Ijambo Schinalfree ryagaragaye muri mirongo irindwi yo mu kinyejana gishize. Yatangijwe mu muryango wa buri munsi wa Amerika. Rodonarchstrist Zurugendo ni Abanyamerika Ellen Pek na Shirley Radl. Bakoze amagambo yabo byoroshye kandi barumvikana hamwe n'amagambo yose: "Vuba aha, umukecuru w'imyaka mirongo itatu udafite abana babona ko afite inenge. Gushyira mu gaciro k'umwana we, abantu babonaga ubuzima bubi, icyerekezo kidasanzwe, uburwayi bwo mu mutwe, inzoga cyangwa ibiyobyabwenge. Ntibigeze bibaho ku muntu uwo ari we wese adafite abana kubwimpamvu imwe yoroshye - nta cyifuzo afite! " Kandi nubwo bidatinze uyu muryango wategekaga (hari ukuntu hamwe namafaranga mubana mubana baje gukomera neza), hashyizweho intangiriro ...
Uyu munsi muri leta zimaze kurenga abana. Bose muri Amerika, kimwe no muri Suwede na Ositaraliya, hari amashyaka ya politiki, abayoboke banze gusaza gusa kugira ngo bakomeze ubwoko, ahubwo bashyize ahagaragara ibisabwa - urugero, guhagarika amahirwe mimishwa n'imisoro Bagenzi bawe, bafite abana. Kandi hari ukuntu bigenda. Hirya no hino ku isi, umuyoboro wa resitora, Cinema, clubs z'amahoteri n'amahoteri, aho ubwinjiriro "kugeza kuri cumi na batandatu". Byongeye kandi, ahantu henshi, abana bagereranyaga n'imbwa. Rero, ku nyubako zamazu runaka cyangwa amahoteri byanditswe mu buryo butaziguye: "Nta bana, nta matungo". Mu nzu ndangamurage, isaha idasanzwe yatangijwe mugihe mu sanzu yo mu butayu mutazahura n'abantu b'ishuri ndetse n'imyaka y'ishuri. Kuki, n'indege n'amamodoka ya gari ya moshi "abantu bakuru" bagaragaye!
Igitangaje ni uko abana bafite itorero rya cyber bo muri Yesu Kristo b'itorero (cyber - itorero rya Yesu Kristo kunanirwa), ryahisemo interuro: "Yesu yakundaga abana, ariko yahisemo kutabishaka. Kandi iyi ni inkuru nziza! " Reka adipts z'iri torero ishobore kubarwa ku ntoki, ariko yateje imbere ibikorwa bifatika, biteza imbere ubuzima butagira umwana ku mbuga nkoranyambaga zose.
Ntabwo kera cyane, kugenda kwa charedrey no mu Burusiya. "Abana" bafite "umwana bafite portal yacyo, ifite abitabiriye ibihumbi byinshi. Rimwe na rimwe, basohoza "amasomo", kandi abantu benshi basanga igice cya kabiri kuri ibyo biterane. By the way, biroroshye cyane: Abashakanye barashobora gushidikanya ko byibuze mubibazo bimwe byibanze ibitekerezo byabo bihuye rwose!
Ku buryo bumwe uyu mutwe nubwoko bwo kwigaragambya. N'ubundi kandi, kuva mu bwana, abakobwa bose bitegura ko bagomba guhinduka ba nyina, kandi kubura umwana mu myaka mirongo itatu bifatwa nk'ikimenyetso cyo hasi. Birumvikana ko abantu banze nkana umunezero w'ububyeyi (Panal) wabayeho igihe cyose. Ariko ubu rero birashobora kugabanya: Umuryango utagira abaragwa ntabwo ari amakosa ya kamere, ahubwo ni selile yuzuye ya societe. Kandi icyarimwe ntutinye ko bazaboneka kuri bo nkumusazi. None, ni izihe ngingo zishyigikira indiges zikora abana?
