Niba ufite ubushakashatsi byibuze inshuti zawe, abashakanye bazashyira ibitekerezo byumugabo kuri imwe mumirongo yo hejuru murwego rwimico myiza yabagabo. Kandi mubyukuri, umugabo ufite ubwenge butyaye azagufasha gusetsa mubyukuri, bigatuma uharanira ibyiza kandi uzahora atanga inama zukuri. Ntuzigera wumva ko namaze ubusa. Noneho ni izihe nyungu zindi zishobora kuguha umukunzi mwiza?
Ntazashira, ntuzatanga nawe
Nk'itegeko, umugabo ushoboye gukonjesha azahora abona inzira yo kuva mubuzima bwa buri buzima, kandi ibi, urabona, ubuziranenge bwumugabo uzaza na se wumuryango. Ibi nibyo rwose iyo bavuganye ku "rukuta rw'amabuye", kandi oya, ntabwo, ntabwo ari ingano yimitsi, ariko mubushobozi bwo gukemura ibibazo byawe nibibazo byigice cya kabiri. Ku rwego rwibitekerezo, umugore arimo gushaka imico nkiyi mumuntu, uzatanga ibyiringiro by'ejo hazaza, ni yo mpamvu umuntu ufite kwishimwa atagomba kwinubira abagore.
Ni gake yiruka
Niba umuntu ashoboye gusesengura ibintu kandi arimo arashaka uburyo bwo kubikemura, ntabwo byumvikana gusa guhunga ku "bimenyetso" byambere by'akaga. Ukuri kwabantu - Abagore baratutse, ariko nyuma yigihe gito basaba ko basaba imbabazi mubyiciro byambere byimibanire, bahitamo umukobwa mwiza mugice cya kabiri, kitazananduza uburakari bwabo bwihuse. Kurambirana, ariko byizewe. Umugabo uzi ubwenge yumva ko amarangamutima ari muri kamere yumugore kandi akangura cyane kugirango yiguma mu ijwi, bityo akaba atarahunga mu bwato bw'umuryango, ahubwo azabona uburyo bwo gutuza umugore we no kubaho "muri Cher . "
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Hamwe na we ntibizarambirana
Birumvikana ko buri wese muri twe kuva igihe yishidikanya, birasanzwe, niba bidahinduka ibitekerezo bitesha agaciro. Umuntu uzi ubwenge azi gusunika umwanya mugihe ushobora guhura n'intsinzi ugatsinda, ntazihutira kwitonda, bityo azarokora umuryango we ibibazo. Nk'uko amategeko, abagabo bafite ubwenge kandi bafite ubwenge bashaka uburebure muri kariyeri hanyuma bakikingira abantu babereye. Mubisanzwe, umugore azagora kurwanya imbaraga zubwenge.
Umuntu wubwenge = Umukunzi mwiza
Ariko yasabye gusa ko ibintu byose ari ugutunganya no kwihesha agaciro. Kubwamahirwe, ubwenge ntabwo buri gihe bwemeza imyumvire ihagije ye ubwe nubushobozi bwayo, no gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina cyane ni ngombwa cyane gufata kandi, cyane cyane, kumva ubushobozi bwabo kandi usuzume mugenzi wawe kandi usuzume neza mugenzi wawe. Niba wafashe umunyabwenge, menya neza ko ubwo burambe bwimbitse utazigera wibagirwa.