Umuntu wese yiteguye kubona icyifuzo cyifuzwa buri gikorwa cya gatatu. Nkuko biri muri: "Ntabwo ariwe wambere ushaka byose hanyuma uhite ujyana nawe." Kubwamahirwe, icyifuzo ntabwo ari ugukora, ni ngombwa gutanga imbaraga zimwe, ariko, imbaraga ni imwe mu ngingo zingenzi munzira igana kuntego zayo. Turasaba kumenyana natwe niba bishoboka gutanga umusanzu byihuse kubisubizo byikintu kimwe gusa.
Inzira yo gutsinda ntabwo izayobora
Turatekereza iki mugihe dushaka, kurugero, kugira umutekano? Turatekereza aho dushobora kubona ibikoresho muburyo butaziguye (shakisha / kugera ku murage / gutsinda, hitamo ihitamo rikwiye), none subiza ikibazo: Umuntu yabaga? Hafi tumaze kumenyekana mubihe nkibi, mubibazo byacu. Ariko ntugomba kwiheba, niba u nyirarume atakwandikiye, fata ibiganza mumaboko yawe. Tekereza, nigute ushobora kubona byinshi, ariko icyarimwe witoze. Hindura imitekerereze yawe wizeye gutsinda gutunguranye muburyo bwo kugera kuntego zawe. Birashoboka ko ufite inshuti cyangwa inshuti ikora mubigo bikomeye cyangwa biyobora ubucuruzi bwawe uzi wenda, arashaka gusa umukozi utanga ikizere? Ntutinye kwagura ibisubizo ugatekereza kudasanzwe.
Ntukizere kubitekerezo gusa
Ahari ibi bisa nkaho bigaragara, ariko ntabwo abantu bose babona umwanya ukurikira: Hano hari inzasi nini hagati ya "yatekereje kubisubizo" na "gushyira mubikorwa". Nibyo, nta cyifuzo gishimishije, ibitekerezo byawe bishyirwa mubikorwa, ariko nta bikorwa byawe, barusakuza gusa mumutwe. Ibitekerezo byacu nibisabwa kugirango dutekereze kandi dushyire mubikorwa byatekerejweho, bitera ibihe, ariko, ibikorwa mubuzima busanzwe birashobora kwishyiriraho igitekerezo cyawe.
Ntutinye gushyira mubikorwa ibitekerezo byintwari
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Imidari ihora ifite impande ebyiri
Umugabo yahumye ibyifuzo bye, aho bikaba atangira gushidikanya, birashoboka kubona gahunda no kuza gutsinda niba nyuma yigihe runaka ibisubizo bitabaho? Mubyukuri, no mugihe habaye gutsindwa, ibintu byose bigenda na gahunda yisi. Kugira intanga ingaruka zigezweho, cheque yisi niba ushaka kubona ibirwana. Kenshi cyane, ni mugihe cyo gutsindwa, kwizera gutangira gutesha agaciro kwizera wenyine n'imbaraga ze - umuntu arashobora kureka byose hagati yinzira. Niba muriki gihe uhuye nikintu gisa nacyo, ntakibazo kidahagarara kandi wiyemere igitekerezo cyawe kugeza imperuka - ijoro ryijimye burigihe mbere yuko bucya.
Isanzure irakurinda
Rimwe na rimwe, bibaho ko ibisubizo bidashobora kugera kubintu byose bishoboka. Kandi iki nacyo gishoboka ugomba gutegurwa. Mubyukuri, niko isanzure rishobora kukurinda ibyo udakeneye, byibuze ntubyumva. Kandi nyamara isanzure ntabwo buri gihe ishobora guhangana nikibazo cyacu kidasanzwe, ntabwo rero tutabura kwizeraho n'imbaraga zawe no muri, bisa nkaho bidafite ibyiringiro.