Ikibazo, umenyereye abagore benshi - kumva ko mubusabane bwa batatu. imyaka Niba nka mirongo itatu ishize, kwambuka na sweethearts wahoze ari aho ikibazo, bikaba byatumye kure, hanyuma na iterambere social networks, turacyafite kuguma mu abafatabuguzi buri ruhande, gukurikira ubuzima n'igice wahoze kabiri, gusoma posts si Igitangaje ni uko ibintu nk'ibi bashobora kongera gusubira inyuma, noneho kumva ko ari byiza cyane urukundo rushobora kugira ingaruka kumibanire nyayo, cyane cyane kubice bikomeye, akenshi ntibibona ko hakurura umubiri. Ariko, ntabwo buri gihe itumanaho ridasanzwe muri "Instagram" ryerekana ko umufatanyabikorwa waturutse muri wewe ahisha ikintu, tuzakubwira uko wakora, niba ugenda uhita ukeka ko ukeka.
Ntugafate imyanzuro yihuta
Twese tuzi ko abagore benshi bakeneye impamvu ya gato kugirango bihindure kuri trifles. Bibaho kandi ko kwandikirana ibyambere ntacyo bitwaye, ariko birasanzwe. Niba koko wafashe umufatanyabikorwa mubuhemu, ntugomba guteganya guteganya amashusho yashenguye - ntugomba kumenyesha umugabo wawe mbere yigihe, niba ibintu bitarane, reba kure kandi ugerageze gufata posoling.
Mu mibanire hashobora kubaho bibiri gusa
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Ntugategure hysteries kandi ntugakure ako kanya
Bibaho ko umugore atangiye icyambere - reka tuvuge ko, uzi neza ko umufatanyabikorwa n'abayoboke bayo batujuje. Inkonja na hysteries nta gusobanura impamvu wice umugabo wawe mubyukuri kuba adafite ubusa agerageza kugarura umubano washize - urahangayitse cyane. Ntukore impano kumugenzi utari wo n'umukunzi we mushya.
Ntukajye "kurundi ruhande"
Birumvikana ko nshaka "gusobanura" atari umuntu gusa, ahubwo no hamwe numugore uhindagurira gatatu mubucuti bwawe. Nkuko twabivuze, ni ngombwa kuri wewe kwerekana ko ushoboye kwitwara bihagije no mubihe nkibi bidashimishije. Urashobora kwizera udashidikanya - niba intonga yatsinzwe, umugabo, birashoboka cyane, azahaguruka kuruhande rwambere, bityo uzabasunikira kurushaho.
"Ibyiza"
Niba umubano wabo utarashoboye kongera gushimangira, gerageza gukoresha uburyo munsi yizina rya Codenate "Wellness": Incognito Menyesha umugabo cyangwa umugore we, ariko ubikore kugirango ubikore ndetse nonkeka. Rimwe na rimwe, umuvuduko nk'uwo urahagije kuri couple "stem", cyane cyane iyo umugabo yateguye urumuri Tekereza adakomeje.