Mbere yitariki, ibintu byose birahangayitse, kuko bitazwi kuruta uko bizarangira, nuburyo bizaba. Hariho ibihe mugihe itariki yatengushye cyane, kandi kuri ibi ugomba kwitegura. Ikintu nyamukuru nukwemera ko buriwese afite uburenganzira bwo kwibeshya, inama itatsinzwe ntabwo isobanura iherezo ryubuzima. Tuzagerageza kugufasha kurokoka itariki atujuje ibyifuzo byawe.
Ntutinye gusubiramo uko ibintu bimeze
Inama yabantu babiri bashinze imibanire yuzuyemo ibihe bibi, cyane cyane itariki yambere. Ntakintu kibi cyane ko ushima mubyukuri umukunzi, ufite ubwoba bwinshi - niho uzerekana ubumuntu no kwerekana intege nke. Birashoboka ko umukunzi wawe afite ibyiyumvo nk'ibyo, kandi bizahita byorohera n'amagambo yawe, bizagufasha kuruhuka.
Itariki ihora yuzuyemo ibihe bibi
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Tekereza yagutse
Iyegereye umuntu, ibihe bitunguranye bitwitezeho, kandi ntabwo bidushimisha. Dufate ko wamenyereye umusore mwiza mu ikositimu ya kera ufungura imurikagurisha, kandi ku munsi yaje ku ipantaro ya siporo. Ntukihute gukora amaso manini ugasunika kwera, birashoboka ko umuntu yamenyera kwambara mubuzima bwa buri munsi. Cyangwa, niba umugabo acecetse mugihe usutseho ubugingo, ntibisobanura ko afite gutandukana, birashoboka cyane ko ari umuntu wiyoroshya ukeneye umwanya wo kumenyera.
Fasha niba ubishoboye
Kurangaza ibitekerezo bibi, gerageza umenye byinshi kubyerekeye kumenyana. Mubaze ibibazo, gusa ntabwo ari umuntu ku giti cye, birashoboka ko umuntu azakubwira ikintu kizaguha igitekerezo cyo kwitwara neza.
Niba umuntu atangiye kwitotombera bene wabo ubuziraherezo, inshuti cyangwa ibibazo bimwe na bimwe mubuzima, niba bishoboka, gerageza gufasha niba koko umuntu ari ingenzi kuri wewe. Saba uburyo ushobora guhimba bene wabo, ariko ntukagikore muburyo bwamabwiriza, ahubwo umbwire uko wabikoze. Nyuma yibyo, ikirego gikwiye guhagarara kandi urashobora kuvugana nizindi ngingo.
Tekereza niba ushaka kubaka umubano nuyu muntu
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Ntugahangayike
Iyi ni itariki gusa mumasaha make, tekereza kuri ibyo vuba bizarangira kandi ntugaragaze igitero cyangwa kutanyurwa. Niba ugiye muri resitora, wibande kubyo ugiye gutumiza nonaha, kandi ntukibande kumufatanyabikorwa. Reba inama yawe nkundi bunararibonye, amahirwe yo kwiyerekana ko tuvugana nabantu batandukanye.
Urwenya
Ntugafate neza itariki yatsinzwe, gerageza uzinguruke ibintu byose mukiswa iyo nkubwiye inshuti. Ntukemere ko abandi bantu batekereza batekereza ko ufite ikibazo cyikibazo mubuzima, niba udashaka itariki yawe idasanzwe arizo ziganirwaho mu ruziga rw'inshuti zawe n'inshuti zabo.
Kwishura ibintu byose murwenya, kandi ubwawe ntukabone ubu bunararibonye nkibisambo. Ni ngombwa mugihe kimwe kudatuka umuntu wamaze uyu mugoroba cyangwa umunsi, urwenya hejuru yibihe. Kandi, cyane cyane, kunegura bito, niba wowe n'intwari yo gukundana kwananiwe bifite abo tuziranye.
Gerageza ntugaragaze uburakari bwawe
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Manuka hakiri kare
Hariho imanza iyo umuntu adashimishije, hanyuma ntakicyubahiro kizigama. Byongeye kandi, uku kwanga urusako rushobora kugaragara muburyo bwo gukundana kwawe, bitabaye ibyo, ntabwo wajyayo ahantu hose hamwe nuyu muntu.
Urashobora kurangiza itariki kuriyi nteruro: "Umva, ndababaye cyane, ariko simbona ejo hazaza hamwe nawe, ntabwo rero nshaka kumara igihe cyawe, reka tuzimire?" Iyi nteruro ntizababaza kandi iboneye izasobanukirwa ko udashyirwaho kugirango ukomeze.
Ibyo ari byo byose, ntugafate uburambe kunanirwa hafi yumutima wawe - iyi ntabwo imperuka yisi, ariko idahuye numuntu.