Kim Catherol ntabwo yemera inshingano zose. Ifoto: Rex ibiranga / Fotodom.ru.
1. Umubumbe Ucura.
Niba urebye ibikorwa byumwana ufite uruhande rutandukanye gato, bigaragara ko bafata icyemezo cyiza. Kandi urashaka iki: Umubumbe akabangamiye cyane, imbuto - bisobanura guteza abantu ubwoba abantu bose.
2. Tanga ubuzima kubindi biremwa ni ikibi gikomeye.
Ibibera muri iki gihe bidukikije mubyukuri biri kure cyane. Abantu bafite intambwe yimyaka irindwi yimuka mubiza. Ntacyo bitwaye numero yashyizweho iherezo ryisi (Ukuboza 2012 cyangwa Mutarama 2022). Ikintu kimwe kirasobanutse: Vuba cyangwa nyuma hazabaho ibyago kwisi yose, byaba intambara ya atome cyangwa ibyago byibidukikije byurugero rwisi. Muri ibi bihe, kudashaka kubyara bigomba kubonwa nkigikorwa gitekerejwe kandi gikuze.
3. Abana barabangamira kwishimira ubuzima.
Nibyo, umwana ni aba egoist yuzuye. Kubwibyo, ntibisobanutse kuri bo, kuki utanga abana beza bose, niba ushobora kwishimira ubuzima kumuriri wuzuye. Kuki amajoro yose adasinziriye, guta ibikoresho byinshi nigihe kitagira ibyiringiro bike, byumwuka kandi byimari bizagaruka hamwe nimbaho!
4. Ntibakunda abana gusa.
Abagabo bato basakuza hafi yisaha. Nubuzima bwiza bwangiza abandi, ariko hashize ibya nyuma kubyerekeye kubabyeyi. Ariko niba wowe, hugeze nimbwa uturanye, azenguruka imyenda yose hamwe nacyo icyondo, urashobora byibuze guhamagarira igisubizo nyirubwite. Ariko umwana wajugunye amabuye muri wowe, kubwimpamvu runaka agomba gusya gusa amwenyura. Akarengane ni hari ukuntu! By the way, ntukitiranya Chayldfrey hamwe nabana (guturika). Oya, umwana wukuri yerekana utuje atuje abana b'abandi. Ntabwo ashaka konsa nurubyaro rwe kandi bwerekanye ko bicecetse ku gicucu kidashimishije cya Hooligans ntoya.
5. Kubura intangarugero.
Nk'uko abahanga, batandatu na barindwi ku ijana by'abagore badahari rwose. Nubwo abo bagore badoda, iki kintu ntigihindura imyumvire yabo ku bana babo: ntibabyitayeho gusa! Abahagarariye imibonano mpuzabitsina ikomeye ijanisha rimwe ni inshuro nyinshi. Tekereza rero niba hari ubwenge bwo gukomeza ubwoko bwabo nkabantu, kuko abana babo, bambuwe urukundo na caress, bazakura bakomoka!
Itegereze urutonde rwose!
Kugirango urujya n'uruza rw'umukunzi mu myaka yashize, ibyamamare byinshi kandi byinshi byegeranye. Inyenyeri nyinshi zaretse guhimba amashusho kubera ubwenge bwabo. Bavugishije ukuri bemera impamvu bakomeza gukomeza ubwoko - umwuga ntacyo bivuze. Kenshi na kenshi, intandaro igomba gushakishwa mumyaka yoroheje.
