Iyo abantu bose bari hafi bagabanijwe n'amafoto yubukwe cyangwa amashusho kuruhuka hamwe nigice cye cya kabiri, batifuza ko bashakisha "abantu b'inzozi ze" nimugoroba, "Ndi iki?" - Gutekereza abakobwa bakundana wenyine, bazunguruka lebbon muri "Instagram". Ariko ntibikwiye kubona inkweto zo mu gasanduku, tekereza niba ukeneye umubano cyangwa udashaka guhinda inyuma yinshuti zawe mu rubuga rusange? Twahisemo kugufasha gusobanura muri iki gihe.
Ntabwo wigeze umenya kera
Niba uherutse kuba yarangije umubano uherutse kubafatanyamo umwanya munini nkabashakanye, "kwibiza" mumibanire, menyesha umukunzi wanjye, ntibikenewe niba uri Witeguye kwiha kubandi bantu. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bagira inama yo gukoresha umwanya wabo w'ubusa ku muntu w'ingenzi mu buzima bwawe - ubwe. Mugihe umaze kugarura imbaraga zumwuka, urashobora kwishora mubuzima bwite mugihe gito gishoboka.
Ntabwo ukoreshwa mukubaza uruhushya
Umubano uwo ariwo wose ugaragariza ubwumvikane, utagira icyo udashobora kugenda ubwumvikane ubwo aribwo bwose. Ibyinshi mubyitsa bibaho mubutaka buke bwumva umufatanyabikorwa - icyifuzo cyo kuzuza ubusa bwo mumutwe upfunyika guhitamo umuntu utagusobanukiwe na gato. Gusa hitamo icyo witeguye kwigomwa kubwa jorgobood yumukunzi wawe hamwe nukugoranye, urashobora kwiyegereza neza umuntu ushobora guhitamo ubuzima bwawe bwose.
Ibintu byose bifite umwanya wacyo
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Ntushobora kwizera umuntu
Ikindi kibazo mugihe ushakisha umukunzi ushobora kuba incamake yawe. Birumvikana ko ntakintu kidasanzwe mubyukuri ko kutizerana no kuvura abo tuziranye, cyane cyane niba umubano wabanjirije wasize igikomere mu bugingo bwawe. Nubwo waba wihutira gute inshuti n'abavandimwe, ntamuntu numwe ufite uburenganzira bwo kwirinda kwiga witonze abakandida kugirango ibintu bibabaje byongere bisubiremo.
Amaherezo wabonye umwanya
Bibaho ko igice cya kabiri kidukurura rwose, ntuha amahirwe yo kumara umwanya wenyine. Umubare munini w'abagore batsinze bemeza ko mugihe habuze umubano, basanze imbaraga nuburyo bwo gushyira mubikorwa ibitekerezo byabo bitinyutse. Niba wumva ko wageze ku mwuka wa kabiri, hari icyifuzo cyo kurema no kwiyegurira, kwiha umwanya wo kumesagura imbaraga zo guhanga, wenda ubu ntabwo ari igihe cyo gukora ikinamico.