Buri mubyeyi wahuye nikibazo aho rusanzwe rugana mububiko cyangwa ibindi bibazo bihinduka intambara nyayo hagati ye numwana we. Ababyeyi benshi na papa ntibanditse icyo gukora nuburyo bwo guhagarika amashusho, bikurura ibitekerezo bya buri wese hirya no hino. Mubisanzwe, ndashaka kujya mubihe byose bya Manipulator nto kugirango ureka gufata ibitekerezo byamagata ku bahisi (bireba ibintu umwana ari muzima kandi asaba kwitabaza ijwi riranguruye no ku rusaku). Twahisemo gufasha ababyeyi, cyane cyane abato, kandi uyumunsi tuzagerageza kumenya uko twafasha kandi unabona, kandi mubihe bidashimishije hamwe na hysteria, ishobora kuba isanzwe.
Kwihangana, Kwihangana gusa
Wirengagize byimazeyo igitero cyumujinya cyumwana ntikizakora. Ariko, iyi ntabwo arimpamvu yo "kwanduza" imiterere yumwana, izi ko utazititaho. Ihangane, abana ntibashobora kugenzura amarangamutima akomeye yuzuye kurenga rimwe na rimwe. Umwana ntabwo buri gihe agerageza kukuzana amarangamutima, ariko akeneye kumenya ko mama cyangwa papa azamufasha guhangana niyi leta, kandi ntazakuraho amakimbirane yabo.
Nta gihe cyo kuganira
Tumenyereye ko mu itumanaho hamwe nabantu bakuru, amakimbirane yose dukemura ibibazo nibiganiro birebire. Numwana ntuzabura rwose ntabwo ukora, cyane cyane mugihe syterics iri kumurongo. Kuri ubu amagambo yawe kuri we ni urusaku rwinyuma. Tegereza umwana mugihe umwana aje kandi azaba yiteguye kumva amagambo yawe, bitabaye ibyo, uzamara umwanya wo kujijuka, ushimangire hysteria gusa.
Menya neza ko umwana adahangayikishije ikintu gikomeye
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Nta bugizi bwa nabi
Ikintu kibi cyane ushobora gukora mubihe nkibi nugutangira kwerekana igitero mubisubizo. Ni ngombwa kwibuka ko umwana azabona imyitwarire nk'iyo, ejo hazaza uzahura n'ibitero ku ruhande rwe, bizazana ibibazo byinshi mu nzoga. Ifate mu maboko yawe kandi ntukanyure! Ahubwo, guhobera umwana hanyuma ugerageze kuyobora / gutwara ahantu ushobora gutuza kandi ntamuntu ukubabaza.
Gukwirakwiza
Mbere yo gufata ingamba, menya neza ko umwana adahangayikishijwe cyane nubu bwoko bukomeye bwubushyuhe cyangwa ibindi bimenyetso bidashimishije. Kenshi na kenshi, abana bagerageza kugera kubyo babo - ntabwo waguze ikintu ukunda cyangwa udakunda gukurura. Muri iki kibazo, ni ngombwa kwerekana kwihangana kwiyozo - ukimara kujya mubihe byumwana, bizasobanukirwa ko ushobora "kujijuka" hano muri ubu buryo.