Iseswa ryubukwe ntizihangayitse kubagabo n'umugore baherutse gusa, ahubwo no kuri bene wabo ba hafi. Abana bababara cyane cyane: Barashobora kwihagarika, bagatangira amasomo bagenda bakamera ikinyabupfura kubandi. Kugira ngo umwana adashobora kumenya bihagije ubutane, ababyeyi, mbere ya byose, bagomba gukora ubwabo.
Hitamo amakimbirane yose
Mugihe mwembi barakaye kandi bakagerageza kubiryozwa mubi ibyaha byose bipfa, ntugomba gutegereza urujijo rwinshi. Gerageza gutuza kandi ntukarakare iyo uhuye nigice cyahoze. Kugira ngo ukore ibi, nibyiza guhindukirira psychologue: gusenya kwawe ibibazo byose byababaje mubuzima bwumuryango, akazi kwihesha agaciro nibimera byubuzima buzaza. Ababyeyi bombi bakimara kugera kuri leta yubwumvikane, amakimbirane yemerewe ubwayo - ibyiyumvo byarakonje kandi nta cyifuzo cyo gutongana. Mubisanzwe iyi nzira ifata amezi 1-3.
kora hamwe numunywanyi kugirango udakwegereza ubuzima bushya
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Bwira umwana wawe kubyerekeye gutandukana
Ntakintu kibi nko kwerekana umwana abashakanye mugihe umubano wawe umaze igihe kinini urimbuke. Ntugomba kubana no kugenda kuruhande - iyi psyche ntabwo yakijijwe. Ikintu cyiza ushobora gukora nukuvugisha ukuri umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa mutana. Vuga hamwe n'ijwi rituje, sobanura ko ugikunda kandi uzitondera, nubwo utabana. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kuvuga gusa, ahubwo no gukora: ababyeyi bombi bagomba kwita cyane ku bashata, kuruta uko bisanzwe. Jya kuri parike yo kwidagadura, muguhaha, muri cinema - gerageza kurangaza ibitekerezo byihebye. Ariko ntugerageze guhisha amarangamutima yawe yumubabaro nuburakari, niba utararokotse - abana bumva iyo bashutswe. Umwana mukuru, ni ukuri hamwe nawe ushobora kuvuga: Sobanura ko utuzo, ariko nyuma yigihe gito biba byoroshye kandi ubuzima buzajya kwimuka.
Ntukavuge ku mpamvu yo gutandukana
Akenshi abagore, bagumana wenyine hamwe nabana, kora ikosa ridasubirwaho. Bagerageza muburyo bwose bwo gushinja isura ya Data mugutanga umwana. Nubwo uwo mwashakanye yaraguhemukiye, iyi ntabwo arimpamvu yo gusenya umubano we numwana. Shakisha imbaraga zo kutamenyesha amakuru arambuye yo gutandukana, nubwo igice cyambere cyagize imitekerereze ikabujijwe kandi ntiyiha wenyine. Ntiwibagirwe kwirinda abavandimwe: ntibagomba kandi kuvuga ku mpamvu yo gutandukana n'umwana.
Ntukure ku mwana - akeneye kandi inkunga
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Vugana n'umwana kenshi
Inkunga nziza ya bene wabo ni ikizere no gusobanukirwa. Mugihe umwana arushijeho kumenyera umurongo wubuzima, birarenze ibyo ukeneye urukundo no kumwitaho. Porophons ibibazo byose byamakimbirane kumunsi, yigisha umwana guhangana n'amarangamutima no kubibona vuba bishoboka. Dsyches zihamye - Ingwate yubuzima bwiza. Noneho vuba aha utanga Tchad icyo igitekerezo kivuga ko we ubwe agena uko ameze, ibyiza.