Urugero rwiza cyane ni ugukundwa na Amerika yose pompenter deptrin oprah winfrey. Ninde rero wari ufite uburambe bworoshye! Umwana muto nyina yamuhaye nyirakuru ureremba, mu butayu bwo mu cyaro. We, wenda, muburyo bwe, yakundaga umwuzukuru, ahubwo ni intara zose (kandi ibyo byafatwaga no gukaraba no kureka inkoni. Nyuma, nyina amujyana umukobwa we. Ariko oblast yari yizeye ibyiza. Nibwo ubuzima bwa tereviziyo izaza bwahindutse ikuzimu. Kuri we, umukobwa we w'imyaka icyenda, bose - n'abavandimwe, na nyirarume kavukire, n'ubucuti bwabo bwinshi. Igisubizo: Ku myaka cumi na bine, Opraz yarasamye maze yibaruka umwana. Kubera ko umwana yavutse imburagihe, yapfuye nyuma gato avuka. Kandi nibwo Winfri yitanze amasezerano yo kutazigera abyara. Nakomeje ijambo ryanjye: "Igihe nari muto, nta muntu unyitayeho, simbizi uko byagenze."
Abana bayobora uwatanze ikiganiro muri TV mu mahano nyayo. Hari ukuntu Oprah yavuze kubyerekeye gusa mugihe yamaze umunsi wose muri sosiyete. Ati: "Igihe kimwe nkeneye kwita ku mwana w'imyaka ine. Nari narambiwe cyane ku buryo numvaga umunezero nyawo igihe nyina yagarukaga. Nibwo naje kubona ko guhitamo kwanjye kwari kutabyara - byari abizerwa rwose. "
Oscar - "Umukinnyi wa Filime-Ubwenge, Helen Mirren, na we yarokotse igikomere gikomeye akiri umwana. Oya, ababyeyi be ntibababajwe kandi na nyirarume kavukire ntibyatinze. Mu kwanga kwanjye kubyara icyaha ... umwarimu w'ishuri. Ati: "Kugeza ubu mu bicuruzwa bito nibuka uko ku ishuri twakusanyirijwe muri foyer shabby, dusobanure ko ubu tuzareba film yo kumenya. Igihe yarimo, twabonye umugore wanditse ku bubabare, ariko akimara kurangira, mwarimu yavuze ko kuvuka k'umwana ari ikintu cyiza cyane ku isi. Tuvugishije ukuri, natunguwe kandi turatangara. Kuva icyo gihe, igitekerezo cy'abana kiranyeganyega. "
Inyenyeri ya Filime "Diary Bridget Jones" na "Chicago" Renelweger ntabwo yarokotse igikomere. Ariko, ntabwo arya urwango rwihariye. Nkurukundo. Kubera impamvu imwe: Intsinzi muri Hollywood ntabwo yamworoheye. Kandi ntateganya ko diaper atakaza akoresheje umurimo nk'uwo wigaruriwe munsi y'izuba. "Ndashobora kwatura uburyo bw'umwuka: Sinigeze njyana igihe. N'ubundi kandi, abana ni igitutu nyacyo. Kandi sinzira gucika intege kubutaka kubushake. Birumvikana, nshobora rimwe na rimwe kuvugana na mwishywa wanjye, ariko buri gihe nduhuje igitekerezo cyanjye ko igihe icyo ari cyo cyose nshobora kwiyahura kubabyeyi babo. "
Hamwe na sokor na winon rider. Ntabwo azi neza ko abaproduce bazategereza ko avuye mu kiruhuko cyo kubyara. N'ubundi kandi, "uruganda rwinzozi", nubwo izina ryurukundo, mubyukuri. Birakwiye kuzamuka gato - n'abakinnyi babarirwa mu magana bato n'abahanga bazagera aho uri! "Nzi ibyo mvuga. Ndetse no muri filime "Black Swan", Intwari yanjye - Abasirikare ballerina - yasimbuye umubyinnyi muto wakozwe na Natalie Portman. Kandi ikintu nkiki gishobora kubaho mubuzima busanzwe. "
