Usanzwe ukuze, tuba utandukanye nababyeyi banjye mugihe kirekire, genda uza igihe n'aho ubishaka. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, ntamuntu numwe ufite ubwishingizi na we mugihe bagomba kwambuka ubwibone bagasubira munzu y'ababyeyi. Nubwo waba ufite umubano mwiza nababyeyi, hashobora kubaho ingorane mugutegura ubuzima buhuriweho, kuko umaze kumenyana kugirango ubeho ubuzima butandukanye bushobora kutumvikana kubabyeyi.
Kuki bitugora kubana nabantu bacu mugihe tumaze gukura? Reka tugerageze kubimenya.
Urubyiruko rwinshi rwatinze gufata icyemezo cyo kwimuka
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Itandukaniro ryibisekuru
Byemezwa ko umuntu asubira kubabyeyi mu buryo bukuze byanze bikunze kubera gutsindwa mubuzima. Ariko, niba wemera ko abahanga, ibisekuruza byaheruka gufata icyemezo cyo kuguma hamwe nababyeyi kandi muburyo budasiga ahantu hose. Biragoye kwerekana uko hashize imyaka 40, mugihe igice kirenga kimwe cya kabiri cyabasore bo muri Amerika babaga bayo, nubwo ari babi, ahubwo batandukanye nababyeyi.
Amateka asa agaragara mu Burusiya, aho imyaka "ya FADErs" kubera amazu yakuwe kuva mu myaka 20 kugeza kuri 25. .
NKUKO abahanga mu by'imitekerereze basobanura, ibisekuruza byabanjirije ubu ntabwo byari bifite umubano wa hafi n'ababyeyi babo, nkuko bibera mu rubyiruko rwa kijyambere. Abantu bambuka umupaka w'imyaka 30 batinze cyane kubabyeyi babo, bityo biragoye kugaruka mugihe ibintu bitunguranye.
Kwizizirwa mu mutwe
Byongeye kandi, impamvu yo gusubira kubabyeyi ntishobora kuba idahuye namafaranga gusa: abantu benshi ntibashobora kumenyera kuba munzu yundi, kabone niyo byaba aribwo ukunda. Umugereka ukomeye kuri aho umuntu yakuze, arashobora kukubangamira ubuzima bwe bwose. Ntakintu gitangaje: NYUMA YOSE, ababyeyi bonyine ni bo bonyine bumva murugo. Bibaho ko umusore atengushye mugenzi we, aho adashobora kubona urukundo nk'urwo rutagira icyo rushingiraho, ababyeyi bamuhaye.
Ibisekuru byinshi hamwe ningorabahizi bikaba munzu nto
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Wibuke ko utakiri umuntu wavuye iyi nzu
Ahari uzahura no gutenguha - ibyacu ndetse nababyeyi. Ntushobora kumva ibibazo, ariko impagarara zizaba hafi kumubiri: icyo ni uko ababyeyi bumva kandi bafite icyaha kubera kunanirwa kwawe, cyane cyane abanyamwuga.
Gerageza guteza imbere amategeko yo gucumbika hamwe n'ababyeyi bawe, reka tuvuge uburyo witeguye gushora imari mu ngengo y'imari y'umuryango, ni ikihe gihe ushobora guha abashyitsi mugihe usukuye, kandi iyo ababyeyi bari muri rusange, gusangira ibyo bakora, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira, gusangira inzu hamwe n'abaturanyi. Gusa, kuko ubu ubanye nababyeyi, ariko mubundi buryo, uhereye kumuntu mukuru.
kutagira isoni, abashakanye bakiri bato bagenda ako kanya nyuma yubukwe
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Ibyo ari byo byose, umubano mwiza n'ababyeyi babo, kandi nubwo bihurira gute kuboneka kwawe, gerageza kumenya vuba bishoboka n'amazu ku giti cye.