Ntamuntu wavutse numubyeyi mwiza, kandi ntibishoboka kugera ku butungane mu kurera abana, icyemezo cyonyine ni ugushaka uburyo buri mwana wabo. Umubyeyi uwo ari we wese azi ayo makosa yatanze mugihe kimwe cyangwa ikindi, kandi benshi muribo dukora mubujiji. Tuzatanga inama kubabyeyi bitiranya kandi tugashaka kumenya niba icyerekezo gikwiye kugenda muburere bwumwana wabo.
Umwana agomba kukwizera
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Umwana ntashidikanya ku rukundo rwawe
Urukundo rwababyeyi ntirukwiye gukenera kwemezwa. Umwana agomba kumenya ko mubihe byose uzamukunda kandi ugakomeza, ibyo aribyo byose nabi. Niba uhora wumva umuhungu wanjye cyangwa umukobwa wanjye: "Urankunda?" Birakwiye gutekereza kubyo ukora nabi.
Umwana akeneye gutukwa kubikorwa bye, kandi ntabwo ari kubaho
Nta rubanza rudashobora kuboneka mugihe umwana yakoze ikintu watemerwaga. Menyako, hari itandukaniro rinini riri hagati yinteruro: "Muri ibi bihe wabikoze ibicucu," na "Nigute ushobora kuba ibicucu kugirango ukore ikintu nkicyo!" Umwana mu buryo bwikora amenya iri sezerano muri rusange: Biramugora gutandukanya imico ye kubyo akora, bityo kunegura bisobanura gusuzuma nabi kumurimo wose kuri we. Kugirango wirinde ibi, gerageza utekereze kubintu byose ugiye kuvuga mukwa.
Nta butegetsi bwemewe
Kumwana uwo ari we wese, utitaye kumiterere ye, ijwi rikomeye ni umwicanyi wica. Kenshi na kenshi, ababyeyi barabivuga utabishaka, nuko bagerageza gusa kubabona. Gariyamoshi umwana ufite "umugabo nyawe", kandi mubyukuri basaba ibikomere biteye ubwoba bya psyche yihuta. Umwana ntagomba gutinya: Niba ubona ko buri gihe utegereje ko ubyemerewe, gerageza guhindura uburakari imbabazi no guha umwuka wawe umudendezo muto mu kwigaragaza.
Agomba kuvugana nawe kugirango agufashe.
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Umuntu wese arashobora gukora amakosa
Bose - abantu bakuru bombi, n'abana, ntibavuga ibi mu busore bwe. Uratekereza iki, abantu bakuru bakuru bakomoka he? Ibintu byose biva mu bwana. Iyo umwana akeneye guhora no mubihe byambere, areka amakosa abonye mubuzima - kuri we bahinduka imperuka yisi. Niba udashaka guhonyora psyche mugitangira inzira, reka gusaba ibidashoboka kandi uha umwana kubaho mu bwana namakosa ye yose.
Reka yerekane amarangamutima
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Uragaragaza kumugaragaro
Ababyeyi bakonje muri gahunda y'amarangamutima ikura abana bamwe batamenyereye kwerekana ibyiyumvo. Ariko, imvugo yamarangamutima nicyiciro cyingenzi cyo gusabana, hazakuze umwana azakenera gushiraho imikoranire yingirakamaro kandi yumve uko undi muntu aramutse ashaka kubaka umubano wizera. Reka umwana avuga nta mbogamizi agasobanura ibyo afite mubugingo, kandi kandi ntutinye kubikora wenyine.