Kim Kattroll, umukinnyi wa filime y'urukurikirane "imibonano mpuzabitsina mu mujyi munini", ntatinya umwuga we. Ariko, gukomeza kwerekeza nabyo byanze. Kimwe na Samantha, Kim akunda ibinezeza kandi ntabwo yemera inshingano zose. Kandi abana bahorana abihakana, sibyo? "Mfite inshuti nyinshi hamwe n'abana, nanjye ubwanjye ndi nyirasenge. Ariko iyo nagarutse mu rugo, ndashaka kuruhukira aho, urabizi? " Umukinnyi wumukinnyi ufite ubuzima budasanzwe kuba abana babonwa nkigimuga. "Ariko ni iki kiteye ubwoba niba nshaka amahoro? Nyizera, ntabwo nicuza na gato ko ntaba mama. Ariko kuki kubwiki kuri uku kuri, nakagombye gufata amagana ibitekerezo kuri wewe? Ntabwo iryo vangura ritari ivangura? "
Kim arya mugenzi we Eva Mendez, muri mirongo itatu n'umunani na we ntiyari azi umunezero w'ubuyobozi. "Kuba inyangamugayo, ndasenga cyane. Ariko nibindi byinshi nkunda ihumure ryawe kandi rirerire, rirerire. Ni nde ushobora kuncira urubanza? "
Kameron Diaz bitandukanye nibindi byamamare byinshi ntabwo ahangayikishijwe nibibazo byihariye, ariko ibibazo byitsinda ryibihe byisi. "Ku isi n'abantu benshi. Kuki wongera umubare wabo? " Ariko, inyenyeri ya firime "mask" ntabwo aribyiciro mubyo ye. "Nta kintu na kimwe nkongera mu kintu icyo ari cyo cyose. Muri iki cyiciro cyo mu cyiciro cyanjye, ndumva ibibazo bya demokarasi birakomeye cyane. "
Hariho mubyamamare hamwe numwimerere nyako - abafite instinct babyaranye nabavandimwe boroheje. Rero, igikundiro cyagati kandi kigaragaza abahinzi ba Milen yizeza ko itumanaho numwana we asimbuye ko ahangayikishijwe n'inguge ebyiri zibana na bo buri gihe. Kandi afite ubwoba bw'abana. Kandi ifite kandi abana kuva mu bwana. Igihe Milen yari akiri umunyeshuri w'ishuri, ababyeyi, kugira ngo abone impuhwe, agahatirwa buri cyumweru gusura ibitaro bya Hashe, aho abana bafatwaga na autistic. Ntabwo bitangaje kuba igitekerezo cy'abazungu kitageze kubeshya.
Inyenyeri ya Filime "Abantu ba X" Famke Jansen nabo bahitamo kwita ku nyamaswa. "Ubuzima bwanjye bwose burimo kuzunguruka hafi ya Likorisi. Hamwe no kugaragara, kubaho kwanjye byari bifite ibisobanuro. Kuki nkeneye umwana niba imbwa yanjye isimbuye umukobwa wumukobwa mwiza, numuryango, hamwe nabana? "
Ariko iristing itangaje, yagoretse ibitabo hamwe nabagabo ba mbere ba Sinema yisi, birashoboka cyane ko badafite aho babyara. "Nabayeho ubuzima nk'ubwo uko nshaka. Kandi sinicuza byose bitabyaye abana. Ndi umugore wishimye rwose! "
Igitsina gabo, umubare wonyine
George Clooney kure yigitekerezo cy'abana. Ifoto: Rex ibiranga / Fotodom.ru.
