Ntabwo ari ibanga ryubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina hamwe nigihe gishobora guhinduka mubikorwa kandi ukareka gutanga umunezero kuba umwe cyangwa bombi. Kandi bibaho ko umuntu mubipimo rusange atishimiye igice cya kabiri kirangiye. Twatekereje kandi duhitamo gukusanya ibimenyetso byerekana ko buri muntu ufatanije, kandi ari ngombwa kwibuka umugore uwo ari we wese ugerageza kwishimira mugenzi wabo nubuhanga bwabo.
Akunda ijwi ryawe
Birashoboka ko nta kintu kidasanzwe kuruta igitsina gicecetse. Ntabwo uri ku nyigisho zirambiranye ukeneye "gukorera", uri umunyamuryango wuzuye wasangaga inzira yimbitse, bivuze ko umufatanyabikorwa ashaka kukwumva. Tekereza kuri wewe uburyo umuntu azumva ibyo akora byose niba ucecetse kandi ntugaragaze amarangamutima? Byongeye kandi, abagabo benshi ntibashobora kutita kumajwi ashimishijwe nabafatanyabikorwa babo - kuri we "ibitekerezo byawe" nibyingenzi byubwongereza bukabije, kubera ko ubwonko bwabwo buti bumva neza umugore . Ntugashyire umugabo mumwanya utameze neza - Erekana ibikorwa.
Ashaka kandi CAREST
Abagore benshi bizeye ko intangiriro ari inshingano z'umugabo. Biracyakenewe - birakenewe! Kubwibyo, abakobwa benshi bakunze gufata umwanya wo gutegereza mumibonano mpuzabitsina, ninde wumuntu, nkuko ubyumva, bidashoboka. Ni ngombwa hano kumva ko abagabo bumva neza, ni ngombwa kuri bo kumva ko umugore ari umusazi kuri we kandi akamera kuri byinshi. Kugaragaza ubukonje ni ugunga cyane muburiri, bityo rero witondere umugabo wawe nubwo ukurikirana: Urashobora gutangira "marine" mumasaha make, kohereza amaso yawe make, usiga ibitekerezo bidasobanutse kandi uhunga fungura ahantu h'uruhu rwe. Ku bijyanye no kuryama, ntutinye kwerekana iya mbere kandi witegure kuzinga umubyimba wo kwihorera k'umugabo.
Umuhamagare mwizina
Twese tuzi ko kumuntu udafite amajwi arenze izina rye. Abagabo barabyitwaramo neza. Reba kuri uyu mwanya, ntukifate wenyine kandi usibye ibitekerezo byiza bishimishije, ntukibagirwe gusubiramo izina rye rimwe na rimwe - kumuntu uzahinduka ingingo irenze. Uzabona uko uzabazwa.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina itunguranye
Birumvikana ko imibonano mpuzabitsina iteganijwe muburyo bwiza cyane kuruta ibindi byose, ariko icyarimwe ubukana butakaza mubyiyumvo, cyane cyane iyo umaze igihe kinini mubusabane. Kubwurukundo, ntakintu kibi kirenze ububi na gahunda, bityo tuzabakuraho muburyo. Ntutinye ubushakashatsi mubibanza byitaruye aho ntawe uzakubona, kuko bidakenewe gutegereza umwanya mugihe wisanze mubyumba - kuki utava mubushake aho uri? Ariko, nubwo ishyaka ryakubiswe mumaguru, menya ko ntamuntu ufite umudendezo wo kugufata kandi ntugomba guhungabanya amahoro hirya no hino, ibindi byose biri mubushake bwawe.