Imyitwarire idashaka mumibanire ifite impamvu nyinshi - kuva aho zikora. Ariko, mugihe utangiye umubano, ibirahure byijimye birashobora gushungura ibimenyetso bitukura bishobora guteza akaga, biganisha ku guhangayikishwa no gutsindishiriza imyitwarire itemewe. Birumvikana ko abantu benshi rimwe na rimwe bitwara nabi, harimo kwerekana ibimenyetso bya Egoism, kutumva kandi bidafite ishingiro. Ariko ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko hariho ubwoko runaka bwa "imico yijimye", bushobora kuba mubi kubwimpamvu mbi - kuva umunezero. Turasobanura impamvu ibi bibaho nuburyo bwo kumenya ibimenyetso nka mugenzi wawe.
Sinister Ikintu cya Stadism
Iyo utekereje kuri Sadizma, urashobora gutekereza kuri marquis azwi de garta cyangwa inyuguti nkizo zizwi kubitekerezo byacu bidasanzwe. Ariko salism nirenze gutera ububabare kumubiri. Ibi nibyishimo byo kwangiza undi muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Umuhanga Delleta L. Polihus hamwe na bagenzi bakoraga iperereza ku buryo SARISTIM ikorana. Basobanura ko "triad yijimye" bivuga igiteranyo cya bitatu "imibereho ihinduka kugiti cyabantu", aribyo: Pscissistim, Narcissism na Magiavellism. Babona ko, nubwo buri kimwe muri ibyo gifite ibihugu bihuye nibihugu nyabyo, bivuka kandi byerekana itandukaniro ryingenzi mu ngero ziturutse ku matsinda adafite amavuriro y'abaturage.
Ihohoterwa ntabwo ryumubiri gusa, ahubwo ni imitekerereze
Ifoto: Ibisobanuro.com.
Icyo ugomba kwitondera
Byoroshye kuvuga, icyitegererezo cyose cyimyitwarire kigomba kuba ikimenyetso kuri wewe, aho umuntu yihitiramo ko ari ikigo cyisi kandi yirengagiza ibyifuzo byabandi bantu, kandi ibyo aribyo byose. Kurugero, ikiganiro iyo unaniwe kandi wifuza kuruhuka, cyangwa gukoresha ihohoterwa rishingiye kumubiri. Hano hari ingeso eshanu z'abagabo bagomba kwirinda:
Blackmail. Ufite uburenganzira bwo gutandukana numuntu mumibanire myiza, ntukumve usubiza ibitutsi n'iterabwoba. Niba umusore atangiye gukoresha ko inzandiko cyangwa ifoto yimbitse "" ubushake ", iki nikimenyetso cyeruye ko bidashoboka gusubira kumuntu nkuyu inyuma.
Kurakara. Niba umugabo yihuta, hanyuma yihannye, imbere yawe, nawe, umuntu ufite psyche yatewe. Igipimo icyo ari cyo cyose cy'ihohoterwa bwo mu mutwe cyangwa ku mubiri ntibyemewe mu bufatanye bwiza.
Kwihorera. Icyifuzo cyo gukomeretsa cyangwa ikibi kuruta imyumvire-yuburwayi - nanone ntabwo aribisanzwe. Nubwo byaciwe mumuhanda, barenga kumurongo, batutswe kukazi, ibi byose ntabwo arimpamvu yo gutera incamake imbere yawe. Hamwe no guhagarika umutima, urashobora guhangana nuburyo busanzwe - mumahugurwa cyangwa mugihe cyo kuganira numuntu wa hafi.
Ubugome. Kubijyanye nabantu, ubugome ntibukwiye gukoreshwa muburyo bumwe nkuko bijyanye ninyamaswa. Niba umugabo yemeye gukubita itungo kubera imyitwarire mibi, noneho afite ibibazo bigaragara kumutwe. Witondere ibimenyetso nkibi - birakomeye rwose.
Kubijyanye ninyamaswa, ubugome ntibyemewe
Ifoto: Ibisobanuro.com.
Kugenzura. Gusa uzi icyo ushaka nicyo ukeneye. Niba umufatanyabikorwa yiyemeje kuri bibiri atabigizemo uruhare, bivuze ko ntacyo ashyira. Muri couple, abantu bagomba kuvuga no kuza mu cyemezo rusange, kandi kudakora wenyine mugihe bitajyanye n'umudendezo wawe, ariko babiri icyarimwe.