Ninde murinzi wumutima mumiryango yo mu Burusiya? Birumvikana ko abagore. Iyo ibibazo byose bigaragara, tubanza kwiruka kwa nyoko, nubwo twaba dufite imyaka ingahe. Mama azahora afasha, ahumurizwa, yihutira gukomere, azatanga imiti ikenewe.
Ubushakashatsi bwerekanye - ubushakashatsi bwerekanye - abagore b'Abarusiya biteguye gufata inshingano zuzuye ku buzima bw'umuryango wabo. Kandi abagabo biteguye kubaha Braza y'Inama y'Ubutegetsi nta bitangwa bidasanzwe. 83% by'abagore bibwira ko bafite inshingano zubuzima bwumuryango, iki gihe cyo kureba gitandukanijwe nabagabo 65%.
Impuguke zivuga ko mu Burusiya, abagore, kubera ibintu byinshi, bifite amahirwe menshi yo gushiraho imibereho myiza, imyifatire iboneye ku buzima, igomba gushingwa mu rwego rw'umuryango, kandi hano Uruhare rw'umugore nkumucunga wibanze aragoye kurenga.
Mu gihe cyo kwiga, abagore bagera kuri 600 bafite imyaka 22005, bafite umuryango, mu midugudu 130 × 42 z'igihugu babajijwe. Byaragaragaye ko abahagarariye igice cyintege nke z'ubumuntu atari ko ari ingamba zo gukumira indwara zikomeye z'indwara zikomeye, ariko nanone ziteguye gufata inshingano zo kubungabunga ubuzima mu muryango. Noneho, 83% by'ababajijwe bemeza ko uruhare rw'umugore mu kubungabunga ubuzima bwumuryango ari hejuru cyane kuruta uw'abagabo. N'abagabo, mubyukuri, ntunyabwenge. 65% muri bo kandi bemeza ko uruhare rw'abagore mu kurengera ubuzima bwumuryango ari ngombwa cyane.
Mugihe ubushakashatsi bwerekanye, abarenga kimwe cya kabiri cyabagabo bacu bagize uruhare runini mu kugarukira. Kenshi na kenshi, bikubiyemo abanyamuryango "selile ya societe" muri siporo (31%), bahindure kurya neza (29%) kandi barwana itabi (28%). Nibyo, mugihe umuntu wo mumuryango yararwaye, 34% by'abagore bahanganye n'ikibazo ubwabo, bakishingikiriza ku bumenyi bwabo ndetse n'ubushobozi bwabo, mu gihe kimwe cya kabiri cy'abagore (47%) kwitabaza inama z'impushya.
Abagore bashakisha he amakuru mugihe umuntu wo mu muryango atameze neza? Ibi mbere mu kato muri buri muryango ahantu hateganijwe rwose byari ari isoro ry'ubuvuzi ry'ubuvuzi mu rugo cyangwa igitabo runaka cyerekana umuganga wiga. Mama na bakuru bacu baramuhindukirira kuri buri gihembwe: Niba umugabo yazamutse, niba umugabo yaruye igitutu, aramutse arwaye umutwe ... kandi akenshi wasobanuwe na Jerome K. Jerome mu gitabo cye kizwi Ati: "Batatu mu bwato, ntabwo ariba arira imbwa" - Umwanditsi yavuze ko nyuma yo gusoma icyemezo cy'ubuvuzi, nasanze ari byose byose, usibye ibyo aryamye.
Muri iki gihe, amakuru mu bitabo by'uko mu kinyejana gishize, aho indwara nyinshi zatumiwe zifatwa hamwe no gukoresha ibiyobyabwenge cyangwa ubuhanga budakurikizwa, birumvikana ko byagaragaye. Ariko hariho amahirwe menshi yo kubona byinshi muri byose bifite akamaro kubuzima kuri enterineti.
Ariko, ibisanzwe gutangiza ikibazo muri moteri yubushakashatsi nayo ntabwo buri gihe biganisha kubisubizo byifuzwa. Kubwamahirwe, hariho imbuga nyinshi, amakuru aho umuntu adashobora kugirirwa ikizere muri iki gihe kubijyanye nurubuga rwisi yose. Bamwe muribo bamamaza inyongeramutso zidashisho cyangwa imyigaragambyo yibitekerezo, abandi batanga "abantu" ababyeyi bakomoka aho abaganga bacika intege.
Byongeye kandi, imbuga nyinshi zubuvuzi uyumunsi zongeye kuzuzwa namagambo yubumenyi, atumvikana kumuturage usanzwe. Ariko uburezi bwubuvuzi ntabwo ari kure buriwese, mugihe benshi bashaka kumenya kubuzima.
Kandi nyamara hariho inzira yo gusohoka. Encyclopedia yubuvuzi murugo "ibisekuru bishya" byateguwe kugirango ube ikibanza cyo gusohora "Moscow Komomots" ni byiza. Kumurongo, aho ururimi rwingenzi ruvuga ururimi rwingenzi. Ubuzima. Kumurongo ntabwo ari ubumenyi bukunzwe gusa, nuburyo bufatika butanga gukemura ibibazo byumuryango, nubwo imibonano mpuzabitsina n'imyaka. Urubuga ni rwiza. Kumurongo bizafasha abasomyi bacu kubika neza igihe cya muganga cyangwa ivuriro. Hano urashobora kumenyera amanota yinzobere mubuvuzi nibigo byubuvuzi, bikusanyirijwe hashingiwe kubisobanuro nyabyo byabarwayi babo. Byongeye kandi, bizashoboka kubona ibisubizo kubibazo byose "ububabare" bwose bureba ubuzima. Kandi kandi wiyandikishe kubera kwakira umuganga cyangwa mu ivuriro, ndetse no mu mwiherero, ndetse no muri Leta. Benshi birashoboka ko bazashishikazwa na gahunda idasanzwe yo kwisuzumisha kwisuzumisha, bigufasha kumenya umugabane muremure cyane mubihe bishoboka, nihe ndwara cyangwa imiterere uhuye. Byari gutya - nyuma ya byose, abaganga barenga 30 bashoboye bo mu Burusiya bwihariye, abarimu n'abakandida bo mu bakandida bo mu buvuzi bakoze ku myiteguro. Porogaramu yashushanijwe hashingiwe ku birego byinshi by'abarwayi kandi igufasha gusubiza ikibazo "Kuki kubabaza ...?" Ibintu byose biroroshye: Winjiye mubimenyetso byawe muri gahunda, kandi birakwinjira, ni ubuhe busambanyi ugomba kunyuramo, ni izihe ndwara ushobora kuba ufite, uko muganga ukomeye kandi uwo muganga azafasha. Nyuma yo gutambuka kwisuzumisha neza, umurwayi ntazakenera kujya muri muganga mbere yo gusuzuma. Urashobora kubigeraho ako kanya ukoresheje amashusho no gusesengura.
Kandi, birumvikana ko ikibanza gifite ubuzima bwiza. Kumurongo urashobora kubona ingingo nyinshi zishimishije kandi zingirakamaro, gusangira uburambe nabandi bantu kandi bafite umudendezo rwose kugirango ubone ibisubizo kubibazo byubuzima bwawe kubaganga wawe wa Moscou.