Kenshi na kenshi, iyo bivuga ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo, amashusho ateye ubwoba y'abantu - abanyagitugu basebya abagore babo bazamuka. Ariko amateka yimyaka yashize agaragaza ko ihohoterwa ridakora imibonano mpuzabitsina, kandi akenshi rishobora kuba rito cyane cyane kurenga ku mugore uhinduka ibibazo nibibazo muri couple. Ariko, ntabwo abantu bose bashobora kubona mumukobwa mwiza wumukobwa "wa dayimoni mu mwenda." Tuzakubwira ibiranga imyitwarire bigomba kukumenyesha.
"Aya ni amafaranga yanjye"
Benshi bumvise interuro isa n'abashakanye bamenyerewe: "Amafaranga yanjye ni amafaranga yanjye, kandi amafaranga ye ni rusange." Kandi yego, iki gitekerezo gikurikiza benshi mubahagarariye hasi. Niba kandi hashize imyaka mirongo itanu, abagore batoranijwe igice cy'umushahara, kugira ngo "umuntu atagaburira", none, nta mpamvu, umugore ashobora gusaba umukunzi we amafaranga yakoresheje. Umugore nkuyu arashaka kugenzura rwose imigenzo yose yubuzima iyobowe, kandi tekereza ko umugabo azafata ibyemezo byabo - yuzuye ubusazi, na none akurikije abagore Tirana. Niba inshuti yawe yizeye ko hatabayeho ubumenyi bwe rwose uzakoresha amafaranga "kubusa", ejo hazaza ikibazo kirakabije.
"Uhora ushinja"
Syndrome yahohotewe nta mpamvu - ikimenyetso gisanzwe cyabagore-Tirana. Ibyabaye mubuzima bwe, imishinga yose yatsinze nibyabaye - birashoboka cyane, ariko umufatanyabikorwa ahora aryozwa, nubwo adafitanye isano itaziguye, ariko niba adafite isano itaziguye yo gutsindwa, ariko birashoboka ko itaziguye ". buri wese arateganya. Kandi rero muri byose. Byongeye kandi, abagore nkabo ntibazana irungu - ninde ukora cyane? Oya, reka uwo mugabo yegere, kandi aruta niba atazatongana. Ukeneye amarangamutima nkaya?
nta mpamvu yo kwihanganira ubujurire nk'ubwo
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"Uramureba gusa"
Umunyagitugu wumugore ntazabura amahirwe yo kwerekana ko aruta umuntu kumugaragaro. Azi neza ko umufatanyabikorwa atazamusubiza, none kuki utakuzana ego yawe kandi werekane abantu bari umuyobozi mukuru? Kenshi na kenshi, ibihe nkibi bibaye muruziga rwabantu bazwi - umugore ntabona ibisobanuro bya "Gushyira igitutu" bwumufatanyabikorwa uri munsi yacyo, kuko bazahita babibagirwa, kandi bazakomeza kuganirwaho kandi bazagiganirwaho "Indero" muri iyi couple kuva kera. Buri gihe akeneye abareba.
"Ntuzabona umwana"
Ibintu bikabije niba hari abana muri couple yawe. Muri iki gihe, umugore hafi yaretse kugenzura, cyane cyane niba abona uburyo umwana ari akundwa. Yumva ko utazajya ahantu hose, uko byakago kose. Byongeye kandi, ndetse no kuruhuka, ibintu ntibizatera imbere: Nubwo umuntu akazakuraho buri gihe, ikindi kibazo kizatangira - kugenwa nabana. Umugore azatangira kubuza kubona umwana cyangwa imbaraga zose azagabanya amatariki yawe. Gerageza kwiyegereza witonze umufatanyabikorwa, bitabaye ibyo ejo hazaza bizazana ibibazo byinshi kuruta umunezero.