Igihe kirasohoka - umuvuduko wubuzima wihuta buri mwaka. Niba hashize imyaka 20, muri wikendi yakoreshejena numuryango ntibyasuzumye ikintu kidasanzwe, ubu kuri buri nama hamwe nabakunzi ukeneye gutanga umwanya muri gahunda ya scorwed. Akazi, imyitozo, ibyo ukunda - ibi byose bigutera guhindura umwanya murugo murugo. Ariko, dufite impamvu zifatika zituma ugomba kumenyera kurya hamwe na bene wanyu.
Ifunguro rya nimugoroba
Ubwenge busanzwe bwiga, twabaye muri 2015, bwerekanye: ingimbi n'urubyiruko kumara munsi y'umunsi wa gatatu (!), Kureba kuri ecran ya terefone. Ingeso Yerekana TV mugihe urya cyangwa wumva umuziki kandi bivuga urutonde rwibibi. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bemeza ko mu kurengera abana, ikintu nyamukuru nukwishyura umwanya uhagije wo gushyikirana. Byongeye kandi, kuboneka kugiti cyawe ni ngombwa cyane: Akiri muto, abana bagenda neza kandi bakuramo vuba amakuru kwisi yose, kugirango bambaze ingeso zawe zose.
Ifunguro ryo mu muryango, imigenzo, ubuzima bwiza
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Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe mbere bwerekanye ko mugihe cyo kurya amakuru yinjije neza, bivuze ko itumanaho rizafatwa nkibisubizo bishoboka. Ishami ry'amahanga mu bufatanye n'ubukungu n'iterambere mu gihe cyo gukurikirana. Dukurikije ibisubizo, yahishuye ko abana, mumuryango bataremewe gusangira hamwe, barashobora kwibasirwa ninningano zumubiri no mumutwe. Dore bimwe muribi:
- Akenshi usimbuka amasomo ku ishuri - ntabwo yahanwa
- Kubabara wenyine
- Gupima cyane urungano
Ibyiza byo gusangira umuryango
Nukuri uratangazwa ningaruka nkizo, benshi badatekereza. Dutanga izindi ngingo nke zifatika zishyigikira gusangira umuryango:
1. Iterambere ryo mu mutwe
Mugihe cyo kurya, abana bakurura ikinyabupfura: banza biga gukomeza agafuni n'ikiyiko, hanyuma ukoreshe icyuma nibindi bikoresho. Bumva kandi neza uburyo bwo kwitwara kumeza: Ntukavuge umunwa wambaye ubusa, ntugahanagura umunwa kubyerekeye ameza nibindi. Muri icyo gihe, mugihe cyo gushyikirana nababyeyi, abana banoza ubuhanga bwo gushyikirana n'imikoranire myiza - babisabwe n'umunyu, barashobora guca imigati. Kubera ko gufata ibiryo bimara iminota 10-15, muri iki gihe, "ingaruka zinyuma" zahugurwa kubintu.
2. Ubuzima bwo mu mutwe
Ibiganiro nabagize umuryango bifite inyungu zifatika. Abashakanye bagabanijwe nibintu byumunsi, bimurika amarangamutima yakusanyijwe. Abana barambwira ko bababangamiye ku ishuri no mubuzima bwite. Mubindi bintu, ubushakashatsi bwikigo cyabanyamerika cya kaminuza 2012 cyaragaragaye: Abana bakunze gushyikirana nababyeyi babo, ntibagira ingaruka nyinshi kugirango bashimishe itabi, inzoga n'ibiyobyabwenge.
3. Kuba byiza cyane
Abana bakunze kuba abanebwe gutegura ibiryo byabo - biroroshye kuri bo kugura pizza kuruta guteka isupu. Ariko, ayobowe n'ababyeyi, benshi ntibababazwa kurya neza. Mubisanzwe menu yumuryango ni zitandukanye kuruta ifunguro rimwe. Ubwiza bwibiryo bwakoreshejwe bugira ingaruka muburyo bwiza-nubuzima bwumubiri bwibinyabuzima bikura. Byongeye kandi, uzakiza amafaranga menshi, kugaburira hamwe, ntabwo ari ukumenye.
Kurya wenyine
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Ntukambure umunezero wo kumarana na bene wanyu: ibuka imanza kuva kera, guseka urwenya no gusobanukirwa gusa ko abantu benshi kavukire benshi bakurikira.