kugufasha guhitamo neza.
"Hazabaho inzu nini, ..."
Birashoboka, gushidikanya kwinshi mu butaka bwikibazo cyamazu, nkuko abana benshi batagikura muri Odnushka, aho bagomba kuba abantu bafite abantu. Byaba byiza, buri mwana agomba kugira icyumba cyihariye, niba ufite amahirwe kandi abana bazaba imibonano mpuzabitsina, urashobora gukora umwana umwe, ariko ntabwo abantu bose bafite amahirwe.
Kenshi na kenshi, abashakanye bashobora gufata umwanzuro ku mwana wa kabiri, ariko inzozi z'inzu nini hamwe na Panoramic Wis window no gufata icyemezo ku ivuka ry'umwana wa kabiri ugomba gusubikwa. Uzi neza ko inzozi nkisi yose zizagera mugihe cya vuba? Niba atari byo, birashoboka, biracyayemeza kuba ababyeyi kunshuro ya kabiri niba warose igihe kirekire. Byongeye kandi, ni nde ugurizagura inzu, afite abana babiri ku biganza?
Numugabo wawe numuryango wawe, uzakemura byose
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"Ni he bakura amafaranga menshi?"
Ababyeyi benshi barumiwe niki gihe. Ntamuntu urerekana ko abana bazicwa n'inzara kandi bagakomeza ibintu, ariko uburere bwiza, abiyandikisha bose mu gice hari amafaranga meza, cyane cyane mu mijyi minini. Ntabwo abantu bose bashobora gukuramo ibiciro nkibi. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, gukwirakwiza umutungo ushyira mu gaciro birashobora gufasha gukemura iki kibazo: inkweto zikurikira ziva ku kirango yisi zirashobora gutambwa. Mubindi bintu, urashobora guhora ubara inkunga yimibereho itwara uburyo bwose bwo gushyigikira ababyeyi bato nabana banini.
"Tuvuge iki ku mwuga?"
Amamiliyoni y'ababyeyi ku isi yose uhuza umwuga n'ububyeyi, inyungu muri iki gihe gifite amahirwe yo gukora kure. Ariko, ababyeyi benshi bibizwa rwose mu kwita kubana, kandi mugihe "kugaragara", hari impinduka nini mubikorwa byabo, kugirango bikomeze byoroshye. Hano hari amahitamo menshi, byose biterwa nubundi buzima bwawe ubona:
- Urashobora kwiyegurira abana rwose.
- Niba ingingo ya mbere utagukwiriye, turimo gushaka umubyimba w'abana kandi turimo gukora kimwe cyabuze.
- Hindura ibisekuruza.
"Niki? Na none unyuze muri iyi myaka? Nta na rimwe! "
Nta mpamvu izwi cyane. Inararibonye zo kubyara zidahagije zishobora kugira ingaruka zikomeye ku cyemezo cyawe. Nibyo, kandi amezi yambere nyuma yo kuvuka k'umwana, barashobora kugira ingaruka zikomeye ku mubyeyi wa mama ukiri muto kandi udafite uburambe: Ijoro ridasinziriye, kurira umwana, ubucuruzi bwa miliyoni mu rugo, n'ibindi birashobora kumvikana.
Urashobora gutsinda ubwoba mubiro byinzobere, hamwe na psychologue, urasobanura ko byatunganijwe neza kuburyo igitekerezo cyo kubyara cya kabiri gifite ubwoba. Niba urubanza ruri mubibazo byo murugo, noneho bashyigikiye uwo mwashakanye nimiryango, uzakora cyane kuwa kabiri, ahubwo unagira umwana wa gatatu.