Iyo ababyeyi bashyikirije umwana, bagerageza kuzenguruka inzozi zidashoboka cyangwa kumurinda amakosa, bakora umurimo. Nyizera, ndetse no kumyaka 16-18, umwana wawe asanzwe umuntu uhagije ashobora gufata ibyemezo kubikorwa byafashwe. Uruhare rw'ababyeyi mu guhitamo umwuga ni ugutanga inama n'inkunga idakwiye mu gikorwa icyo ari cyo cyose. Turambwira ko bizagufasha gutanga ibyifuzo.
Kuzirikana ibyo ukunda
Reba kuruta umwana akunda gukora. Ahari yashushanyije ubwana bwose cyangwa ajya muruziga rwubuhanzi? Ubwiza bwimico ningeso byashinzwe kuva mu bwana, ibyo birashimisha cyane umuntu. Chess yitezimbere ibitekerezo byumvikana no kwihangana, kubyina - ubuhanga bwo gushyikirana nubushobozi bwo kuba ibyiringiro mubihe byose, kuririmba - ubushobozi bwo kuguma mu ruhame no kwiyerekana. Wicare hamwe numwana hanyuma wandike impande zose nziza kandi mbi za kamere ye kurupapuro, hanyuma utekereze icyo ahuye.
Ibyo akunda bizavuga ibirenze ibyifuzo bidafite ishingiro
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Kurwanya Ibizamini byo kuyobora Umwuga
Gufasha abana gufata icyemezo ku mwuga kizaza, abahanga mu by'imitekerereze y'ishuri bakoresha ibizamini bidasanzwe. Muri bo, hari imyanzuro ku bwoko bw'imiterere, urwego rw'ubutasi, cyane cyane rwatewe n'uruhande rw'ubwonko n'ibyifuzo by'umuntu. Dukurikije ibisubizo by'ibizamini, umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze itanga ibyifuzo byo kurangiza imyuga ashobora kuba nk'umuhanga. Niba ibikorwa byo kuyobora byumwuga bidafungirwa kwishuri, birakenewe kwiyandikisha muri kaminuza cyangwa hagati yamahugurwa agezweho - hari abarimu basesengura imitekerereze yumwana.
Witondere gahunda
Mugukurikirana imiterere ikomeye yumuhanga cyangwa umuganga ubaga, ntushobora kubona bigaragara. Kurugero, igihe umwana wawe akoresha imikino ya mudasobwa cyangwa uburyo bwo gutegura ibirori bikomeye kubandi. Hagati aho, abahanga mu bya psychologue bizeye ko umwuga mwiza ariwo uhuye na gahunda isanzwe y'ubuzima. Witondere imyuga igezweho - Inzobere ya SMM, phm, umutoza wa Spormer, umutoza n'abandi. Akenshi barashobora kuzana amafaranga menshi kuruta umwuga usanzwe wubukungu cyangwa umucungamari. Vugana n'inshuti z'umwana, abarimu be na bene wabo ba hafi: rwose, buri wese muri bo yamubonye bimwe mu bintu byahuza icyemezo cyiza.
Menya ko akora buri munsi
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Ivanze zidasanzwe zumunyu
Niba sauir yawe igenda umusazi mu ifu yo guhitamo hagati yimyuga ebyiri, yerekana gutangira byombi. Hano hari amahitamo abiri: kwimenyereza kuri buri cyihariye no guhitamo inzira yonyine, cyangwa guhuza kariyeri. Kurugero, umwana arashaka kuba umunyamakuru na progaramu icyarimwe. Birumvikana ko tujya kwiga porogaramu yo kumenya igice cya tekiniki, ariko ugereranije no kwitoza kwandika ingingo. Guhuza imyuga ebyiri, umuntu aba inzobere mumwirondoro muto hanyuma ugenda kumurongo utambitse wo guteza imbere umwuga. Iyi ni inzira idasobanutse y'ejo hazaza, izakora ku kuboko kwawe.