Muri icyo gihe, mubana, dushiraho umubano nababyeyi. Umubano nabo nyuma kandi uzasobanura ubushobozi bwacu bwo gukorana nabandi bantu. Itumanaho hamwe namashusho yingenzi mubuzima ni matrix runaka yimyumvire yacu yisi nibindi.
Niba kandi tutibutse byinshi ku bwana bwawe, akenshi ni gihamya ko kwibuka byingirakamaro byahanaguje bimwe mubyibuka bitoroshye.
Ikigereranyo cy'iki ni inzozi nk'izo:
Ati: "Mperutse gutegeka inzozi zizasobanura ibyabaye mu bwana bwanjye, kikagira ingaruka ku buzima bwanjye. Kandi narose inzozi, aho abantu nyamukuru ari ubugingo. Ibyo urasa - sinshobora kuvuga, ariko ibyiyumvo ni roho. Ndaguruka iruhande rw'ubugingo bukuru. Nyine. Ni Imana kuri njye. Ndizera ko yari atagira akagero. Kandi mu buryo butunguranye ku mubiri mu nzozi, mubyukuri, ntangiye kumva mfite ubwonko mu muhogo. Ni ukuvuga, aranyeganyega. Kandi araseka. Ntacyo nshobora gukora. Mfite ibishoboka gusa, imidute, intege nke no kumva ko ari mubi kandi bidafite agaciro. Kandi ibyiyumvo byamurika ni ubwoba bwo mu gasozi. Noneho ndabyuka nkomeza kuryama mu gice, cyangwa nakomeje inzozi kubyo naje mubuzima - niba ntatekereje, niba nari nkeneye ubu bugingo mugihe cyanyuma. Nakomeje kugurukana na we nyuma yigihe gito, kubera ko nta kintu nakwibutse. Ntiyibutse guhubuka. Iguma gusa kumva ko utagira ubuzima bwiza bwo kwitanga, ubusine, butagira gitsina. Undi mutima utizera abandi. Natangiye kuguruka kure cyane kuri ubu bugingo, ariko n'ukugaragara n'urukundo rwahoze. "
Ibitotsi byerekana ko hari ubwoko bumwe bwuzuye, roho yemewe kuruhande rwinzozi zacu. Kandi iyi roho aho kuba urukundo ninkunga ihinduka kugirango ibangamire ubuzima. Inzozi nkizo zirasa nabarezwe kandi zihanwa kumubiri. Umwana arafatwa. Imyitwarire isanzwe mugihe cyo kwirengagiza byarokowe cyangwa byangwa. Ariko kubera ko uwakoze icyaha ari umuntu mukuru aramukunda kandi aramukeneye, umwana agomba kwizirikana ibihano bishoboka. Ihinduka uhangayitse, MBIND, ukeka, bidasanzwe.
Nubwo ababyeyi benshi barera abana bakubise urushyi no guhungabana, ariko ntamuntu numwe uha agaciro. Mubyukuri, ni imwe mumakosa asanzwe kandi yica abashakanye. Rero, bashishikariza igitekerezo cyumwana ko umubiri we udafite agaciro ko ushobora kurimburwa ukamutera ubwoba. Gukura, abana nk'abo ntibazi uburyo bwo kwirwanaho imbere y'abandi, cyane cyane imbere y'ubuyobozi.
Ikigaragara ni uko inzozi z'inzozi zacu zishingiye ku buryo zigaragaza birashoboka ko yiboneye mu mibanire n'inzego zikunzwe - iterabwoba yibutse kuruta kubitekereza.
Kandi ukoresheje ibitotsi gusa, ifite ubushobozi bwo kuvugana nintera nubwoba buri gihe bihari mubucuti.
Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin