Iyo ubaye umubyeyi bwa mbere, urukurikirane rwo gushidikanya rutangiye: "Nkora neza? Birashoboka ko ntacyo bitekereza? " Ibi nibisanzwe, nka mama na papa bato batarabona uburambe buhagije kugirango bahuze nibintu byinshi. Reba ibitekerezo bisanzwe byababyeyi batagomba kugira isoni.
Umwana agomba guhitamo isomo
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Ndashaka kuruhuka kumwana
Abana bafite umwanya wose wumubyeyi ukiri muto, kenshi na se. Igihe kimwe, imitekerereze yumuntu yananiwe guhangana numutwaro wamarangamutima, mama arashaka gutoroka no kwihisha abantu bose kubona byibuze amasaha make atavuza induru nibisabwa numwana we.
Igitekerezo cyo kuruhuka ntigukugira umubyeyi mubi, ukomokaho, ivuga ko washyizwemo ko wuzuye.
Ndashaka kumarana umwanya n'inshuti
Kenshi cyane, umugore ahinduka ingwate yuruhare rushya abona afite ivuka ryumwana. Byongeye kandi, ibidukikije muburyo bwa ba nyina n'akavumu bahora bavuga ko byose, ubungubu "ubuzima bwawe ntabwo ari ibyawe", kuko bo ubwabo bahoraga babayeho kuri iri hame. Ntukajye impaka, umuntu arashaka kuba umubyeyi kugirango yuzuze igihe cye cyose umwana nibyifuzo bye, nta kibi kirimo, ariko benshi mubagore bifuza kubaho mubuzima bwe bwose, kugirango bamenye ubwabo Kandi rimwe na rimwe bashikiriza umwanya batabanje guhagarika icyarimwe bakabe nyirayo mwiza kwisi. Kandi ufite ubwo burenganzira.
Kureka umwana utabigenzuwe ntashobora
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Umwana yarebye ikarito ndende kuruta uko bisanzwe
Ku munsi, Mama agomba gukora ibintu byinshi mu nzu, no kwishyura umwanya umwana. Ntabwo bitangaje kubona ibintu bimwe bishobora kunyerera. Abana bagezweho kuva bavuka bamenye gukoresha amakosa yanyuma yikoranabuhanga, ntabwo rero bibagora kwigenga karato ukunda kuri mudasobwa igendanwa. Mubisanzwe, nyina ukiri muto, icyunasumbano gisukuye kandi gikangura porovizi ntigishobora gukurikirana uko umwana we yamaze kwicara.
Birumvikana ko bidashoboka gutangiza ijisho kuva kumwana muto hanyuma ukagerageza gukuraho ibintu byose biteye akaga mukigo cye, ariko utuntu nkaya nkareba amakarito turenze ibisanzwe, ntagomba kugutandukanya no kwiheba.
Ntabwo nirukana umwana muri mug
Ikibazo cyiza kitavugwaho rumwe muruziga rwababyeyi. Ku ruhande rumwe, umwana akeneye gushakisha amarangamutima nimpano zabo, kandi, kurundi ruhande, urashobora gukora amakosa akoresheje icyerekezo, kandi ugaca intege rwose icyifuzo cyo gusura ibice bitandukanye ninziga mugihe kizaza.
Ni ngombwa kumenya hakiri kare bishoboka kubyo umwana yakundaga cyane kandi agashyira imbaraga mugutezimbere impano ye, ariko niba udashobora kumva aho umwana wawe cyangwa umukobwa wawe cyangwa umukobwa wawe ahitamo uburyo bwo gufata umwanzuro Ibyo ashaka gukora, ntuzavuga ko wahatiye umwana gukora ibyo adakunda, uburwanya.
Ufite uburenganzira bwo kwihitiramo umwanya
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Ntabwo mpa impano zihenze cyane
Kugeza ku ya 3, igiciro cyimpano umuha ntabwo ari ngombwa kugeza kumyaka 3. Mw'isi ye ntakindi bihenze cyangwa bihendutse, ariko byose birashobora guhinduka mugihe umwana yagiye mu cyinkongu cyangwa ishuri, aho abana batangiye gupima ubukonje bwa terefone cyangwa ikindi kintu icyo ari cyo cyose.
Ugomba gusobanurira umwana hakiri kare ikintu cyiza kitari hejuru yibyishimo. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko wowe ubwawe utaganiriye mugihe umwana, uwo ari we nibindi nibindi nibirenze, noneho hazabaho ikibazo nkicyo. Umwana agomba kumva ko utiteguye gutanga umushahara munini kuri mudasobwa igendanwa ya bisi ya nyuma, uko wagufashe gute - ntugire icyo ushoboye, kandi nta kintu na kimwe ufite.