Buri mubyeyi ahura nigihe umwana akeneye kwanga. Kandi turabishaka cyane, kuko tudashaka kubabaza umwana wawe. Twibajije niba bishoboka kwanga kugirango tutazerera kumva umwana hanyuma tutagorekane, twaba twakoze neza. Ibikurikira, tuzasuzuma uburyo bwinshi bwo kwanga nta cyangiza psphe yababyeyi numwana.
Sobanura ko twanze abana
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Ntukavuge kenshi
Wari uzi ko hamwe no gusubiramo, amagambo yacu yashishikarizwa numwana? Abana bamenyereye cyane kubyo banze ko batangira kwirengagiza kubuzwa kwawe. Gerageza kurema ibidukikije kugirango umwana ashobore gutsimva gutsindwa bishoboka, kurugero, kura ibintu byingenzi kuri wewe kure yumwana wumwana kugirango, nk'urugero, yabuze terefone yawe, kandi ntiwafashe terefone yawe, kandi ntiwafashe byose. Ubundi buryo bwiza nugusimbuza imiterere mibi kubyiza. Aho kuvuga: "Ntukinga injangwe y'umurizo!" Nibyiza umbwire: "Icyapa injangwe, azabikunda rwose."
Hagarara ahakomeye kuri we
Niba wanze kugura imashini y'abana, bukeye bwatanze mu gitutu cye kandi aracyagurwa - inzira nziza yo kuba umwana azakomeza gutesha agaciro ibibujijwe byose.
Kora kugirango umuryango wawe uhanishwa amategeko runaka adashobora guhungabana cyangwa abana cyangwa abantu bakuru: ni ko wigisha umwana kuba ibibujijwe gukurikiza gahunda, kandi atari ukubera ko ubishaka. Kurugero, urashobora gushiraho gahunda: Hariho gusa mu gikoni kumeza, ntabwo ari mucyumba cyo kuraramo imbere ya TV. Menya ko wowe ubwawe ugomba kubahiriza amategeko yose yashyizeho.
Shiraho amategeko umuryango wose uzakurikira
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Vuga kugirango umwana asobanukiwe
Gusa "oya" kumwana ntacyo bivuze. Ugomba gusobanura impamvu udashobora gukora ibyo umenyesha, kandi ntukibagirwe ijwi - agomba kumenya neza, bitabaye ibyo umwana azatekereza ko wowe ubwawe ushidikanya kandi ugerageze kukwemeza.
Kenshi guhimbaza abana
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Himbaza Umwana kenshi
Iyo umwana yitandukanije n'uruhande rwiza, bose baramushimira, ntibatakaza amahirwe ayo mahirwe. Agomba kumva ko imyitwarire myiza izana umunezero kubabyeyi be. Ni ngombwa kandi ko umuryango wose ukurikiza ibibujijwe, aribyo Mama, na papa bagomba kuba umwe mubikorwa. Ntihakagombye kubaho ikintu na kimwe umubyeyi ibuza, kandi papa ibisingizo, umwana azasobanukirwa vuba iki, kandi azatangira gukoresha ababyeyi.
Muri rusange, gerageza byinshi kuruta kubuza, kandi kubwibyo birinda ibihe byamakimbirane hanyuma usobanure umwana hakiri kare bishoboka ko bifuza cyane: Ibi bizamufasha mu kigero cyambere ni byiza kubaka Umubano n'isi.