Benshi bazwi bahagarariye igitsina gikomeye nabo bemera ko badakunda abana. Akenshi - bitewe nuko badashaka gusangira igice cya kabiri hamwe numuntu wese. "Nyizera: Umugore wanjye yabuze kandi nanjye. Kuki tugifite umuntu? " - avuga neza Christopher Uken. Umwanditsi Haruka Murakami ategereje akanya igihe amaherezo yizihuye, ariko imyaka ishira, kandi yumva ari umwana. Umuyobozi Quentin Taranno yizeza ko abana be ari firime ze. N'IZINDI rwiyerekana, yakunzwe, ntakeneye. Nibyiza, kandi inzozi z'abagore bose George Clooney, igihe yibazwaga ku bana, akenshi bababazwa cyane: "Niba nkeneye kuvugana n'abana kandi niyumva mu muryango kandi numva mu muryango Uruziga, nahamagaye gusa Brad na Angie ndabatumiye gusura. Gusa kugirango twibutse ko nishimye kandi nta mwana. "
Abahanuzi mu gihugu cyabo
Mu Burusiya, nubwo kugenda kw'icyifuzo cya Chayldfrey, ntiyemerwa cyane no kurengera uburenganzira bwabo bwo kutabyara. Nibura ibyamamare byacu nibisubiza rwose ibibazo bijyanye n'ubwenge bwabo. Kandi akenshi bigarukira kurwenya.
Ingerborga Dave kubibazo Kuki adafite abana, asubiza hamwe nuburyo buranga Limor: ahitamo igitsina. Maya Plisetskaya asubiza ikibazo gisa cyasohoye Aphorism yose: "Imiryango ifite abana cyane. Maya Plisetskaya - Umwe! "
ZemFira. Ifoto: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
Zemu hari ukuntu yigeze mu kiganiro n'abanyamakuru ati: "Oya, sinshobora kubyara, nshobora kuvuga nti:" Nibyo, ubwenge, uri mwiza, uri mwiza? Muraho, wakoze iki? " Kubera impamvu runaka yamusaga naho iyi mpaka yasobanura byimazeyo kwanga gukora umuryango no kwita ku rubyaro.
Kandi Ksenia Sobchak yonyine yonyine ni yo agaragaza uburenganzira bwe bwo kutabyara. Kandi nk'urugero, imyaka ye ukiri muto: "Nemeranya rwose no kuba bakiri bato ko bashizeho imico mibi kandi myiza. Ariko vuba aha yaje gufata umwanzuro ko muri rusange ndi umuntu udafite ubwana. Ababyeyi barankunze, ariko icyarimwe (bitewe nuko bari bafite ubuzima bwimbitse) nahawe. Nabaye igitambo cy'icyiswe uburezi bwayo. Ni muri urwo rwego, uburere bw'ababyeyi buhinduka ifu runaka igomba gukururwa. " Niyo mpamvu Ksenia adashaka iherezo hamwe nuruvyaro rwabo. "Ntabwo nkunda abana bato, ntibantera ibyiyumvo byamarangamutima. Sinshaka kubaho umuryango mubyumva. Indangagaciro ntabwo ari iyanjye. Nizera ko capilism arizo zivuranganya. Iyo ufite ubuzima busanzwe, akazi, uburezi, amafaranga n'amahirwe, nta cyifuzo rwose cyo gukoresha ubu buzima ku mpapuro, amabuye y'agaciro.
Ariko, vuba aha muri disikuru ya Ksenia yagaragaye ko ashidikanya. "Ubu ntabwo ntabwo ndi mubyiciro. Ibi biratera imbere. Ahari umuntu ukwiye azagaragara mubuzima bwanjye cyangwa imyaka nzatangira gupfa wenyine, hanyuma nzakora intambwe ikurikira. "
Ksenia Sobchak atekereza ko ari igitambo cy'uburezi bwihuse. Ifoto: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
Muri iki kibazo, urujya n'uruza rumwe rw'imitwe yu Burusiya, rwashyizwe kumurongo umwe. Yumva gutya: "Umwana nyawe ni ijambo umuntu. Niba yavuze ko atazigera ayobora abana, ntazigera abikora. Niba "nta na rimwe" byarangije imyaka mirongo itatu, cyangwa mirongo itatu n'itanu, cyangwa makumyabiri, ni imyanda, utuntu duto mu buzima. " Nibyiza, niba aribyo, bivuze ikintu kimwe: Kuzimangana kwabantu ntabwo byugarijwe neza!