Uyu munsi, inshuti zacu kenshi, cyangwa no kwemera ko gushaka amasezerano uzahabwa abantu bose, ntabwo byoroshye cyane. Abantu benshi bakora mu myanya bahaza ibikenewe gusa na kamere yimari gusa, "yubaha Imana" icyarimwe kandi "kwica". Cyane cyane, ibibazo byo kwishyiriraho biboneka nabantu baherutse kurangiza amashuri makuru kandi abari mu masangano - ukuri ntikwari kimwe na "Dean. Niki? Kwiheba no gufata kubitekerezo byose? Ntukihute. Reka dukemure uburyo bwo gutera intambwe kugirango ukemure kimwe mubibazo byingutu muri iki gihe.
Byagenda bite niba ...
Tekereza ko udafite ikibazo cyo kwitanga kubintu byose ukeneye kandi ugomba kumva uburyo wakora mubihe nkibi. Dufate ko watsinze tombora, ufite konti itangaje ya banki, ikurikira iki? Uzatangira kuvoma imiterere? Uzarambirwa byihuse uyu mwuga kandi ugomba kugenwa uko wabikora, nukuvuga, "kubugingo". Ntutekereze ko amafaranga yinjiza azana imyanya imwe gusa mubice bigufi. Niba wahawe urubanza kandi wiyemere gutsinda, amafaranga yinjiza azahinduka bidasanzwe. Ariko, witegure ko inzira yo gutsinda itazaba mugufi.
Ni iki kigushimishije cyane?
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Niki mubyukuri ushimishijwe
Mu buryo butunguranye, kimwe mu bibazo by'umuntu wa kijyaho cyaje kuba ibyo ukunda n'inyungu zihame. Ahanini hamwe niki kibazo gihura nabantu bafite uburambe bwumukozi utangaje, "kubura" kukazi. Kuva mu bwana, bushishikariza ko ari ngombwa guhinga umuntu ukomeye - "igihe cy'imanza, isaha yiseni." Iyishishikarizwa ryica ihumeka kandi turatangira gutakaza kwizera imbaraga zacu. Ibuka ibyo ushishikajwe no mubwana kandi wakira iki? Noneho - Niki kigushimisha uyumunsi? Tekereza ku nzego zubuzima ushobora gukoresha inyungu zawe. Ukunda kuvoma no kubikora mubikorwa byumwuga? Gerageza gushakisha imyanya ifunguye aho "yarebye" isabwa mu gicucu n'amabara. Uzabona ko ibigo byinshi bibuze inzobere nkayo.
Urashaka iki
Iyo ushakisha umwanya winzozi, menya neza guhindura urutonde rwintego zawe byibuze umwaka uri imbere. Iyo ugiye kurutonde rwimyanya, bizaba bisobanutse kuri wewe, byaba bikwiye kumara umwanya wo kubazwa umwanya wakiruhuko, aho gahunda itagukwiriye rwose kandi mugihe uteganya Gukomeza kwiga aho utazabona igihe. Witondere iki bihe kugirango nyuma y'amezi atandatu bitanditswe kurubuga.
Ni iki kigutegereje
Usibye ibishushanyo mbonera, umushahara nitsinda ryiza, ugomba gushimishwa nigihe cyawe. Ni ubuhe buhanga ushobora kubona aha hantu byoroshye? Ni ubuhe burebure bushobora kugerwaho mu myaka mike? Ni ubuhe buyobozi ushobora kwiteza imbere muri kano karere? Ku cyumweru ibisubizo byibi bibazo, bifitanye isano nibyiza byose nibidukikije, nyuma yibyo ushobora gufata icyemezo.