Kurushaho kumenyana nabantu kandi biga inkuru zabo, uko ubyumva: nta sano yimitekerereze idashira idafite ibimenyetso. Bamwe batandukana kwisi kandi bashimira kwibuka ibyahoze, abandi - baricuza gutandukana ninzoka byose kugirango bagaruke, icya gatatu - umuvumo wahozeho abakunzi. Ibyo ari byo byose, ntamuntu numwe ushobora kwibagirwa umubano wabo wa kera - umugore asobanura impamvu ari ngombwa kwita ku guhitamo kwa mugenzi wawe nuburyo bwo kuva mubucuti byibuze.
Uburezi n'imyitwarire
Niba ufite amahirwe yo guhura numuntu uhagije uzamurwa mumuryango wuzuye, aho ababyeyi bakundana no kubaha abana, birashoboka ko uzishimira. Ni mu bwana umuntu azagira ingeso azaguza ababyeyi. Kurugero, niba papa yakunze guha indabyo za mama yica umuhungu we, mu nshyingo imwe, azatanga ibibarutso kubakobwa. Ni nako bigenda kuri konti rusange kandi itandukanye, kwita niba uyu mukobwa atarahagaritse, amufasha mugihe cyuburwayi ndetse nibindi bibazo byose. Birakwiye ko tumenya ko abakobwa nabo bagomba kuzirikana na mama, uburyo bwo kwita kumuntu ukunda. Ntabwo bihagije kuba umwamikazi, ugomba kuba umuntu uhagije wizize, utabarikane gusa inyungu zawe gusa, ahubwo ko ushobora kuvuga neza.
Ingeso yo kwita kumuntu wawe ukunda mubwana
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Gushima aho gutukwa
Akiri muto, abangavu benshi ntibazi kuvugana: biroroshe kubabaza umukobwa ukunda, kuruta kwatura mu mpuhwe. Abakobwa mubisanzwe bafite isoni gusa. Ni ngombwa ko kurwego rwo kwihesha agaciro, imyifatire ubwayo yahindutse gusa mubyahindutse mu magambo yacyo. Niba aho kuba ishimwe wunvise ibitutsi, hamwe nigihe, ndetse numuntu mwiza uzahagarika kwizera. Wibuke ko umuntu ukunda ari we uzagutera inkunga kandi akabura ibigo, kandi ntubakure muri wewe. Ntukihangane ibibi, uve muri abo bantu kandi ntureke ngo bajye muri bo. Ufite uburenganzira bwo kubwira umugabo "Ntabwo nkunda", nubwo waba mukunda kandi ubaha agaciro.
Ubuzima mu bihe byiza
Urashobora gutongana muburyo bwinshi bwo kuvuga amakosa, cyane cyane abagabo badafite ikintu akenshi bakora, ariko ntibishoboka guhakana ibitekerezo byicyifuzo cyumukobwa kugirango ubone hafi yumusore ufite umutekano. Niba ukorera kandi ukwirakwiza amafaranga yawe, ni ubuhe butumwa bwo guhura numunyeshuri ukennye? Birumvikana cyane kugirango ushake umugabo wurwego rwayo cyangwa hejuru gato, uzakomeza kumva neza, kandi ntabwo ari ibintu bitangaje. Ntutinye gufata impano, ugende kumatariki hanyuma ushake ibibyimba hamwe no kubyara murugo. Umuntu ukuze ubwumvikane ntazigera akuyobora ahantu adashobora kugura. Tera rero ibitekerezo ku rwego rwinjiza kandi wishimire igihe hamwe.
Amagambo adahungabana arashobora gutesha agaciro kwihesha agaciro
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Inkuru zubucucu
Hamwe nabantu bose baho barashobora kuba ibintu bidashimishije mugihe umusore azagushuka cyangwa ngo akomere. Muri ako kanya, ni ngombwa kurangiza umubano utagira ibitekerezo bijyanye no gukomeza, kugirango tumenye uruhare utarimo mubikorwa byayo, na nyuma - guhindukirira imitekerereze. Nyuma y'igihe, ubufasha bwatanzwe buzakiza imyaka ibiri y'ubuzima bwawe, yapfushijeho isesengura ry'imyitwarire ye. Uburezi bubi, iherezo rikomeye nibindi - ibisobanuro byose byubuzima bwe ntibigukoraho. Ninde ushaka bihagije kandi akizwa ubuzima bwabo, azabikora nubwo ibintu bimeze.