Devianity, ni ukuvuga gutandukana muburyo busanzwe bwimyitwarire bigaragarira, guhera kuva hakiri kare. Mugihe abana bamwe baretse ababyeyi kugira injangwe cyangwa ikibwana, abandi bababazwa ninyamaswa zimaze kubaho munzu. Ni ngombwa kumenya ikibazo mugihe no kuvugana ninzobere. Hariho ibikorwa byinshi, nyuma yuburyo bwa psychologue gusaba ababyeyi kuza kugisha inama abana.
Igitero ku bandi bana
Niba umwana wawe ari mubi cyane, ahamagara umwete mu ishuri ry'incuke, atoragura ibikinisho by'urubuga ava mu bandi bana cyangwa mu kajagarisha ibindi bintu, igihe kirageze cyo gutsinda induru. Mubisanzwe impamvu nyayo yiyi myitwarire ni umubano mumuryango. Niba bitutswe murugo, bahanwa kumubiri cyangwa ngo birengagizwe rwose, umwana azasuka rwose amarangamutima mabi kuri bagenzi babo cyangwa abana bato. Yumva ko ababyeyi bafite, ahubwo bafite kurwego rwibibazo, imyitwarire mibi iracyagerageza kwitondera. Rimwe na rimwe, imyitwarire mibi isobanurwa no kugaragara k'umwana muto mu muryango, ababyeyi bahatirwa kwita cyane. Ni ngombwa kuzana umwana kwita ku bavutse, batanga imirimo idahwitse. Kurugero, hitamo ibikinisho cyangwa imyenda hamwe, uzane amabati cyangwa amatiba. Gerageza uryamye umuto kugirango ukine kandi uganire numwana w'imfura kugirango utumva atereranywe.
Igitero gisobanurwa nibibazo biri mumuryango.
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Kudashobora kumvira abakuru
Ibuka ubwana bwawe. Nukuri mubyiciro byawe cyangwa bibangikanye ni umwana ushobora gutangira kuririmba byoroshye ku isomo cyangwa guhora ava mwishuri nta nteguza. Ku myaka 7, abana babaye ikibazo cya kabiri cyo gukura iyo bamenye "ego" kandi bitandukanya societe. Ntabwo abana bose bakura byoroshye, bityo ni ngombwa kumenya ibibazo bisa mugihe no kuvugana ninzobere kugirango abafashe. Azasobanurira umwana impamvu ukeneye kumvira abakuru no gusohoza ibyo basabye. Nyuma yo kuvura, ubusanzwe abana ntibahungabanya no gutanga indero.
Umuhungu utuje.
Mugihe abana bamwe bagaragaza kumugaragaro ko batanyurwa, abandi bazinjira, bityo biragoye kumenya ukurenga ku myitwarire isanzwe. Ariko, nabana nkabo bagaragaza ibimenyetso byo kuringaniza muriki gihe batigarurira, mu nzozi. Umwana arashobora gukanda amenyo, avuga mu nzozi, ahora aranga no kubyuka. Niba ibi byabaye rimwe, gukubita muri bell hakiri kare. Ariko, guhora dusubiramo ibimenyetso byerekana neza ko hari ibibazo.
Komeza Uruhinja rwawe
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Gushinyagurira inyamaswa
Iyo umwana urengeje imyaka 3 yarababajwe ninyamaswa, ivuga kubyerekeye igitero cyinshi. Gerageza gusobanura ko inyamaswa ari inshuti zacu kandi ntibumva bafite ububabare butari bwo mugihe barimo kunyeganyega k'ubwoya cyangwa gutera. Ntuzigere ureka umwana itera amabuye cyangwa umucanga mu nyamaswa zoroheje, ubatere ubwoba cyangwa gutereta ibiryo. Umuntu wubwana agaragaza ubugome kubiremwa bitagira kirengera, mugihe kizaza rwose azasahura ibitero kubantu. Imyitwarire nkiyi igomba kubikwa neza abwira umwana ijwi rikomeye ryigikorwa kitari cyo.
Kudashobora kugenzura ibikenewe
Abana bamwe bafite ibibazo bya psychologiya bakuze barashobora kwitwara nkabana. Kurugero, wibagirwe kujya mu musarani cyangwa gufata neza. Kwigaragaza cyane byerekana cyane ubwoba nubunararibonye. Ku mwana agomba gufatwa nkumuntu wigenga, amuha umudendezo wo guhitamo no kuyishyigikira muri byose. Niba mumuryango hari ibidukikije bitameze neza, imitekerereze yumwana igerageza kuyirinda igitero cyo hanze, nkigisubizo cyagarutse ku nkomoko - imyitwarire yo mu kindi gihe. Vugana n'umwana, wiga ko amuhangayikishije.