Abagabo benshi bahitamo guhisha amarangamutima - ntabwo ari ikintu cyumugabo, birashimwa kumugaragaro! Ariko hamwe no kunegura habaho ibintu bimwe. Rimwe na rimwe, umugore agomba gukurura mugenzi we, kubera ko atashimishijwe nawe, cyane cyane iyo bigeze ku mibonano mpuzabitsina, ushobora kumva ibijyanye n'ibimenyetso bitari mu magambo twahisemo uyu munsi kugira ngo tuganire.
Ntashaka kugukoraho
Birashoboka ibimenyetso byibanze byumugabo - ahora ushaka guhuza umubiri: Gukoraho vuba mugice cyambaye ubusa, gerageza kubyuka kuruhande, gusomana, kugura. Mu buriri, ikintu kimwe kibaho - niba umugabo ari umusazi kuri wewe, azarokora imibonano yumubiri, aho guhindukira. Niba umugabo arimo gushaka impamvu yo guhunga mu bwiherero cyangwa hafi ntibigerana nawe ijoro ryose, birakwiye gutekereza niba gukomeza umubano numuntu udafata buzz imbere yawe.
Amarangamutima yahujwe numugabo ntabwo aziruka kumahirwe yambere
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Mimica izahora itanga
Niba umukunzi wawe atari umukinnyi mwiza, uhishe unyurwa mugihe cya Samo ntibizakora. Ukuri kwazwi - umugabo aragoye kwibanda kubindi bintu mugihe cya kera igikorwa, kigenwa nibiranga physiologique, bityo urashobora kwizera ko mugihe cyimibonano mpuzabitsina ubona amarangamutima nimyitwarire ye kuri wewe.
Utarinze amaso
Umugabo ushimishijwe nawe muri gahunda yimbitse ntizigera ireba cyangwa ihitemo igihagararo mugihe utabibonye. Birashoboka rwose, ahagarariye undi mu mwanya wawe, kandi kubwibyo ni ngombwa kutabana nawe. Ushobora kuba umuteguye nkumufatanyabikorwa winama zidasanzwe, ariko disikuru na disikuru kubyerekeye ubucuti mumarangamutima.
Guhunga Uburiri
Nkuko twabivuze, umugabo ukunda, azabona impamvu yo guhunga cyangwa kurangiza itumanaho ku mibonano mpuzabitsina ubwaryo. Imibonano mpuzabitsina myiza n'amarangamutima ntabwo izamwemerera guhindukira kurukuta no kuryama kugeza mugitondo kuburyo bucece kujya munsi yubutaka bwawe budahagije. Ihambiriye kandi umuntu unyuzwe ntazanga kuvugana nawe kandi bizagushimisha rwose kugirango nkumve.