Wibuke, mu bwana twese dukunda kwakira impano - twategereje isabukuru cyangwa ikindi kiruhuko hamwe no kutihangana bidasanzwe. Niba kandi umukobwa muto yishora gusa kuberako ari mubuzima bwababyeyi ninshuti, akuze ni ngombwa kumva ko impano zose, cyane cyane, uduhe nkibyo. Ariko kandi ntibikwiye kureba no gukeka abantu bose - abantu benshi barashyuha, babona umunezero mumaso yuwakiriye impeta cyangwa itike ndende. Uyu munsi twahisemo kuvuga ku mpano z'abagabo, impamvu muri rusange babaha n'uburyo bwo kubajyana, kugirango batatumvikana ku mpande zombi.
Ni ibihe bibaho muri kamere?
Mubyukuri, ntabwo umuntu afite gusobanukirwa gusa kuburyo impano zishobora gukurura abantu badahuje igitsina: inyamaswa hafi ya zose muburyo bumwe cyangwa ubundi kugirango bahe uwo bashakanye, kubara ku gusubiranaho. Ntugomba rero gutangazwa nuko umugabo, nubwo utaba mwiza cyane kuri wewe, umenye inyungu zawe kugirango utange impano itazagutererana utitaye. Umugabo asohoza gusa gahunda karemano.
Impano yumugabo ntabwo buri gihe itanga igitsina
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Impamvu Dufite ubwoba Gufata Impano
Ibibazo byacu byose byabakuze n'ubwoba biva mu bwana. Psyche ikomeye cyane yibuka uburambe bwashize. Dufate ko wifuzaga gusura iyi gukurura muri parike, ababyeyi bashubije bati: "Nibyo, uzandika ubugenzuzi rwose, genda" kandi ibyo byose biri mu mwuka. Utangiye kumenya ibyifuzo byose byagenewe kuguha ibyiyumvo byiza nkuburyo bwo kubona ikintu mubisubizo. Cyane cyane, ubu buryo bukorera abagabo. Utangira ukeka numuntu wakunze kugirango akurure muburiri, bitabaye ibyo kuki aguta ikoti ryubwoya?
Niki?
Noneho turimo tuvuga kubagabo urina umubano mwinshi cyangwa udahamye. Uyu munsi, abagabo rimwe na rimwe bakora mumirimo myinshi, bivuze ko atitaye cyane kumugore wabo kuruta uko yashakaga. Arashobora gutangira gucungura amasaha yakazi imbere yawe muburyo bw'interuro "Tanga amafaranga yo kujya guhaha." Abagore benshi batangira kurakara bati: "Urashaka kungurira!" Oya, ntibishaka. Abagabo, cyane cyane bahuze, ntibakunze kubabaza aho bajya kubintu ukunda - arashobora kutagira umwanya. Muguha amafaranga, arasaba imbabazi kubera kubura hafi. Ntukajye muri pose kandi werekane igitero.
Naho abagabo bamenyereye ntibari bazi kandi ntibazi neza niba bikwiye gusubira inyuma, bemera impano wowe ubwawe udashobora kwigurira, ntibikwiye. Uzaha umuntu ibyiringiro byubusa kubwo gusubirayo nyabyo, nubwo mubyukuri bikangura inzozi ze nukwizera igice cya kabiri cyumugore. Ba inyangamugayo imbere ye kandi nawe ubwawe.