Shakisha ubugingo bworoshye - ikintu kigoye iyo uri umuntu mukuru kandi uhagije. Mumaze kuba ufite imyaka 15 mugihe kubucuti birahagije kugirango uganire kuri cine nibiganiro byimibereho, hamwe nabantu 40 na bakuze bitonze kubijyanye no guhitamo inshuti. Sobanura impamvu uhura nibibazo hamwe nabaziranye bashya.
Abantu bahuze n'umuryango wabo
Birashoboka impamvu nyamukuru igoye kubona inshuti nyuma yimyaka 40, nuko muriki gihe abantu benshi bafite izindi nshingano. Ku myaka 40, abantu bakunda kubyara abantu bakuru (ni ukuvuga ingimbi), hamwe naba bana, bafite amategeko, bisaba igihe kinini kuburere bwabo. Kubwibyo, niba utahuye nibibazo bisa, bizagorana kumva kubura umwanya.
Hamwe n'imyaka, akenshi duhitamo umuryango, ntabwo ari inshuti
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Imibereho rusange nyuma yimyaka 30 idahindutse
Ubushakashatsi bwerekanye ko mu kugera kumyaka 30, abantu batangira gushima ubushobozi, kandi ntibakundane neza. Nk'uruziga rw'amahanga, umuntu, ushobora gusa nkigitekerezo giteye ubwoba "kugirango winjire" mu ruziga rumaze gushyirwaho. Inzira nziza yo guhangana niyi ni ukujya mu makipe mu nyungu. Shakisha impamvu yo guhuza naba bantu, kandi uzasanga byanze bikunze abantu nkabo.
Kongera Egoism
Mugihe, dutangiye gushima ibyifuzo byawe bwite, ntabwo ari abandi bantu, ku buryo bikunze kwemera kumvikana nabakunzi. Ubu ni reaction isanzwe ihamya muri psyche yateye imbere. Ariko, ntugomba kugereranywa muri byose: gerageza kuzirikana ibyifuzo bya bose ugashaka inzira yo mubihe kibazo.
Kubura ubumenyi bwimibereho
Niba urebye kuri enterineti, hari blog nyinshi zifasha kubaka umubano wurukundo, ariko abantu bake bashakisha kurema inshuti. Nubwo mubihe byakwirakwijwe kuri interineti ikwirakwira, igihe kirageze cyo gukora iki kibazo. Abantu bagenda bavugana nabo mumiyoboro rusange, kandi ntibabeho, mubyukuri bikaba bibi mubuhanga bwo gushyikirana.
Vugana n'abantu bafite inyungu zisa
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Ibisabwa bigenda birushaho kuba byinshi
Ntabwo bihagije kurambura itsinda rimwe rya muzika cyangwa kuba abo mwigana kugirango batangire inshuti, nko mubana. Ibipimo by'ibanze by'ubucuti nyuma yimyaka 40 bishoboka kugirango uhana amakuru yingirakamaro kandi ugire akamaro mubindi bibazo. Noneho usobanukiwe ko guhuza ari ngombwa muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Niyo mpamvu gahunda nziza y'ibikorwa ari ugufatanya muri clubs mu nyungu kandi ugakora ku bushake ibyo nkunda byimazeyo. Ibi bizagufasha kuvugana nabantu bashishikajwe nibintu bimwe nawe.
Kubura amafaranga
Ikibazo cyibikoresho cyangiza umubano, nubwo cyaba cyiza. Niba inshuti iguhamagaye igikombe cyangwa igitekerezo kijyanye nimiryango mubiruhuko mumahanga, ariko ntamafaranga ufite, bitinde bitebuke uzahagarika gushyikirana. Ihitamo ryonyine rishoboka kuri wewe nugutangiza kwinjiza byinshi kugirango ukomeze inshuti.