Uyu munsi tuzavuga ishyari, ariko ntabwo tuvuga ibisanzwe mugihe umugabo wawe atakwemereye kujyana n'inshuti, urebye ko ari yo kokurya "kandi" Ntabwo uzi icyo wateraniye aho, "Oya, rimwe na rimwe umuntu arashobora Ishesha ishyari urangiza ibintu bitunguranye, kurugero, gukora. Reka dukemure impamvu ibi bibaho.
Impamvu
Twabonye imibare kandi twiteguye gusangira nawe ibisubizo.
Nyirubwite
Umugabo nkuyu ntabwo yihanganira inzitizi zose. Kuri we, umugore agomba kwemeranya n'icyemezo cye acecetse, kandi icyo atekereza kuri iki kibazo - nta kibazo. Ba nyirubwite biragoye kwiyumvisha ko hariho umuntu runaka kumurimo, utanga amabwiriza aho kumuteka. Byongeye kandi, iyo umugore yagiye kukazi, akomeje kubatishoboye kandi ntazi icyo ukorera aho, kandi amabwiriza ayisiga.
Sobanura ko winjiza umuryango
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Gutinya Ubuhemu
Ndashimira Filime aho ibibanza byose byubatswe hirya no hino kugambanira igihugu, mu bagabo benshi babaho ubwoba nyabwo ko umugore we ashobora gushungura no kuyobora mugenzi we.
Akenshi, icyitegererezo cya patologiya kigengwa nubwoba, kwizera ko abantu bose bari hafi nabo baza, nibyo, barahinduka.
Kwihesha agaciro
Hariho ibihe aho umugabo cyangwa atakaza akazi ke mugihe runaka, cyangwa aje kumwanya umushahara utari munsi yuwo mugore we. Ibi ni ugukubita cyane kwihesha agaciro k'umuryango. Kandi, nk'ubutegetsi, umugabo ntabwo agiye kugerageza guhindura ibintu, biramworohera guha ishyari no kurakara.
Ntabwo buri gihe umugabo yinjiza abagore benshi
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Ibitekerezo bike kumugore
Mubisanzwe umugore ukora umunsi wuzuye, yakoresheje kure murugo byibuze amasaha 8, nta gushidikanya ko agira ingaruka ku muryango. Umusore atangira kumva yaratereranywe, birakara, abana badahwema kugenzura umudendezo mwinshi kandi akenshi "bakubita mu maboko."
Mu bihe nk'ibi, birakwiye kumva ibyifuzo by'abagize umuryango bose, vugurura gahunda cyangwa ngo babone akazi kegereye urugo kumarana igihe kinini n'abavandimwe.
Umugore akeneye kugurisha
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Mugihe umugabo atangira gutanga ikirego gifite ishingiro, gusa kubera umutekano muke, gerageza kwicara no kuganira gutuza no kuvuga utuje kubintu byose kugirango atazana amakimbirane. Sobanura ko bikugoye kwicara murugo, ugomba kumva ko ukeneye sosiyete, gushyira mubikorwa ubushobozi bwawe. Niba ibyiyumvo byawe ari ngombwa, rwose azajya guhura nawe.