Birasa nkaho byaba byiza kuvugana ninshuti zishaje, ariko utari umaze kwiruhuka no kumva ko ushobora kuvugana ningingo iyo ari yo yose. Biraranga umuntu guhinduka, kandi hamwe numuntu ubwe ahindura kandi ibibakikije, ntakintu kibi. Nubwo mugihe cyishuri, umuntu yari umugenzi wawe wizerwa, nta mpamvu yo gutinya kwiyemerera ko ubu umaze gukura ku nyungu zabo bwite zidashobora guhura.
Twakoze guhitamo ibimenyetso nyamukuru ugomba guhindura uruziga rwitumanaho.
Ndetse n'inshuti yo mu bwana irashobora kuzana
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Itumanaho riboneka kuri gahunda yawe
Muri buri sosiyete hariho umuntu kuri pikipiki, kandi, niba uri, utekereza ushikamye, waba witeguye kwihanganira "gahunda yingabo". Inshuti ikubaha rwose kandi ishima ntabwo izigera igushyira mubihe uzaguma wenyine nikibazo cyawe.
Ntabwo hagomba kubaho ikintu nk'iki abantu bose bishimisha, kandi urimo gukemura ingaruka. Amaherezo, itumanaho nk'iryo rizahita riganisha ku cyaha cyihishe, kizahinduka urukozaso rukomeye. Nkwiye kuzana kuri ibi?
Ntushobora kwishingikiriza ku nshuti
Dufate ko wemeye guhura ukajya muri firime. Uza mumwanya wagenwe, kugeza igihe isomo rikomeza iminota 20, kandi byose ntabwo aribyo. Utangiye guhangayikishwa, guhamagara, kandi ntasubiza. Birumvikana ko film uzanyura neza, utaha iwawe urakara, kandi bigaragara ko yari muri cafe hamwe nundi nshuti, akakwibagirwa rwose. Birumvikana ko tutazirikana ibintu bikomeye mugihe umuntu atashoboraga kuza kubwimpamvu nziza, ariko mubindi bihe bizaba byiza mugihe wowe n'inshuti yawe uzakoresha imyidagaduro mubihe bitandukanye kandi ahantu hatandukanye.
Hamwe n'inshuti ushobora kuganira kubintu byose
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Inyungu zawe ntabwo zihuye
Buri muntu afite inyungu zayo ayireka igihe gito, abantu bahurira, barwanya ibyo ukunda, buri gihe basebya inkuru zawe, mugihe, kurugero, guhuza ibitekerezo bifatika.
Ntugomba gutamba inyungu zawe niba undi muntu adashaka kubara hamwe nabo. Kuki umara umwanya kumuntu utakubaha.
Inshuti yawe ntabwo ishishikajwe nubuzima bwawe
Ubucuti bushingiye cyane kubice byamarangamutima, niko inshuti zisanzwe zigabanijwe nubunararibonye bwabo, wizeye ko uzabona inkunga ninshuti. Emera, ikibabaje iyo wihutira kujya mu nama kugirango uvuge amakuru atangaje (kuri wewe), kandi inshuti yawe irakureba, kandi inshuti yawe ikureba, hamwe no kubona iyo uzarangiza iyo urangije imvugo yawe.
Niba udashobora gusangira ubunararibonye bwawe nibyishimo hamwe nuyu muntu, birashoboka ko atari kumuntu wawe?
Niba uhora mugutoragura isosiyete, mugihe uzatangira kuba inzika
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Inshuti yanze kugushyigikira
Igikorwa cacu icyo ari cyo cyose kiracyari mubyiciro byibitekerezo ukeneye gushyigikira abantu bakomeye. Urashobora kuba warashyigikiye ibitekerezo rusange hamwe ninshuti yawe mwishuri hamwe ninshuti yawe, bubatse gahunda, ariko noneho, ibitekerezo byawe ntibibona igisubizo kumuntu wagusezeranije kugukomeza muri byose. Biragoye kwihindura, nundi muntu kandi ugerageze kutagerageza. Niba umuntu aguhenze cyane, menya uruziga rwibintu mwembi muzaba biteguye gushyikirana, bitabaye ibyo birashoboka cyane ko uzakenera kurenga umubano.
Birumvikana ko, nta mpamvu yo kugirana ubucuti, ikintu nyamukuru ari kuri wewe, kandi inshuti yawe yari nziza muri sosiyete isanzwe.