Nukuri mubuzima bwawe habaye ikibazo mugihe wasaga nkuwakumva ko umugabo wawe akumva, ariko ibitekerezo ahantu runaka uramubwira. Kenshi cyane, bibaho, ariko hariho ibintu nkibi utagomba kuvuga umuntu, kandi azamugora kutabababarira.
Gutangira byinshi
Abagabo barera abana hamwe no kwishyiriraho ko arigagaburira ejo hazaza mumuryango, bivuze ko icyifuzo cye nyamukuru gikwiye kwinjiza. Mu gihe kizengurutse, niyo yaba afite, umugabo ahora ahura natsinzwe mubukungu, kandi niba utangiye kumwibutsa kunanirwa, aziruka wenyine. Nta mpamvu yo gutaka icyubahiro cye, aho kumushishikariza kugera ku bikorwa bishya.
Reka akwiteho
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Ntunzanzanira umunezero
Nyuma yiyi nteruro, umugabo uko ameze neza azatandukanya nawe, kandi mubi - azagerageza guca umubano. Nko mu bijyanye n'imari, umugabo agerageza kuba mwiza kandi mubucuti kugirango udashobora gutekereza kubindi. Kubwibyo, iyo utangiye ikiganiro kijyanye nigihe kizaza utangaza ko utumva amahoro n'umutekano byumutekano, abagabo bashobora kubashidikanya niba bakomeza umubano wawe.
Ntabwo ureka?
Birasa naho ikibazo cyinzirakarengane, ariko, ni manipulation itaziguye. Umugabo atangira kumva ko ari icyaha kubera ibintu bitabaye, kandi niba hari ibitagenda neza mu mibanire yawe, azatangira kwishinja. Tekereza, kuki ukeneye guha umuntu impamvu irenze?
Umugabo agomba kumva ko ubikeneye
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Kuki mama wawe ari ingenzi kundusha?
Kubantu mama - byera, ntibatungurwa niba umugabo wawe azashyigikira mama mubibazo byamakimbirane, ntabwo ari wowe. Muri iki kibazo, ntibimaze rwose kugerageza no "gukurura igitambaro" kuri wewe: Nibyiza guhangana nishyirwaho ryumubano hamwe na nyirabukwe kugirango wirinde ibiganiro bidashimishije mugihe kizaza Niba uhisemo kubaka umuryango.
Gerageza gushiraho umubano na nyina
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Nita
Wibuke ko abagabo akenshi batumva ibitekerezo, bityo kwinjiza imvugo byatereranye muburyo burashobora kukugirira nabi mugihe kizaza: Umugabo azareka gusa kugufasha mubihe mugihe ukeneye ubufasha bwe. Yibutse - uzahangana.