Reka dutangire mubihe yavuye.
imwe. Wigire ikintu na kimwe gutegereza . Intego "Shakisha mu rukundo" - ntabwo isobanura kuruhande rwumugore utegereje intoki muburyo bwo guhamagarwa nubutumwa. Gerageza kutitabira inzu niba aje gusura umwana, kandi mu bihe "gufatwa kwaba" ubuntu "bwe Ntugafate amafaranga mu ntoki mu ntoki, ni byiza ko yabanjirije ikarita ya banki. Mugihe adateganya gufasha, ndasaba guhindura vector yibitekerezo bivuye ku ngingo "Nigute yabikora" ku ngingo "Nigute nzakomeza kubaho."
Gerageza kwiyumvisha ko ubona ibintu byose bibaho kuruhande, hanyuma uhita byoroshye. Ndasaba kohereza umwana kumubyeyi cyangwa inshuti nziza yicyumweru kuri bibiri cyangwa bitatu, gukusanya ibintu byose byumugabo bikamuha kuburyo ntakintu gisa nubuzima bwashize. Ntabwo ifata - guhisha tagisi no kohereza ababyeyi be bose. Nta gushidikanya ko azatwara.
2. Tugomba kurira no kuba ingirakamaro. Amarira nk'amazi, kura ibitagikenewe, gupima intambwe yubuzima bwabantu. Icyuma cyawe kizaba cyose, ntugahagarike amarangamutima no gutaka.
3. Iyemeze kubashira, ariko hamwe nigihe . Kuva mu jisho, umwe, ubikuye ku mutima, ni umwihariko ubibona. Mu minsi nk'iyi, umukobwa mu mukobwa afasha cyane n'igishake gikomeye. Kata igihe kinini hamwe nacyo, jya mubyabaye kandi wishimishe muburyo bwose bushoboka, kugeza igihe uzarambirwa, cyangwa kugeza usobanukiwe ko ibitekerezo bitaba bigihuze 100%. Niba kandi ubitekerezaho inshuro nyinshi, mbwira uko intwari ya "yambarwa n'umuyaga": "Nzabitekereza ejo." Bukeye, bwira kimwe.
Ubushobozi bwo gutandukana - siyanse nubuhanzi, kimwe nubuhanga bwo kureshya, kurambagiza no gutsinda. Ntukishuke. Iyisubiremo kenshi: "Yagiye," kugeza abimenye.
Naje urwango - ntukabisukeho. Ntugahangayikishwe no gucirwaho iteka no kuvuma umunsi umwe. Imbaraga zo gutwara ibitekerezo bibi (ubugome, gutukana, ishyari, umururumba, irari ryamanuke).
Bane. Kiza ibibazo. Ugomba guhora wihuze kugirango uhindure rwose. Akazi icyo ari cyo cyose karakwiye: Gukosora ibikoresho, gukaraba, gusukura rusange murugo. Mukubite ibyokurya bishaje, bakubita umugaragu, siporo - umubiri muto wo kwikuramo ubugingo.
bitanu. Tera imbaraga zose ku mwuga . Intsinzi ituma abantu bose bashimishije. Abagabo bakunda gutsinda, bizeye, kwihaza, bumva ubwigenge bwabo kandi barabamburira - iyi niyo ntego yacu!
6. Kwanga biryoshye, amatara na ice cream. Ubwoba bwawe "Sinkunda" ntibigomba kugaragara mu mpande. Guma kandi wungukire ku mibabaro yawe - gusubiramo ibiro bike. Ikirere cyakusanyirijwe hamwe gikura vuba, kandi kigasiga imyaka ibarirwa muri za mirongo.
7. Guta ibintu bitari ngombwa! Nturirire hejuru y'amafoto, amabaruwa, kura imbaho. Nibyiza gukusanya "romontique mi-miski" no guta hanze, utarambuye iyi nzira igice cyumwaka. Reka imibabaro ku ngingo, nkuko wari mwiza muburiri. Reba undi, byibuze flirt.
umunani. Hindura uko ibintu bimeze. Fata ikiruhuko cyangwa uve kure, kurugero, ku nshuti uba mu wundi mujyi. Nibura, ntamuntu numwe uzi aho, urashobora kandi gukunda. Igikorwa: Gukomeza guceceka, kuririmba indirimbo zibabaje kandi wabyimbye abahungu. Ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari ugushyira umusaraba wenyine kuko umuntu yahisemo kugusiga. Gusa numvise watereranywe, ntabwo ari we wajugunye ariwe yatereranywe. Byoroshye?
Niba kandi ugiye?
Gukunda Umugabo we Watsinze ... Icyemezo cyo Gutandukana! Ikintu nyamukuru nukwumva ubwawe ko bitamwitayeho, cyane, ahubwo ni icyuho numugabo wanjye. Ntugasimbuze umutwe umwe ujya muyindi. Nyuma yo "kwimuka" kw'abagore, haba umurakari arira n'amarira yumugabo watereranywe, kandi kwamaganwa kwa bene wabo byaguye mu muhengeri! Barashobora kumujyana uruhande rwe. Birashoboka guhitamo amayeri yagaragaye: indabyo, ingendo, imyitwarire "reka dusubire mbere". Ukeneye ifu! Niba ugenda, ariko munsi yo gukandamizwa n'amasezerano no mu kayira gasubira inyuma, mubisanzwe ntabwo byoroshye, ariko bigora ibintu. Wibuke, ahantu hashyushye kugeza amahirwe yo gusubira mumibanire yabanjirije, ariko mugihe wamusobanuriye neza ibyifuzo byawe nibisabwa, kandi ntiyabyemera gusa, ariko akanagira agaragara.
