Abagore benshi bazi uburambe bwabo, akenshi barakaze, icyo aricyo - kuba abakunda umugabo wubatse. Niba kandi, nkuko bandika kuri enterineti, "Kuraho ikote ryera", kugirango ugumane gusoma imyitwarire, noneho urashobora kubona inzira yo mumitekerereze yishishikarizwa no guhuza "mpandeshatu".
Ukurikije imibare, abagabo 5 gusa ni bo bo mumuryango bajya kwa nyirabuja. Ijanisha rikuru ryo guhemukira abantu bagwa mumwaka wa mbere wubuzima bwumwana wa mbere. Ibi byose, birumvikana, urashobora kubona ibisobanuro bitandukanye. Kandi ko umwaka wambere wumwana ari, nubwo yari ategerejwe igihe kinini, ahubwo ni ikibazo cyumubano. Kandi urwo rutonde, nubwo bisa nkibitandukanye nimbere, biremewe gushimangira imiryango, kandi ntigasenye. Abantu batazi ubwenge bagera kuruhande ibyo badashobora kwakira numukunzi batamuteye kumugirira nabi. Mugihe cya paradoxique, ariko ubuhemu burababaje kubabariye nabafatanyabikorwa kuruta kubaka ukuri kuri buriwese.
Ibintu bishimishije cyane, aho imibare itazaba inyangamugayo, ni uko umubano uri muri mpandeshatu ari hafi buri gihe ibanga. Ibanga ryumugabo we wavuye kumugore we, ibanga ryumugore we kumugabo we, niba umugore wiganaga mugenzi wawe. Nibyo, naho gatatu ibi byose bitwikiriye amayobera, nkuko bitegetse, kimwe nubusabane nabashakanye / abashakanye / abantu bake bagote kumutwe.
Kubera ko umubano ubitswe ibanga, ingorane zose muri zo zidashobora gukemurwa cyangwa gutandukana nabandi bantu. Iyi kiraro cyose kandi amayobera, agomba gusohoka cyangwa byinshi.
Ukurikije imibare, 5% byabagabo bava mumuryango kuri nyirabuja
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Hasi nzatanga urugero rwinzozi z'umugore umwe, uwo mumyaka myinshi yiteze umukunzi we. Uyu mugabo yagerageje kumwegera no gusiga umuryango we. Byose ntibyari byuzuye intsinzi ikomeye, ariko icyuho nticyakurikiye. Umugabo numugore barababaye kunzira zose, bashaka amahitamo yo kubana, ariko biragaragara ko aya mahitamo atari yo. Amaherezo, inzozi zacu zashyize ingingo, zikabona imbaraga zikoresha umubano, wigeze kubakorera kugirango babungabunga imiryango yabo.
Kandi dore inzozi nkizo: "Ndabona uwahoze ari umukunzi wanjye. Ajya aho ndihura, akonje cyane, mu bihe byiza. Nabikunze, nakunze umugabo nkuyu. Ndabaza uko akora. Arasubiza ko byose ari byiza. Hanyuma nshimishijwe, niba agarutse kumugore we. Ntacyo asubiza. Kandi turasezera. Mu bihe bishya, ndagerageza kunyuramo kandi sinshobora. Roho yanjye itunganye. "
Mugihe cya paradoxique, ariko ubuhemu bwiyemeje gukiza umuryango, kandi ntabwo ari ubundi
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Nagize amahirwe yo kuvugana n'inzozi no kumwigiraho ubwanjye, nkuko isobanura ibitotsi. Yasabye ko inzozi ze zubugingo. Aramubaza ati: Mumeze mute mu mibanire y'umubano n'uwahozeho. Kandi we ubwe amwisubiza ko ari mwiza. Igisubizo cyikibazo aho we n'amwe, adazi rwose. Hanyuma, mugihe ugerageza guhamagara, nta sano. Ibi bivuze ko yahagaritse kugerageza kubyutsa isano yabo. Noneho biroroshye.
Muri iki gihe, batura ubushishozi bwinzozi, nkuko gusobanura kugiti cyawe ari byiza. Kandi tumwifurije amahirwe masa. Kubera isomo ry'ubuzima, yabaye shobuja mu bijyanye no kuba inyangamugayo hamwe n'abandi bantu. Kuba inyangamugayo ni imiterere hamwe nishingiro ryimibanire iyo ari yo yose. Noneho kubwinzozi ni ukuri kwimiterere.
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Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin