Buri mubyeyi agomba guhura nigihe kidateganijwe mubuzima bwumwana we, nkumuntu wingimbi: kuko umuntu arengana atamenyekanye, kandi indi miryango ihinduka ikizamini nyacyo. Byongeye kandi, ibintu akenshi ntibica abana gusa imyitwarire yabo, ahubwo no kandi abantu bakuru bagerageza kutemera, ahubwo bagerageza kwanga umwangavu, bityo bagahagarika urubyaro, bityo bagashyira ibibi kurushaho. Twatekereje kandi duhitamo kumenya ibihe biguhe kubyara gusa.
Uhora unengwa
Ikosa rikomeye ryababyeyi benshi, cyane cyane niba umwana ariwe wambere kandi wenyine. Mubwana, amabwiriza y'ababyeyi atsindishirizwa no kubura uburambe mumwana no kwifuza umushahara w'ababyeyi kuva mu bunararibonye. Kubireba ingimbi, gahunda nkiyi irashobora gutera kutangwa gusa, ahubwo igitero kumusore. Ikintu kibi cyane umubyeyi ashobora gufata mubihe umwana mwiza atabajije inama, - tangira kunenga ibyemezo no guhitamo umwana. Gerageza guhora ubona impamvu ituma umwana aje muburyo bumwe cyangwa ubundi, kunegura nuburyo bwo kubamo.
Rimwe na rimwe, icyifuzo gishobora guhinduka ikibazo cyubuzima
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Utwara stereotypes kubyerekeye ingimbi kumwana wawe
Buri wese muri twe ni umuntu ku giti cye, bivuze gukora imyanzuro idahwema, cyane cyane iyo bareba umwana wawe - gutakaza icyubahiro. Byemezwa ko ingimbi zose zitandukanijwe nimiterere idasanzwe, yifuza kandi kubura impuhwe kubantu bakuru. Bibaho, ariko, gushyira abantu bose mumurongo umwe - umwuga usanzwe udakwiriye. Urubyiruko rwinshi rushobora kwirata byinshi ku byagezweho no kwifuza kwikura kurusha abantu bakuru benshi. Reba iki ushishikajwe ningimbi yawe? Ahari ibyo utekereza guta igihe birashobora guhinduka mubibazo byubuzima.
Ntushobora gukeka
Birumvikana ko utagomba kureka ubuzima bwumwana wawe kuri Sayotek, ariko, bakeka ko umwana mubi, kandi, ntakwiriye gucika intege, cyane cyane niba dutegereje ibi. Uhe umwangavu wawe amahirwe yo kwiyerekana kuruhande rwiza, ntuzamureme ko "ntakintu na kimwe gishobora kuvamo." Wibuke ko imyanzuro yawe ishobora guca ubuzima bwumuntu.
Ntabwo wemera imico ye
Kimwe mu bibazo binini byabantu bakuru ba kijyambere ni ibidakwiye byabandi bantu. Isi ikura mu buryo bwihuse cyane ababyeyi mu bihe byose bizagenda neza inyuma, kandi ibihe bitazwi kandi ntibisobanutse mubuzima bwumwana burigihe bitera kutizerana, ubwoba no kurakara no kurakara. Bireke. Umwana yinjiye mumyaka yingimbi ni ngombwa kubona uburambe bwe, amaze kugerageza kumushimisha, atezimbere impano zayo. Nkuko twabivuze mubitekerezo, gerageza kumva impamvu umwana wawe abikora, kandi atari ukundi, wenda, birashoboka ko ishyaka ryumwangavu wawe ntacyo rimaze, nkuko wabibona ukireba. Ntukihutire imyanzuro.