Niba ingingo yo kurirwa mu bagore yaganiriweho cyane mu bitangazamakuru, n'abagore badashobora kubyara ndetse batera amatora mu mbuga nkoranyambaga, aho bagabanijwe n'ibyiyumvo byabo, ibisubizo by'ubushakashatsi n'ibitekerezo birambuye. Iyi ngingo ikoreshwa muri societe. Ndabona hano impamvu enye zingenzi:
Byabaye rero ko abana bareba cyane cyane nk'abana. Umugore yirukana umwana, abyara, yonsa nibindi, kandi uruhare rwumugabo bajya inyuma. Kubwibyo, niba aba bombi badashobora gutwita mumwaka, ibibazo bivuka cyane cyane kumugore.
Umugabo aragoye kumenya ubugumba. Kuberako hamwe nuburyo bwo kubyutsa, arashobora kuba mwiza, ariko ibinyabuzima byintanga ni ikibazo. Ariko ntazabimenya kugeza bahindukiriye andrologiste.
Ibintu byose bizwi kubyerekeye physiologise yimyororokere: ko umukobwa yavutse afite amagi, yeze mugihe cyubwangavu, ubushyuhe bwiza bwa selile nubushyuhe bwumubiri, ni dogere 36. Umugabo aragoye - intanga ze zivugururwa buri minsi 74. Kandi Spematozoa yumva neza ubushyuhe kuri dogere 33, bityo scorum mu mugabo isibwe, ni ukuvuga, ntabwo ari imbere, ariko hanze.
Umugore wiga kubumba bwe, afite uburenganzira bwo ko akajagari: Genda mubyiciro byose bituruka kwa kwangwa kwicisha bugufi no kwitegura gukemura ikibazo. Abagabo mubisanzwe ntabwo arira. Ni ukuvuga, akenshi ntushobora gukora iki kibazo, gutera urujijo mubyiyumvo byabo, gutera urujijo kubijyanye no kwisuzumisha nabantu bafite abana, no gukemura ibibazo - Gutanga, kurera cyangwa kwanga kubyara cyangwa kwanga kubyara.
Niba utekereza ko abagabo bafite isuzuma ry'ubuto buti bumva neza muri iyi si gusa kubera ko itabivugaho, ntabwo aribyo. Niyo mpamvu:
- Hariho guta imico inyuma yinyuma yibyo umugabo yumva afite inenge.
- Kwihesha agaciro birababara, nubwo umugabo adafite ibibazo muburiri kandi ahaza rwose umukunzi.
- Umwana ni amahirwe kubagore bombi, kandi kugirango umugabo agere kurwego rushya rwiterambere. Kudashobora kumva mubuzima bwumwana wawe ni ibintu bikomeye kandi byangiza amarangamutima.
- Umugabo aragira igitero no kutagira gitabara. Atangira guhindura amakosa ku mugore, guhagarika abayoborwa, kurakarira inshuti zifite abana. Muri rusange, umugabo arakomeye kuruta umugore wihanganira ubugumba.
- indwara za psychosomatique zirashobora kwigaragaza: kuva kuri dystonia y'ibimera kubibazo hamwe nubutumwa bubi hamwe nindwara zuruhu (umugabo ntashaka gukoraho).
Ariko hariho inkuru nziza. Ubwa mbere, uburyo bugezweho bwo kuvura ubumuga bwabagabo butanga iteganyagihe. Icya kabiri, abagabo bazi neza uburyo bwo kwishyura ubusa: bakubise siporo, imbwa, ibyo bakunda, gukusanya ibyuma nibindi "ibikinisho".
Ubuvuzi hamwe na psychologue ubishoboye yemerera umugabo kumva icyo ari umubyeyi - ibi ntibisobanura guha isi kopi ya genetike. Ibi ni byinshi cyane, kuko Data yumwana ari umuntu wigisha itumanaho yerekana ibibazo, koresha inzira yo mubihe bigoye, bisangiye uburambe, birinda kandi intege nke. Kugirango ushyire mubikorwa iyi mikorere yingenzi, ntabwo ari ngombwa kubikoresho byayo. Impano no kubabyeyi bamurerera ni ubundi buryo bukwiye. Amaherezo, urashobora gufata icyemezo cyo kumenya - guhagarika imiti, kubaho udafite abana. Ibi kandi ni amahitamo, ukeneye igihe cyo gusobanukirwa no gushyira ingingo kurugamba.