Niba utabonye ejo hazaza muriyi mibanire, hanyuma ugende - Genda! Mwese mwahisemo kandi watekereje, kandi uwo mwashakanye agira ubuntu, mumbabarire, ariko akomeye mu cyemezo cyawe. Ntukeneye ibitutsi byinyongera nka "mwese kurimbuka". Tanga umuntu wa hafi amahirwe yo kubungabunga icyubahiro. Birashoboka ko uzashobora gukomeza kuba inshuti. Ntibyoroshye, ariko ukurikize icyemezo cyawe nta shiti.
Amagambo atatu y'ingenzi: Urakoze, Mbabarira kandi ureke.
1. Guswera? Biragoye kuganira numugabo we? Amwandikire ibaruwa. Ntushobora no gutanga - uko byagenda kose, mugihe wanditse, ibitekerezo biza bikurikira. Kandi urashobora gutanga, guhitamo umwanya ukwiye. Byiza - amaherezo. Gusoma ibaruwa bizatuza gato, kandi ibitekerezo bye bizanabona amahirwe yo kuva mu kajagari.
Birashoboka ko atari byose bizasoma byishimishije, ariko akwiriye ukuri, kuko aribyo? Niki cyandika muriyi baruwa? Ukuri nukuri gusa, kutagenda nyuma. "Noneho" ntushobora kubaho. Ibaruwa igomba kuba ifite amagambo atatu: Urakoze, Mbabarira kandi ureke!
2. Ntibishoboka gukundana ako kanya. Igitekerezo cyo gutandukana cyaje kuriwe ntabwo cyahise kiboneka, wafashe icyemezo cyo kuva mumwanya muto, kandi byanze bikunze nagerageje gushiraho byose igihe kirekire. Niba mubitekerezo byerekeranye nigihe kizaza byerekana uburyo uzabanzi neza, niyo ntambwe yambere yo gutsinda. Ibikomere bigaragambyo bipfuka kuruta ibinyoma byose. Ibirahuri byanditse byijimye - Tujya kurukuri nuyu munsi. Menya umuhanda ugaruka. Uyu muryango ninzira imwe - gusa munzira isohoka. Kandi wibuke iyo umuntu afunze imwe - undi afungura. Bihagije kuba mu isi yahimbwe. Kuraho inzozi zawe zose zijyanye nayo.
3. Niba ugomba kuvugana nawe (uracyatuye munzu imwe, cyangwa akenshi ugiye kubintu byanjye), Umva witonze . Nubwo udasobanukiwe ikintu - rwose nzibuka amagambo ye, kandi byababaje cyane kuzabandika neza, kandi ibikorwa yakoze cyangwa bikora, gukosora mubyanditse. Wibuke, kandi ntuzajya kubo duhanganye.
Bane. Ntukoporora uburakari no gutukwa . Niba mbere yo kubuzwa, gutinya kwangiza umubano, noneho igihe cyo guhagarika gutsimbataza no kumva wicira urubanza. Kwangiza scandal, menyesha ibyo wumva. Ufite uburenganzira bwuzuye kuri bwo, kandi uburakari biroroshye cyane guhamagara ibintu n'amazina yawe.
bitanu. Mumbabarire kandi ugire inshuti. Bikekwa ko niba wari hafi rwose, noneho hazatangwa ingingo nyinshi zo guhura zizaba zifite ubuzima bwiza, umunezero, urukundo rwahozeho, kabone niyo yaba azwi ku bilometero ibihumbi .
6. Ntukifuze ikibi : Mumaze gutandukana, n'igisekuru cy'uburakari kizagukubita rwose. Iri ni ryo tegeko. Ahubwo, fata ubucuruzi.
Kurugero:
• Kugisha inama ya psychologue nziza, niba udashobora guhangana nawe;
• Soma ibya kera: Tolstoy, Chekhov, Funkin, reba firime nziza nziza;
• Kugarura gukundana ibyahoze;
• Hamagara nshuti, Saba umuntu gusura, kugura itike yo mu gitaramo, ngwike unkoze cyangwa wibaze mu isabukuru yegeranye;
• Shakisha abo tuziranye byibuze mumasomo ku ngingo yinyungu - mudasobwa, gutwara imodoka, kubyina, ururimi rwamahanga;
• Drive Diary - Kumenyekana kubatera imitekerereze yo kurwanya imihangayiko. Mu buryo bwikora fata ibitekerezo byo gutekereza kandi ukureho imizigo mibi niba wizeye ibyakubayeho. Mugukomeza inyandiko, hanyuma usome kandi usesengure, uhamagarira ubufasha umuntu uzi byose kuri wewe, ndetse akanamenya ubufasha, - kubutaka bwe!