Mu myaka mike ishize, wigishije umwana kuvuga, none umwana wawe arashobora kuganisha nawe igihe kirekire, ariko byibura ibiganiro bimwe. Ku myaka 5-6, umwana azi neza ibibera hirya no hino kandi ashobora gutanga isuzuma ryibibazo. Nubwo umwana yaho yari acecetse gute, ataha, rwose azasangira n'ababyeyi be abitangaza.
Ibibazo byabana
Ugomba kuvugana numwana kuva mumyaka yambere. Niba mu ntangiriro yinzira yubuzima ijwi ryawe rituje umwana kandi rimuha kumva umutekano, hanyuma, nyuma yigihe runaka, ni ukugira ijwi ryawe, umwana azumva. Noneho, ntugatesheje ikizere, kuko mwese tuvugwa neza nkukuri kwa nyuma. Kandi iyo umwana akurega, subiza byinshi bishoboka.
Ikintu cya mbere umwana agomba kwiga nuko, Mama na papa baramukunda. Agomba kumva ko mubihe byose bishobora kwizirikana ubufasha bwawe. Teka kenshi, iki nikintu gikomeye cyane mumakuru ye. Iyo umwana asobanukiwe ko akunzwe kandi akamwitaho, ntazararamuka mugihe umubujije kurya agace k'inyongera, kuko azumva ko ukubuza gutya.
Gabanya umwana igihe kinini
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Bwira umwana wawe kubyerekeye icyubahiro
Umuhungu wawe, cyangwa umukobwa wawe, aracyari kuva akiri muto agomba kumva ko abantu bari hafiya ari imbibi zidashobora guhungabana. Ubu bumenyi buzamufasha kudakora ikosa ryibicucu. Imwe mu mirimo nyamukuru y'ababyeyi - kwigisha umwana gusabana n'isi kugirango nta muntu cyangwa urundi ruhande adafite ibibazo. Kandi kubwibyo ugomba gusobanurira umwana.
Vuga kubyo udakunda mu myitwarire ye
Umwana ntazashobora kwiyumvisha, aricyo cyiza, kandi niki, niba umuhaye amahirwe yo kugera kubisubizo. Niba umwana agututsi cyangwa akubita, reka myumvire ko bidashoboka kubikora, ariko muri nta ngabo zikoresha - wige gusabana numwana mubitekerezo.
Umwana agomba kumva ko mu isi hari ibibujijwe, kandi ikikije ntuzahora cyuzuza ibyifuzo bye.
Ushishikajwe no kwishimisha kwe
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Mbwira ibyawe
Abana benshi bashishikajwe nibyo ababyeyi babo basezeranye, kandi abantu bakuru bihutira guhindura iyo ngingo, kuko batekereza ko umwana azagorana kubyumva. Muri uru rubanza, sobanura umwana muburyo bwumvikana, nigute ukorera, niba uri umuganga, mbwira ko gufasha abantu bakuru n'abana iyo bibabaje, ntabwo ari ngombwa kujya mubisobanuro byakazi kawe.
Tubwire ibyo ukunda, niba bishoboka, kumwereka cyangwa ngo ufate. Abana bahora biga isi kandi bafata urugero kubantu bakuru, bityo bahinduka abantu bakuru batazaterwa isoni no kurya numwana wawe, ni ko bimeze cyane kwerekana ko uri umuntu ushimishije uzi ibintu byinshi bishimishije.
Igisha umwana kubaha izindi mbaraga
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Birumvikana ko utibagirwa gushimishwa no kwishimisha k'umwana. Ababyeyi benshi ntibumva cyangwa badashaka kumva isi yimbere yumwana, kuko babitekereza ikintu kitari gikomeye. Ni ngombwa kumva ko kumwana ibi bintu byoroshye bivuze hafi ya byose, gerageza rero gusobanukirwa ibibera mwisi ye, umwana ntagomba kumva uko ari umwirondoro wawe.